What are the little things in life that can ruin our lives?

1.Comparison, I don't know how to be satisfied, many people go to online loans for the sake of face, but they are young and have tens of thousands or even millions of debts; 2.Lying is a habit of lying to the detriment of others in order to get what you want.

When you say bad things about others behind your back, you may just want to feel comfortable for a while, and you don't think anyone will know, but once this behavior happens many times, it will become a bad habit, and after a long time, you will find that you have no friends, and it is easy to offend people at work.

There is no moderation in spending money, there has never been the concept of saving, I think this habit is very bad, although it is said that money is not saved, but even if you have thousands of family properties, you must know how to manage money, otherwise it will only ruin the whole life; Secondly, you must be low-key, know how to be humble, and respect even strangers, so as to accumulate a certain number of contacts for your life; Finally, don't look down on anyone, maybe one day in the future they will surpass you and become someone who can help you.

Procrastination in life is a small problem, it will ruin our life, it is a small thing, but slowly develop a habit, it will be farther and farther away from success.

I fell off the house that day - -

caught in the flower pot effect", not wanting to make progress, falling behind from their peers.

The so-called flower pot effect, that is, people have been in the greenhouse environment for a long time, protected and cared for, can not withstand the wind and rain outside, so as to produce egoism, do not want to forge ahead, in a person's life, it is more important to seek progress, you do not move forward, you will fall behind, you do not work hard, you will fall behind, when you see your peers, work hard for your own life, but you don't know what to say, content with the status quo, feel good about yourself, do not experience setbacks and failures, then the second half of your life will definitely go downhill, The so-called how can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain.

Values are eroded, fantasies about "getting rich overnight", and always want to get something for nothing.

We often hear people around us say, if I am the rich second generation how good it would be, in this era when we must do our best to struggle, we can not always fantasize about getting rich overnight, without paying for labor and gaining, Edison in order to develop a material that meets the light bulb, carried out thousands of experiments, and finally passed down for centuries, all success is based on the premise of hard work, there are not so many good things in the world of empty gloves white wolf, if we only think about how to get rich overnight, without hard work, Such erroneous values will inevitably lead to the rest of our lives being wasted.

Obsessed with the so-called "freedom", he gave up persistence and self-discipline, and was so ambitious.

Birds yearn for the blue sky, fish yearn for the sea, because that is freedom, is vast, but if because of freedom, and give up persistence and self-discipline, then freedom will lose its true meaning, modern people, there are many under the banner of loving freedom, love life, refuse to work hard, give up self-discipline, blindly indulge themselves, so ambitious, eyes are higher than hands, as everyone knows, our freedom is based on our unremitting efforts and persistence, life is never a quiet time, but we need to carry the weight forward, If we always pursue the so-called self, and give up the insistence on self and self-restraint, then we will not do anything great in the second half of our lives, or even fail.

Lacking "goal-oriented thinking", I am busy for most of my life but do not know what the future holds.

We often pursue happiness, but rarely know what happiness is", this sentence is very suitable for those who are busy for most of their lives, but do not know where the future is, these people are what we often say, lack of goal-oriented thinking, often feel that they are busy, but do not know what they are busy with, this is a very terrible thing, in the modern competitive pressure of such a society, we must have our own clear goals, in order to achieve their ideals in a mixed society, to get their own "happiness".

In life, if you talk too much, that is, you are not very good at talking in the process of getting along with people, or if you have a small habit of carrying a mantra, you may lose many opportunities.

In life, I think that a person's reputation can quickly destroy a person, and people's words are terrible, so if you want to be positive, then you must pay attention to your reputation.

For example, letting others know your shortcomings and know some of your bad ways of dealing with people will quickly ruin you and destroy your image.

I feel that living in a bad family, my father is dead, it is like the pillar of the family is broken. is supported by a mother, can't eat, can't dress warmly, can't even sleep well, and is ridiculed by others every day. Slowly, this person will be abolished, and he can't hold on.