Ask the masters about emotional matters, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-28
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It hurts me to read your part.

    I want to ask you, why did you fall in love with her without asking her clearly about the other party's situation when you chased her in the first place? If you are angry, you won't chase her, I want to ask you, do you chase her because you like her or do you have any purpose to chase her, if you like someone, you give up like this, do you like her??? Why do you want to chase her again after another half a year, is it because you are lonely and empty, or do you still like her???

    You think she's very conflicted, how do you know that if she ignores you, she just tells you to stop pestering her??

    What should you do? If you think about what I'm asking first, I don't understand why you like someone like that.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Make it clear to her.

    You like her. You love her so badly.

    Ask her if she can give up her current boyfriend for you.

    In love. Love. It is not based on guilt and compassion and charity.

    Like. Just together.

    Dislike. You just let it go.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Tell you that her affection for you is not love. Just because of gratitude, I can't bear to hurt you. For her, if you can give up, give up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you really like it, say it out loud, as a man, you have to dare to love and hate, don't hesitate, like you, the daylily is cold!! Depending on your situation, you might as well give it a try, even if it doesn't work, it will be the same result as if you don't say it!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    First of all, you can talk to your partner to show that you have a good idea of him or her before.

    Now, after getting along for so long, do you only see you this way recently, or have you always seen you this way after getting along.

    If you have been with you for a long time and only see you like this recently, it means that he has increased his requirements for you. You may have been "still" in his mind before.

    If he keeps looking at you like this after getting along with you, then it means that he has lost his eyes before he understands you.

    In short, he doesn't have anything to be fussy about your appearance. Probably not very happy with your character. It is recommended to improve yourself to maturity, and there are still many opportunities to recover her, remember, no matter how much you fall in love with him (her) in the future, no matter how much you love him (her), you must not lose your original self in your life.

    Maintain your own independent personality and character, but at the same time change your own bad habits (here's a myth: don't think that keeping your bad things is keeping your original personality).

    Improve yourself, and after a year, even if you don't chase her back, you will still receive a full load. Whether it's life or love, look forward (money).

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Change your mentality, leave a certain amount of freedom for each other not to interfere, and the two of you can talk about it, hoping to understand and tolerate each other.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe it's because your true fate hasn't arrived yet. You have to be patient. Fate comes by waiting. If you are in a hurry to find it, you will have rotten peach blossoms.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since you broke up, don't care, think about it well, and there will be someone in the future who can accept your lack of assertiveness, careful eyes, and naivety.

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