Isn t life all about the catastrophe, the most difficult thing in life is the love catastrophe

Life is going through tribulations, and it can also be said that it is going through tribulations.

Summary. Everyone has a love story, sad or happy, for there is a kind of love, want to get, but can't, want to give up, and can't bear it, the most painful feelings in the world are like this, if the feelings are really so easy to let go, there will not be so much pain, which is why it is difficult to cross the love. Secondly, when you care about a person, you will give all your heart and feelings to that person, and when you are separated, you are very reluctant in your heart, and you are unwilling to get out of an ending relationship, just like holding a piece of ice in winter, from your fingers to your heart, so it is the most difficult to cross the love calamity.

Everyone has a love story, or sad or happy, for there is a kind of love, want to get, and pure annihilation, want to give up, and can't bear it, the most painful feelings in the world are like this, if the feelings are really so easy to let go, there will not be so much pain, which is why it is difficult to cross the love. Secondly, when you care about a person, you will give all your heart and feelings to that person, and when you open up, your heart is very reluctant, and you don't want to get out of an ending relationship, just like holding a piece of ice in winter, from the fingers to the heart, so the love catastrophe is the most difficult to cross.

Is there any way to do it? Can be spent.

Be calm and don't dodge.

I always feel like I'm suffering from gains and losses. But he said I had always had me. And my heart never felt him.

Feelings are a thing, it's indescribable, it's useless for you to hide, you either face it seriously, talk about it, and you'd better let go, don't squeeze it in your heart.

I just don't know how to let go, but I miss him every time. Sometimes I want to find a job when I am waiting for a job, so I am so busy that I can forget him, but I can't forget it. Because I've been spending too much time lately, I've been too idle.

Find something to do.

Change the environment and change the mood.

Start a new relationship all over again.

I'm a big crack quarrel and I go back to a little girl to talk to him about love, but my heart is so small that I find that I can't do it. In addition to talking to him, I found out who I was talking to, and I found that I felt disgusting. And this kind of shelter is disgusting or disgusting.

You don't have to think about anything, change the environment, stay away from everything from him, so that the self-heating will change.

I was reluctant to leave him, and he didn't say he was going to break up with me.

So what is your reason?

Let's talk about it. I think he works 24 hours a day in the confinement center, and I never see his people, so I always think about it in my head.

Don't think about it, if you really love him, you don't doubt him, believe him.

I remember when I was in school, a classmate told me that her former teacher told them that people come to this world to suffer, so babies cry and leave their mother's womb.

Now that I think about it, it also makes sense, didn't people come to this world to survive the catastrophe?

When people express their blessings to others, they often like to say, "I wish you peace in your life." But how many people can really live a peaceful life without stumbling.

Life is short for decades, and different periods will experience different things. These different experiences will definitely bring you different experiences and different experiences.

If you want to be self-reliant, you must first learn to deal with your own affairs. So in infancy, parents will train you to teach you to talk and walk first.

When it comes to walking, it's not a one-step process. It is necessary to practice step by step, slowly, if you don't pay attention to the process, you will fall on your heels, and only when you fall on your heels will you know that you should be careful when you walk in the future. After surviving the small tribulations on the road, I became more and more flexible, and later I was able to walk independently without the help of others.

After the early childhood, it is the age of youth and adolescence. When you are young and young, you must learn various knowledge and skills to equip yourself with eighteen kinds of martial arts. In order to lay a solid foundation for entering the society, after surviving this calamity, we have the conditions to enter the society.

After entering the society, the calamity you will experience is to let you learn to deal with all kinds of events in the future, sharpen your will and ability to deal with things. Let your long life find the direction of your efforts.

Celebrities still have to go through twists and turns before they succeed, so it's not too hypocritical to feel sorry for themselves after experiencing a little setback.

Life is a catastrophe. Packing up our mood, preparing our equipment, and actively facing this "catastrophe" is what we should do.

Summary. Everyone comes to this world, from the first cry, they don't know why they cry first, they don't know the meaning of the come, they come naked, and they come to the world unprepared. Is it really a catastrophe?

It depends on the parenting of the parents and their own creation. Some people through the process of family development, social activity environment, and their own efforts, from birth to old age, a life of peace and happiness, just like Buddhism said, ability can only save oneself, great achievements, capable people can benefit sentient beings, this depends on one's own creation, with creation also have one's own conscience. But there are a very small number of people, perhaps because of the growth situation of the family, entering the society and hitting walls everywhere, the atmosphere is unfair to everyone in the world, hatred of the society, their own life of hard work, in vain, a lifetime of suffering, everywhere hit the wall, a body is very like a rat crossing the street, everyone shouts and beats, it is really a catastrophe.

