He said he didn t want to be in love, he wanted to be alone, he felt so annoying and tired in love,

I don't know if you're still there.

How old are you? Since he said that, maybe he really felt a little tired. I don't know exactly what he thinks.

But what you have to do is not to let these things affect your life too much, don't think about these things all the time, I know you will feel that I am not helping you with ideas when I say this, and you will also feel that what I say is easier said than done, no matter which party you are in love, you must learn to protect yourself, he naturally has his thoughts when he says that, at least for the time being, he doesn't want to be with you for the time being, maybe he needs to calm down for some time. What you have to do is to be yourself, you need to talk about it, but it should be natural, not you can call it out and say this, (I mean the time and place of the talk are also very important) such as when you care about playing, there is a chance for two people to be alone... Girls can be arrogant, even if they are injured, they must be arrogant, if you still give him ** every day, say these things every day, he will definitely be annoyed, and he will feel that you are spineless, etc., you can keep it appropriately, pay attention to it appropriately...

You can stream a place in your heart. Of course it's good that he wants to come back, but he won't come, and he will leave it to others later... It's not disloyalty, not single-mindedness, he really wants to leave, and you can't keep it.

I just want you to learn to protect yourself. The opportunity is given to him by you, not by you begging him.

He's said so, what else are you going to do? It's better to let go and leave in stride.

Let go, if he doesn't love it, he doesn't love it.

Communication doesn't solve the problem.

Let him be quiet first, but care for him in the dark. No matter what he wants, as long as he hasn't given up, there is hope. But now don't bother him too much, people will always spend a little time against themselves, you have to believe in him and be loyal to her! At this point, there should be an end.

My boyfriend said that he didn't want to fall in love anymore, and he felt so tired and tired from falling in love with me. But after asking many times he still said that he still likes me, just now I asked if he likes even a little bit, and he said that he has always liked it, how can I get him back?

Yes, I just said not to break up, and then change the way we get along, the first time he said that he really didn't want to talk about it, and then the second time he said casually, anyway, it's unified, we won't break up now, and then come out tomorrow to talk about a different way of getting along, what should I do now?

What was the pattern you used to be.

Before, it was basically what I said, and then after the conflict, he was a very introverted person, and he wouldn't just say how to coax me, but I always forced him, and then sometimes he was always unreasonable to him.

How long have you been talking, are you living together?

Maybe he thinks that you are usually unreasonable, he feels tired, in fact, his personality is that kind of inner type, he can't say anything nice, and he can't express it much, he talked for more than eight months, and he didn't live together, because of the epidemic from April to last week, in fact, his changes have also been in this month or so, and then recently he started to be cold to me, and then this and that, until today, he said he didn't want to talk about it.

Yes, he is not very good at expressing his inner feelings.

He's a person who doesn't express much, so he won't coax when he quarrels, and after a long time, he will be annoyed, so there will be this kind of emotion, I also thought of this, and then later just now, he also sent me a new avatar to change, and then the mood was good, but after about 20 minutes, I sent him a long paragraph that I knew I was doing something wrong, and he didn't reply to me, he shouldn't be sleeping at this time.

It's okay, as long as there is no breakup, there is still room for redemption, didn't he promise you to talk to you.

The main thing is that I'm a little scared, will he really dislike me after this incident.

Probably not, after all, you've been talking for eight months, and you have a certain emotional foundation.

No matter what the reason, if a man decides to give up, then no matter what you try, it can't be recovered, instead of groveling to keep it, it is better to wave your hand freely and turn around, barely maintain the relationship is not reliable for a long time, and pursue it again, after all, you are young and have capital.

Question: No.

Or did he suddenly say that he was going to break up with you?

The question he meant that he felt that his job was very stressful, that he didn't have the time or money to fall in love right now, and that he didn't want to talk about it anymore and that he wanted to be single.

Then you just say, we can earn it together if we don't have any money, I don't need much time from you, just spend time with me.

