Rural people do not have a characteristic? When I m idle, I like to talk about others.

I am a native of the countryside, I often see some people get together to talk about others when they have nothing to do, especially the old man and the old lady sit down at the entrance of the street and start to talk about whose children are how, whose son is not promising, so many years is still a job for the boss, no ability, whose daughter does not respect her mother-in-law after marriage, does not know how to be diligent and thrifty, and there are laughs, as if their own family is much better than others, When I met you on the road, if you didn't greet him, I would privately tell others that this child was ignorant and impolite, and he didn't speak when he saw his elders. I don't like talking about people behind my back, because people don't rely on me to eat. Don't judge other people's virtues because you are not necessarily nobler than him, don't judge other people's families because they have nothing to do with you, don't judge anyone, even the ones you look down on the most, don't be arrogant because tomorrow you may lose power, don't be too ostentatious, understand that no one will be weaker than you, don't hurt others, because cause and effect will come sooner or later.

It is a common phenomenon in rural areas, who like to talk about other people's strengths and weaknesses behind their backs.

This is a question related to a person's quality and self-cultivation, if a high-quality person is not talking about others behind his back. As long as those who are of low quality or idle and like to discuss gossip, they only care about this matter.

Because the old man and the old lady are okay to stay, they talk about others when they are together, and when they are old, they have nothing to do, and they talk about other people's things.

Because the people in our rural areas have a low culture, those old men and old ladies get together when they are idle and talk about how the sons of that family and the daughters-in-law of that family are doing, and they quarrel about idle things at the end of three days, unlike the old men and old ladies in the city, they have free time to dance and play cards.

Because the old man and the old lady are idle, and there are few people in contact with the outside world, they love to talk about others.

It's a product of the age. The people of their time were like this, which was determined by the specific living environment and labor environment.

Because I'm idle, I don't have much culture, I can't do any work, and I don't bother to go to the university for the elderly to learn some things, so I can only chew my tongue to pass the time.

Because the old man and the old lady are usually idle and bored, they like to talk about others to pass the time.

It's just a way to pass the time. Forget it.

Because it's okay to be idle, what can they do if they don't talk about others?

Because they have nothing to do, it's also a little work, small talk, otherwise what are they doing? It's fun to chat and pass the time.

When people get old, they have more free time, and small talk has become a compulsory course, and maybe you and I will do the same when we get old.

In contrast to others, so I love to talk about others.

Loving someone is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect it to be perfect, but we can make it true.

Today's society is a society with overflowing feelings, and love has long become fast food. What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It has become an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even a slave to money...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love unbridled, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of slow love will not be long before it withers. . .

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

If you love someone just so that he doesn't love you, then you misinterpret the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

It's right to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person

Because people in the countryside are idle and have nothing to do, they always talk about other people's topics, otherwise there is nothing to say, the weather is changeable, pay attention to colds.

They don't talk about it less, and there is also a kind of topic when they have nothing to do.

I feel the same way. But this situation is not only in rural areas, but also in cities. Talking and discussing is someone else's freedom, as long as you don't take it to heart, there is not much of a problem. Others say someone else's, live their own.

People have nothing to gossip, what are you listening to next to you, are you an old lady in the countryside? Originally, I didn't say it to you, I don't like to listen to the toilet and eat, so I don't want to spray here. Your mother's appearance of giving birth to you is also vulgar and annoying to look at, so shouldn't you be born?

Three women in one play. It has always been that way.

That's the way it is in the countryside, it's the same all over the country.

There must be, this parent and that family are short.

Don't the old ladies of the city have it?

In these years, the woman who is married for the first time has not been used? It's better to find a second marriage, and the province will meet the master who is not married and can play with men.

I don't think so! Others talk nonsense, no matter what you say, you are also a clear-headed guy, after saying that a married woman may be very casual, in my opinion, especially those things, every time I think about it, she and her ex-husband are not like this! I can't talk about it, although it's not disgusting, but I just can't get over the hurdle in my heart, and the pressure is not small, of course, brother, I'm just talking about my personal feelings, just a small piece of advice for you, after all, I am also the first married man to marry the second married woman, and I have indescribable bitterness in my heart.

Normally, as long as it's a girl in our place, it doesn't matter if you're married for the second time or with someone else, as long as you can get married.

In our village, only first-married men with very poor conditions will marry second-married women, and people in the village will say that you are not capable. But if it's two people who really love each other, they won't care anymore!

I'm a first-time marriage, my family background is okay, I have also been in contact with other women, I feel inappropriate, I always meet my current girlfriend by chance, talk about understanding, I don't look at appearance, ordinary people care about the heart, but I can't accept the other side of my daughter-in-law, that is, his ex-husband is always looking for trouble, go to my daughter-in-law's house to toss, unreasonable, her ex-husband and his family are very domineering in the village, unreasonable and look down on people, hey, I don't know how to describe it, Now it's a headache for me, every day I'm irritable, I smoke and sometimes drink some alcohol to anesthetize myself, we haven't married at the end of the year, his ex-husband just finished the divorce procedures this year, I want to give up and reluctant, my daughter-in-law is also with me, I don't know what I should do, I don't care what our village people say, I only live myself, but her ex-husband really gives me a headache, and there are many, many things, I don't know how to describe it, I don't know what to do, brothers and sisters across the country, brothers and sisters, I am 93 years old, and my daughter-in-law is 92 years old.

Shame on people, I'm from the countryside, those people will talk about this, and this will be a common topic for everyone in the future.

Don't lose it, I don't care so much about people's good and bad.

Now the rural people are a little more open than before, but there are also those who can talk.

Brothers are happy on their own, go their own way, and let others tell them to go.

What's so embarrassing about this, what are you afraid of in the face of love.

Look at what kind of woman, if it is charming, delicate, and beautiful, it is okay, if it is an old lady, forget it.

Don't lose it, there are gossips, living a good life is the most important thing, and the mentality is correct.

Don't be ashamed, as long as you like it, just marry the right person.

It depends on the fact that this man's conditions are really poor, and it is not a shame.

It's generally hard to accept! But it depends on the conditions of the man.

The old people in the family should have some ideas and think that a second-married woman is not worthy of you.

If you love her? Nothing is important about everything.

Don't lose it, really don't lose it, rest assured! I've seen them, and they're all very happy.

In the face of love, there is no shame or shame, only whether it is worth it.

It's not a shame, now the countryside also wants to open.

What happened to the second marriage mainly depends on whether you are suitable.

Formal occasions should be suitable, but everyday life does not look ordinary, but it is good to get used to it! If you like it, why care what those people think.

Wrong! When you are no longer paranoid, let go of everything, and not be shocked is the ideal state.

Personally, I don't think it's right,,, because there is a family at home, no matter what others say, home is the most important, and you can come out again to continue working when you go back.

No, no matter what, I still have to go back home, and I am closer to ** to give birth to you, the place, and follow the countryside.

If you want to go back, you have a worldly vision in **... There's no need to care so much ... You do not live for them ... Just know what's important. They are nothing.

No, do this, your parents will have an idea. You should go back and see your parents in due course.

Wrong! Be confident! Go back in style! Face the past, and you will be truly happy in the future!

Man lives for himself. Don't care too much about what others think.

If your parents are still alive, I hope you will come home often.

You should earn more, and when the money goes back, they won't talk about it

Do you have parents at home? Is someone else's discussion more important than a parent's?

Go back and prove how good you are now.

In fact, the billiard hall is not as smoky as many people think, and there are no social gangsters. Playing billiards is a completely good recreational sport. Most of the cashiers in the billiard hall are women, as long as the billiard hall where the work is more formal, it is OK. There will be no discussion.