What are the small acts of death in life that will directly destroy your feelings?

Always suspicious in life, noisy when you encounter small things, and take all the other party's efforts for granted, these behaviors will directly ruin your relationship.

The relationship in love is always beautiful, in the eyes of lovers, both parties are perfect without shortcomings, but love always has to return to life, when the time will find some shortcomings of each other, this time you can know whether the other party is suitable for you. If you can tolerate these shortcomings, maybe the two of you will spend the rest of your life together, if you can't bear these shortcomings, then simply ask to break up, because after all, these shortcomings will accompany you for all your subsequent lives. Many people don't actually have any major shortcomings in life, often just some small problems, but in the end, they affect the relationship between two people, and it is often those small behaviors that they don't pay much attention to.

Like the last straw that crushes the camel's back, these small acts will directly destroy your relationship, so let's talk about what are the small acts of death in life.

1. Life is always suspicious

Many people always like to be suspicious in life and don't believe in their other half, and the reason why this is probably the case is probably due to low self-esteem. But this kind of suspicion is the most hurtful to feelings, because the basis of feelings is trust, if there is no trust, the relationship between two people is in jeopardy, and many lovers break up because they can't stand each other's suspicions.

Second, when encountering small things, they will be noisy

In life, there are some people who encounter some small things and will not give up, and put small things on the line until the quarrel can not end, for example, the other party may be busy with work and forget to give him a gift, and he will be suspected of not loving him anymore, so as to quarrel. In addition to this, take the other person's contribution for granted in life. After a long time, these seemingly inconspicuous behaviors will ruin the relationship between the two of you.

First of all, I can't wait to talk to each other. Second, don't tell the other person about the money. In marriage, we need to trust each other, release each other, and not hide anything from each other.

Third, don't communicate when there is a problem and blindly blame the other party. Fourth, don't date after marriage. This is a trick used by many men.

Before they got married, they traveled every day to the movies, barbecue beers, and hot pot. Fifth, the act of obviously liking to break up is a typical death.

In life, if you deliberately make a lot of noise, look at the other person's mobile phone, do not give the other party pocket money, and make the other person do a lot of meaningless things, and say some ugly things, it will ruin your relationship.

I think it's very straight, stingy, picky, selfish, self-interested, and unhygienic, and these deadly behaviors will directly ruin your relationship.

I think the act of dying in love is to play ambiguously with another girl, I think this is a very hateful, and it is a thing that should not exist, which will make the girl feel very angry.

I've met such a boy before, you play ambiguously with other girls when you're in love, such a person is very unworthy of cherishing, if you meet such a boy, you'd better separate from him as soon as possible, because this is a scumbag, he just cares about himself, I think such a boy is spurned, and such a boy should not be liked by a girl, if a girl likes such a boy, then she may not be recognized by the essence of this boy.

I think there are a lot of acts of death in love, such as girls being vexatious and asking boys to do things that are difficult or impossible to do.

My girlfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, and my girlfriend sometimes lets her best friend add me to test my loyalty, making me feel that I am not trusted and cherished, and often her best friend will say some bad things about me, which makes me feel speechless. There are also some acts of death, and I think I can understand it, she often needs my company, and as a foreign person, it is very painful for me.

I think that the act of dying in love is disrespecting the other party, always wanting to know the other party's privacy, such as secretly looking at his mobile phone and chatting with other people, which is an act of death.

My girlfriend is like this, she always does something out of the ordinary, such as chatting with the opposite sex, going to the bar by herself at night, and always lying to me to study, in fact, no, these are all acts of death, doing so will consume each other's feelings, lack of trust, will not go on for a long time, should trust each other, leave a little space for each other, don't deceive each other, this is the proper attitude.

It is inevitable that there will be some episodes when two people are together, but these little things will not affect the feelings of both parties, but will add some color to the lives of two people.

I think the most deadly thing when two people are together is to break my girlfriend's lipstick, move my girlfriend's makeup, I use my own personal experience to tell you how terrible it is to move your girlfriend's makeup, one day I joked with my girlfriend, picked up her lipstick and gestured a few times, pretending to break it, no nonsense, flying up is a big whip leg, head buzzing.

I believe that many people will have their own love experience, which will have some good memories, but there will also be some not very good memories, sometimes it is really impossible to understand what the other half did, it can be said to be an act of death.

For example, I had a girlfriend in college, I didn't accept that she had her own circle and had some friends of the opposite sex, but I also made it clear to her that I hope she can grasp the degree of getting along, because to be honest, even if sometimes I really know that there is nothing but I will think about it, but she really doesn't know how to grasp that degree, because we have quarreled many times about this matter, but it has no effect, and then we broke up.