Question: I don't need him to spend money, I don't need material things now, he said that he wants to work hard to make money without worries and pressure.

Money often unmakes the men who make it.

Ask me what to do, I don't want to be in this relationship.

It's useless to ask what has been asked.

These words can be said to the face to the face, and the effect can be obvious.

It is said on the Internet that many things cannot be felt.

Then you should break up decisively, after all, your boyfriend has already expressed it like this, and if you still pester him, it will seem that you are very undignified.

Loving someone is not necessarily about how much money you have to pay for it, but about giving your own feelings. But it's still better to have some economic basis in mind. For example, if you walk on the street and see an item, you can think that the other party will like it, and buy it and give it to the other party without hesitation.

This is to maintain a certain economy.

Love focuses on a heart. But how to express one's heart and let the other party feel it depends on one's own slow practice and development to know. Everyone's love style is different, and they can't be deliberately imitated, and the love that is imitated is someone else's, not their own.

Talk casually, love is a happy thing, haha

Be more considerate of each other and do what they like for each other

First of all, let's talk about why you are in love. The following is purely my own personal opinion. I think the first is the need, the need of life, the prerequisite for getting married in the future, falling in love is a part of life, it is a feeling.

Secondly, love should be like and appreciate each other. At least it's pleasing to the eye when they look at each other.

So, falling in love is for your own happiness. I think marriage and love are not for others, they are all for themselves. Therefore, you must use your own vision, your own heart, your own actions, and your own understanding to fall in love.

Now let's talk about how to fall in love. Love, literally, attachment, admiration. We should be reluctant to give up on each other and feel good about each other.

So in a relationship, you have to have feelings. To give, to try to pay feelings, only when there are feelings for each other, love is successful. Okay, of course, it's reluctant.

Not good, of course it's 88. If the two parties in a relationship do not try to understand each other, how can they find each other's shining points and how to appreciate each other. As long as there is more contact.

I think this kind of understanding is deeper, and the deeper the understanding, the more feelings. If you have more feelings, you will naturally fall in love.

The most important thing in falling in love is to give and give feelings. Let others feel you, and at the same time you feel others.

There is a way to fall in love, because there is a way and a method of action to act. The same goes for love.

Some people like to go to the park, some people watch movies, some people like to eat, some people like karaoke, some people like to party, anyway, there are all kinds of people who like it. But I don't think it really matters what you do, the most important thing is to participate, and it's good to do whatever two people do together. Be accommodating to each other and feel each other in the activity.

I want to feel the joy of being in love in this way. Falling in love is about feeling the feeling of being able to feel between two people in any environment.

That means it's not fun, it's just that you haven't found the right person, so let it go and show understanding.

It was fine at first, but it slowly faded later.

There is nothing simple, everything has to be simple.

Don't talk about it, when you find something you really like, you can't stop talking about it.

Is it really about falling in love? You don't have to speak, you just use your eyes to convey your mind.

Then don't talk about it, if you already talk about it, the object that makes you tired is not too good ......

Why bother with your heart, you will regret that day with your heart

How can you live so happily and live in style.

He hasn't been in love himself, he feels very naïve, I want to ask who is born to fall in love, who hasn't had the experience of falling in love for the first time, always learn to try! He says he likes you, but there's also a subtext. I like you but I don't want to be with you, because I haven't been in a relationship, to put it bluntly, he doesn't want to give you his first love, he feels that he likes you to the point where he doesn't break the rules, and the so-called naivety is just an excuse.

I don't want to fall in love, it's just that I haven't met someone who makes me want to put it off! He doesn't want to be with you, but he advises you to find someone else, of course, some people will send someone else they like into someone's arms, but only if you see the situation clearly. In your current situation, what reason does she have to send you into someone else's arms, it's not because he doesn't like you enough.

Maybe he won't say that he is afraid that you will be separated after you are together, so he just wants to keep a half-friend relationship, but he has already confessed, do you think it is appropriate to be friends again? Can I go back? And you want a boyfriend, not a friend.