I hope that all people in the world should not have the same mentality as a few people, to live a relaxed and happy life, we must start from ourselves, to be magnanimous, quality, educated, not only to work hard, but also to look at this world with a beautiful heart, give up all small resentment, hatred, hostility and all ambitions, easily and easily communicate with all relatives and colleagues around us, and quickly move towards the beauty and happiness of mankind.

People are born to cross the calamity.

Can you add, I don't quite understand it.

Everyone comes to this world, from the first cry, they don't know why they cry first, they don't know the meaning of the come, they come naked, and they come to the world unprepared. Is it really a catastrophe? It depends on the parenting of the parents and their own creation.

Some people through the process of family formation, the social activity environment of the mausoleum, and their own efforts, from birth to old age, a life of peace and happiness, just like Buddhism said, the ability can only save themselves, great achievements, capable people can be universal sentient beings, this depends on the creation of the person, with the creation of the conscience of the person. But there are a very small number of people, perhaps because of the growth situation of the family, entering the society and hitting walls everywhere, the atmosphere is unfair to everyone in the world, hatred of the society, their own life of hard work, in vain, a lifetime of suffering, everywhere hit the wall, a body is very like a rat crossing the street, everyone shouts and beats, it is really a catastrophe. I hope that all people in the world will not have the same mentality as a few people, if you want to live an easy and unbridled life, you must start from yourself, be magnanimous, have quality, and be educated, not only to work hard, but also to look at this world with a beautiful heart, give up all small resentment, hatred, and hostility of all ambitions, easily and easily communicate with all the relatives and colleagues around you, and quickly move towards the beauty and happiness of mankind.

Summary. Hello, dear, the crosser crosses himself, and the self-ferryer Tiandu means that when it is misunderstood, it will take a lot of time to justify. Everybody is actually very stubborn.

Instead of trying hard and painfully to reverse the judgment of others, it is better to suffer in silence and give others a little more time and space to understand. To cross a person is to lead a person from this shore of troubles to the other shore of purity. It is easy to get rid of one's troubles with the power of wisdom, and it means that it is easy to teach others and realize that it is easy for others, and often they have a lot of troubles that cannot be eliminated.

The crossing person is a bodhisattva who has compassion and automatically educates sentient beings and is an uninvited friend. Life is to cross the calamity, which means that life is to complete oneself and experience what one wants to experience. To cross people is to lead people from this shore of reality to the other shore of ideals; Self-crossing is to get rid of difficulties and achieve sublimation with one's own strength.

And self-discipline means that you must first sublimate your wisdom and pull yourself out of the predicament first. Hope mine can be helpful to you.

People are born to cross the calamity.

Can you add, I don't quite understand it.

Hello, dear, the crosser crosses himself, and the self-ferryer Tiandu means that when it is misunderstood, it will take a lot of time to justify. Everybody is actually very stubborn. Instead of trying hard and painfully to reverse the judgment of others, it is better to suffer in silence and give others a little more time and space to understand.

To ferry people is to lead people from this shore of troubles to the other shore of purity. It is easy to get rid of one's troubles with the power of wisdom, and it is easy to cross oneself means to teach others and realize that it is easy for others, and often they have a lot of troubles that cannot be eliminated. The crossing person is a bodhisattva who has compassion and automatically educates sentient beings and is an uninvited friend.

Life is to cross the calamity, which means that life is to complete oneself and experience what one wants to experience. To cross people is to lead people from this shore of reality to the other shore of ideals; Self-crossing is to get rid of difficulties and achieve sublimation with one's own strength. And self-discipline means that you must first sublimate your wisdom and pull yourself out of the predicament first.

I hope mine can be of any help to you.

A hundred years of life, one thought and one reincarnation, is just to teach people how to choose. All living beings are suffering, and the only way to cross is to cross themselves. Be your own ferryman and repair your Buddha's heart.

1: Young love.

Some people say that love for people when you are young is a lifetime, and love for a wrong person is the whole youth.

I don't know how many people, the one I liked when I was young, can accompany me to the end. We have all been young and frivolous, and all cherishing must be understood by loss.

The one who taught us maturity was learned by countless quarrels and tears. He grew up hurting you, but he gave gentleness and thoughtfulness to those who came after him. The most ironic thing in love is none other than that:

The predecessors planted trees and the later people enjoyed the shade. However, we can only meet a better version of ourselves if we have experienced a desperate effort to like a person to the extreme.

2.Middle-aged hardship.

