What do you think of the people in the village who like to gossip and watch jokes?

People who like to gossip are generally the "leaders" of a small group, which is a professional name called "opinion leader" in our advertisement.

According to my observation, the hearts of people who like to gossip can be roughly divided into three situations, the first is that she hopes to gain the approval of others by sharing gossip. They generally have a keen sense of insight and have a keen ability to grasp the wind and grass around them.

In addition to the news from the teacher or the regular news of the announcement, another channel is her gossip. If her information is more often than the official one and more accurate, then she will gain the approval of others and become the leader of a small group. The second type of person will be more likely to want to break into an already established circle by sharing gossip.

Although it is not wise to exchange a secret or gossip for a friend, thus opening the door to a circle, it must be admitted that this is the quickest method. Especially when chatting with women, most of the friendships between girls are built in the process of sharing gossip with each other. However, this kind of person is too eager for quick success and quick profit, and it is not suitable for deep friendship, because there is no impermeable wall in the world, and the secret you tell without concealment today may become the talk of others after dinner tomorrow.

The third type of person is the purest, which is a personal habit and life preference of hers. It is true that gossip is in the nature of women, at least in terms of the degree of gossip that women are much higher than men. But in terms of degree, some people are lighter, some people are heavier, some people will hide the gossip they have observed, and some people will make it public, which is also inseparable from the individual's character.

Just be yourself, don't look at what others do, they don't have any vital interests with you.

Aren't people like this, do what you should do, and really help you look forward to it

Get away from the gossip in the countryside and go to live in the city.

That's someone else's business, we just have to do our own thing.

Hello, people in the countryside just like gossip, that's because they haven't read much books and have no cultural quality. I like to watch the excitement, tell jokes, and like to make noise.

Because many people in the countryside are not very highly educated, so they have no cultivation and no quality, and always like to get together to gossip about others and laugh at others, of course, such people just have no cultivation, after all, many people in the countryside have little reading and no culture, unlike people in the city, everyone is busy with their own things, they don't get together, and they always talk about some gossip.

I like to say that people who gossip and watch jokes are themselves people of very low quality, and there is a saying that crows still laugh at pigs and black.

Not all people in the village gossip, this kind of thing is also divided into places, and in some places everyone in the village is busy making money.

As a young man who has been away all the year round, you can't go back to the village a few times a year, and every time you go home, the people in the village stare at you, just curious about what you are doing again, and there is no actual gossip. I think the most important point is that you have reached the age of late marriage, but you are still single, which is the main reason why you are watched. Of course, this also has something to do with the fact that people in your village like to gossip.

There is relatively little recreation in the village, and everyone uses their parents to spend time in a short time. In fact, there are few such situations in the village now, but there are still many places, many middle-aged and elderly people have no pastime, chatting around the village all day long, and occasionally playing mahjong and cards. And among these people, you can basically understand the trivial details of each family within a radius of ten miles.

This is their way of life and their entertainment channel.

If you really live in such a place, it is not unacceptable for everyone to watch when you go home. Because whoever comes back will be watched, and you are not the special one.

Gossip is a thing that doesn't matter age, but it really divides places. In the past, people in our village also gossiped, and every time they met acquaintances on the way home, they would always be watched by all kinds of onlookers, but now this is not the case.

With the continuous development of the economy, there are many job opportunities in our village, and there are no idlers in the streets and alleys. Everyone is trying to make money to support their families, and they have worked hard to make their family conditions better. When I go back to my hometown at this time, I basically don't meet acquaintances on the street, and even if I do, I just say hello, and everyone is in a hurry to make money.

Everyone has such a thing as gossip fire, and being watched is mainly because of your personal factors and the level of local economic development. But I don't think there's really any need to care so much about this kind of thing, and there will be no shortage of meat for people to see.

Try to live your life well, when you are good enough, you will see smiling faces every time you go back to the village, this is the philosophy of some people's survival.

Gossip is actually the nature of each of us, and we can't be discriminated against just because we are from the village. You have to think that they must have not seen you in a long time and want to know how your life has been going lately.

It's not because of gossip, but they want to see what you've made a name for yourself out there and if you're promising.

I think it's a kind of mentality that loves to watch good shows. In fact, I think everyone should be more or less gossip in life, because of curiosity, so I want to know some news about the people around me, but it's normal, but people who like to talk about other people's gossip too much are really annoying.

Gossip will vary from person to person. Your attitude towards gossip sometimes also depends on your upbringing and education. Gossip is when people expose their inner words, which may give them a little release, which is also the need to confide.

But gossip must be moderate, and the topic should not be too much.

Envy and jealousy are at work. Some people have too good lives, some people's performances are too outstanding, some people's achievements are too enviable, these excellent people will always be gossiped about and become the focus of people's gossip, because some people are envious and jealous of other people's achievements, forcing them to always want to expose the shortcomings of others, let others know the shortcomings of those excellent people and unknown things, in fact, sometimes their gossip is groundless, one-sided, and they look at those excellent people with colored glasses.

In my opinion, people who like to talk about other people's gossip may be because they like to create topics, chat with people, chat and chat about some unknown things that they always like to turn to other people, maybe talking about these, everyone has different opinions, everyone has to express their own views and opinions on this, you say a word to me, the more things are talked, the more you talk, the more you talk about the topic, maybe this is gossip, satisfy your curiosity, always want to know a part of a thing you don't know, I want to find something new from other people's mouths that I don't know.

