Is the relationship gone? What am I going to do???

Sometimes the difficult thing is how to get out and start over, when everything starts again, it will be smooth, first of all, this boy has machismo tendencies, he thinks those things are not men, secondly, he can't give you the care you want, and after what you said above, I feel that it is really a miracle that you can be together for four years to be honest, I don't mean to be sarcastic, but, I think maybe his feelings for you are not to the point where he is willing to do anything for you, maybe, the love is not deep, if you can, Let's not quarrel and sit together and talk about it, talk about how you get along, if you still feel as bad as you do now after you talk about it, I think you really need a start, sometimes giving up is a relief.

Don't be so tired, you can talk to him well, if it doesn't improve, then separate, such a man is not worth it for you to do so much for him, and girls must love themselves, don't rely on others, come on.

According to your description, I don't think he loves you at all, otherwise why would he not want to go to the hospital when you are sick?

I think that trivial things like not washing clothes and cooking can be forgiven (forgive), but if you are sick, at that time the patient needs the most care, but he does not accompany you, it is simply unforgivable, no wonder you can't let go of this matter, if it were me, I would also mind this matter.

Why don't you have a good talk with him and see what he plans for your future, and then make a decision.

Also, sometimes you are reluctant to separate, not necessarily because of love, most of the time it is because you are used to it, you are used to having him by your side, if you are not by your side, you will not be used to it, so you are reluctant.

There is a saying: willing, willing, giving will be gained.

Long pain is better than short pain, let's talk to him deeply.

You know your own affairs best, if you leave him and don't regret it in the future, then leave him, forget him, and start over.

Choose to leave, I feel like he doesn't love you!

A life is still a long time, so start your new life early.

Nowadays, many people's marriage is to say that they have feelings, they feel funny, they say they have no feelings, they have children, they say that they are not good to you, and they don't make you hungry, they say that they are not big, they seem to be not big, live a good life, and feel what are the shortcomings, and unconsciously live the lives of two people into one person, in fact, marriage is not terrible, the worst is not to leave, the terrible thing is that you can't find a reason to leave, but there is no motivation to continue, you can't talk about unhappiness, but you can't see hope, and you don't understand what the meaning of marriage is.

<> some people feel that they should not continue. As long as money can maintain a normal life, love is the essence of marriage.

To be honest, contemporary people don't need to live together so much, and the great development of home intelligence has made housework and other affairs insignificant, and many couples can be independent economically.

Contemporary people get married, stay with another person day and night for a long time, and tolerate some different habits and little tempers of the other person, in fact, it is more because of love.

If two people love each other, then they will be full of love and water, and their lives can be passed; The two of them look at each other and hate each other, so there is really no reason to continue to stay together, it is better to be okay with each other.

Because of the atomization of social interaction, people nowadays tend to be more lonely than before, and lack real friends and relatives, so they will seek that kind of strong affection in their partners.

More important than money, is companionship and warmth, the kind of feeling that with this person by your side, you feel that this life is good and that he is enough.

If your partner can't give you that feeling, it's better to break up.

Anyway, I think now that as long as the money is returned, there will be no emotion without emotion, and it doesn't make a difference if you find anyone anyway, at least the child's father.