When a person reaches middle age, in addition to not daring to be vulnerable, not daring to cry, and not daring to get sick, the saddest thing is that he does not even have the right to die. There are old and young, and when he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who want to rely on him. Supporting parents, buying their own houses and cars, children going to school and housing in the district, and normal human feelings, none of them can leave money.

There is no money to take anything to strengthen your love and maintain your family affection. Talking about money is a particularly cheesy thing. No money is really no confidence.

Only with a house can the family sleep peacefully; With a career, children can step on their shoulders and fly higher; With savings, parents can spend their old age comfortably.

It is difficult for middle-aged people, they can't support their families if they give up their jobs, and they give up their jobs to accompany their families, and the so-called adult life is not easy. However, life is a process of experience, and we must believe that the burden of moving forward now will definitely be exchanged for the quiet years in the future.

3.Elderly cross-hearted.

The most difficult practice in life is to reconcile with oneself, to pass the difficult hurdles, and to pass the hurdles of oneself. Only by letting go of obsession can we be at ease.

If it is said that youth is a kind of unruliness that rushes all the way; Middle age is to experience the vicissitudes of thousands of mountains and rivers; Then, old age is to arrive at a calm place and deal with it calmly.

Life is a practice, crossing people's hearts and oneself. See through and don't say it, know people without judging people, and know reason without arguing. The older the time, the weaker the hearts of the people. I hope we can all taste the true taste of the world in the ordinary years.

Crossing the Zen and attacking the tribulation and being reborn means to survive the tribulation and get reborn.

Crossing the Heavenly Tribulation is a term for Taoism, a native Chinese religion, and the Heavenly Tribulation is a calamity (also referring to calamity and difficulty) when a person does something contrary to the principles of heaven, the heavens will give him punishment or disaster. Just as a cultivator goes against the heavens and tries to cultivate a true immortal with the body of a mortal, the heavens will send down a heavenly calamity. In Chinese history and legend, people have always pursued the practice of martial arts and Taoism to transcend the limits of life.

The Heavenly Tribulation is a kind of restriction on the tyrannical life in the natural world, and only after experiencing the baptism and transformation of the Heavenly Tribulation can the transcendent body of the divine body be refined, and those who cannot survive it will be turned into ashes and return to the origin of heaven and earth.

Epocalypse is also a unit of time.

Taoists say that heaven and earth are destroyed into one catastrophe. The sorcerer also refers to the doomed fate, the great calamity, and the great limit. It is one of the macroscopic concepts of ancient Taoism.

Ancient Taoist legends say that after tens of thousands of years, the universe will return to the beginning and start again. Taoism takes the innate 36,000 as a catastrophe; The day after tomorrow is 3,000 years for a catastrophe. "Hug Puzi Pillow Book" Yuan Shijun went through a catastrophe, was a Shi Taixuanmu, gave birth to the emperor thirteen heads, and ruled 36,000.

Thirty-six Sutra Notes: All worlds have a great calamity in three thousand years, and a small calamity in five hundred years.

Buddhism often uses the concept of time as a number of eons, which is divided into small, medium, and major eons.

1. Small robbery. According to the Mahabhasha, the life expectancy starts at the age of 10 and increases by one year every 100 years, reaching 84,000 years old. And from the age of 84,000 years, every 100 years is reduced by one, and the age of ten is the greatest reduction. This increase and decrease, a total of 16,798,000 years, is called a small catastrophe.

This saying is often found in the scriptures, such as the Lotus Sutra teaches the Bodhisattva Dharma, the Buddha protects the thoughts, and the sixty eons cannot be seated; When the listener also sits in one place, the body and mind are not moved for sixty eons, and listening to what the Buddha says, it is like eating. 」

2, the middle robbery. Twenty small tribulations, totaling 335.96 million years, are called one middle eon.

3. The Great Tribulation. To sum up, Chenghe holds the four calamities such as the bad void, which is called a great calamity; It is the beginning and end of a world.

The second volume of the Yogi's Treatise on the Land records that in this world, the twenty calamities are broken, the twenty calamities are empty, the twenty calamities are complete, and the twenty calamities are completed. That is, 80 eons are one great eon, totaling 26,876.8 million years.

Hinduism is different from Buddhism in that they believe that 1 eons = 1,000 mahayuga, 1 eons = 4 yugas = 12,000 days, and 1 day year = 360 solar years, so 1 eons = 4,320,000,000 years, i.e. one day of Brahma. One day and one night of Brahma is 8.64 billion years on earth. The year of Brahma (360 days and nights) is 3,110.4 billion years on earth.

A century of Brahma, or a great eon, is 3,110,040,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,