AnswerOf course, no matter what kind of choice you make, you should follow your heart and not regret it, because there is no turning back from the bow, and it is meaningless to always regret what happened to the past, but this state is also strange, after all, you should want to fall in love when you meet someone you like.

Therefore, in the end, you still have to give it a try, and only after you try it will you know what kind of role and life attitude you are suitable for.

I think there are only two ways to do it. One is to give up directly, and the other is to continue to wait.

There is also a possibility that he said that he likes you just to reject you and not hurt you too much, and the reasons he said are just excuses for rejecting you, if you can realize this, in fact, you can only give up in front of you, because if a boy really has no feelings for you, then no matter how long it will not be felt.

All in all, I think it's all your personal choice, but you have to remember that some things are worth the wait, but if you really can't get it, don't indulge in it, and find your next love.

If you really like him, then don't give up, stay by his side until he agrees, after all, he also has feelings for you, so the possibility of the two of you being together is still very high, he said that he wants you to change someone, probably because he has not had this kind of first reaction when he was confessed before, don't be disheartened by this, you said that the other party is an honest, naïve boy, so since you choose to like him, you must learn to tolerate him.

Let me tell you a story about my roommate who is in a similar situation, I hope it will inspire you. The roommate fell in love with a very shy boy in my class, so through half a year, he successfully chased him into his hand, she first added the boy's friend, chatted with the boy every day on QQ, the boy slowly got used to her existence, and then the two chatted and chatted with each other and had some ambiguous feelings.

At this time, the roommate made a big move, haha, she posted a post looking for a boyfriend on the post bar, intentionally or unintentionally letting the boy know that she wanted to find a partner, and then the roommate also said to the boy she liked, how do you feel about so-and-so, is it appropriate for me to be with him......and so on, which successfully aroused his jealousy, and in the end, it was my roommate who was chased by the boy first, and the ending was happy, and the two of them have been together for two years now.

So, if you want to be with that boy, don't give up easily, he just hasn't seen the importance of your existence yet, you are by his side, grinding and grinding until he can't do without you, getting used to your existence, grabbing his heart like this, isn't it easy, love, sometimes it has to be gradual, you can't eat a big fat man in one bite, so you have to use patience to conquer that boy, so that he can't leave you is the best way.

If a person who has a history of love says that he doesn't want to be in a relationship, then it may be that he was hurt in the last relationship. But a guy who has never been in a relationship, after you confess to him, he also admits that he has a crush on you, but still says that he doesn't want to be in a relationship, then there are at least three possibilities.

First, he has a good impression of what you say, which is just a white lie. As you said, he is a boy who has never been in a relationship, so he doesn't know how to reject others, and he is afraid that his rejection will cause harm to you, so he would rather say that he is not good, that he feels naïve, and will not directly show that he does not like girls like you.

The second kind, he panicked. When people encounter their unknown things, they will behave a little flustered, a boy who has never been in love suddenly accepts the girl's confession, his heart must be panicked, there is no way to give an answer immediately, I believe he can say that he has a good impression of you, and it took a lot of courage, but if he gives an answer immediately, whether to confirm the relationship with you, I believe he can't do it, you have to give him time, let yourself become a habit that he can't quit, and slowly he will accept you.

Third, he feels that he has more important things to do than in a relationship right now. If he is a student, then he may think that his studies are the most important thing, and falling in love is a childish behavior that will affect his current studies, so even if he has a crush on you, he will not fall in love. If he has entered the society and is a professional person, then in his thinking mode, he may feel that a man should start a business first and then start a family, and then consider love after his career is stable, and when he should work hard for his career, he doesn't want to let himself think about so many things about his children's affection, and he doesn't want love to distract his energy.

At this time, you need to have the same goal with him, so that he can feel that your existence does not conflict with his goal, if he wants to learn, then you can study with him, it will not affect him, if he wants to work hard, you can also discuss with him on some problems at work, always be by his side, and become his help.