Gossip is to comment on the rights and wrongs of others behind their backs, and this kind of person is either idle and has nothing to do, or has a bad heart, saying that others come to achieve their own happiness. If someone else is doing something bad and has a shortcoming, you can say to your face that you can help someone correct it.

People who like to gossip about other people should be very boring people, and they always find it fun to talk about other people's things. I think this is a very bad state of mind, after all, everyone's things are a kind of privacy, we shouldn't be too much ** other people's things, go your own way, let others say it.

When we were in high school, there was actually a girl who seemed to be a gossip queen, as if she could hear the gossip of the whole grade. You say that at our age, if someone in the grade or class falls in love, in fact, it is true that they will gossip and coax, which is normal, but she is very scary, you say that everyone is together, everyone should be a happy event to talk and laugh, but what about her, she has to gossip about other people's things, for example, she will pick out the exes of both men and women, the family, and tell it to others like a joke, the funny thing is that there are really people who want to listen to her talk about these things, and talk about it with relish, I think it's really too much, is it investigating people's household registrations, and it's fun to gossip about other people's families? Sometimes I hear her say with a smug face, "Eh, you know what?

He used to be kind to his ex-girlfriend.,I heard that it's okay.。。 As a result, I broke up, and now I'm with this girlfriend", even if I'm not a party, in fact, I'm very unhappy to hear it in my heart, what's wrong, who hasn't passed yet, everyone knows the past, don't mention it, start a new life, why do you have to pick up people's previous stories, ex-girlfriends? Sometimes I hear her and others around discussing other people's relationships, I really think that some people may be born gossip, hopeless, how people are together also have to gossip, what is the reaction of two people after they break up, I feel like watching other people's jokes after breaking up.

Now people's life pressure is intensifying, people close themselves off, don't want others to see their inner world, understand their inner emotions, relax themselves through gossip that does not touch their own interests, and free their hearts.

In today's era of rapid economic development, people in the city have a fast pace of life, in the countryside, the pace of life is relatively slow, so there will always be people in the countryside who like to discuss others in the end, let's reveal together why there are always people in the village who like to gather to discuss others.

It is undoubtedly immoral to gather in a crowd to discuss other people's private affairs. I really don't like to gather in crowds to discuss people, because I know how much harm other people's gossip and gossip can cause to the person concerned. Therefore, rumors stop at the wise, we should all control our words and deeds, do not discuss others at will, and do not arbitrarily ** other people's private affairs.

Everyone has their own life, and the people in the village always like to gather together to discuss others. Because they have a lot of time to do, discussing others is purely to kill time.

Because the people in the village don't have too many entertainment items, everyone has lived together for generations and is more familiar, and everyone has the instinct to discuss the rights and wrongs of others, so I like this kind of discussion.

Because there is no free time in the countryside all year round, except for the busy farming time, the rest of the time is very boring, so they will subconsciously talk about other people's gossip. Especially when several people get together, they will unconsciously talk about others.

Because it's also a way for them to relax, and it will bring them a lot of fun when they get together to discuss others, and it won't make their lives less boring.

Because the scope of life is not large, there are not many entertainment projects, and there is no pressure in life, the east and west families pass the time shortly. Don't worry about what you have to do.

Because they are too idle, and they always want to get a sense of satisfaction in their hearts by pulling on others.

First of all, there is the need to be noticed. An essential feature of "tongue chewing" is the oversharing of third-party secrets. For both sides of interpersonal communication, not everyone has the secret of a "third party", but it is everyone's nature to be curious about the secrets of other people's lives.

If a person learns some true or false information about others after many inquiries, what he or she says can often attract a large number of listeners and make himself the center of attention of others. Therefore, although the person who "chews the root of the tongue" is often not necessarily a successful person in life, he can fully enjoy the feeling of being noticed and respected because he has grasped the secrets of others, which is also a kind of compensation for the unpleasant experience in real life.

Second, there is the need to release stress. Psychological research has shown that if a person has too many secrets in his heart, then he needs the corresponding psychological energy to control these secrets, which is often uncomfortable, so there will be a need to confide. Anyone who has watched the movie "Infernal Affairs" knows that the roles played by Andy Lau and Tony Leung are both undercover agents, and there are too many secrets in their hearts that are difficult to solve, so that both of them go to psychological counseling at the same time to see how to be channeled.

For those who have grasped the secrets of others, it is also uncomfortable if they do not speak out, so they use the method of "chewing the root of the tongue" to confide in these secrets, so that the pressure generated by the secrets can be released.

Finally, and most importantly, there is the need for intimacy. People live in the world, everyone is lonely, they all want to see the recognition and acceptance of others, and they all have the desire for friendship. In essence, the "tongue chewer" is hoping to borrow the means of sharing other people's secrets to increase friendship and promote relationships with listeners.

However, it should be noted that the sharing of secrets in the development of friendship includes not only the sharing of secrets of others in the early stage, but also the further exposure of one's own secrets. However, those who are willing to "chew the root of the tongue", of course, are also eager for friendship, but often stop at the stage of sharing other people's secrets, good at sharing other people's secrets, but unwilling to expose their own secrets, such a result is exactly what we see in our lives, even if the "tongue chewing root" people get friendship, it is also a shallow level of friendship, they can not communicate with others more deeply, this is really the distress of the "tongue chewing root" people, they have no real friends in their lives.