My husband and I have been together for 6 years. Should I give up now?

Indeed, your doubts are very reasonable, if the child also has this, in case the child is still a woman, I think the pressure is not ordinary. One of the contradictions you are facing now is that you must have children to marry him, but you can't let children have his disease. For the sake of the child, I think you should break up with him, and you should give up the child for the sake of affection.

In the end, it's up to you to choose which one. If you really can't choose, then refer to it from other aspects, such as his future, such as his family, such as your parents' opinions, which can help you have a choice.

I can't accept that either, I can't even be a friend with that. You are really strong, you have been with him for 6 years, I guess he must be very good, you love him very much, but there must always be a choice. For himself, for him, and for the children of the future.

Hey, I really don't know how to tell you this question, I have an opinion, but the final conclusion is still up to you.

First of all, analyze the reasons that should be divided, it seems to me that you care about his illness as if you love him in your heart, so you will have more opinions about him even though it has been seven years, but you will still have more opinions in the next few decades. And you said that his mother had the same disease, so it can't be said that hereditary is completely absent. Indeed, a person is burdened with this disease, and it will indeed affect him for the rest of his life.

Let's talk about the reasonableness of indistinguishability. It's been seven years, and the feelings should be deep, and I believe that you are a very kind girl and no one wants to hurt you. In fact, you don't have to worry, if you really love him, tell him your worries, and then go to the hospital with him, ask the specialist if there is any hereditary, and if so, ask the doctor how to avoid it?

Even if you can't avoid it, you can adopt one without having children. But I think a lot of it can be avoided, and if we are careful, miracles will happen.

About having a child, ask him what he thinks, it is impossible for a person not to have children for the rest of his life. He must also want children.,Then think of a way.,Since love, don't give up easily.。。 It's not easy to find someone to love each other.

No, there's something to discuss.

There is always a gap between the ideal and the reality, and for the sake of the child, the long pain is better than the short pain.

I really love him, but I don't care about that.

Go to the hospital to determine what his illness is.

Settlement of divorce proceedings after two years of separation due to emotional discord: If the husband and wife have been separated for two years due to emotional discord and one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. The people's court hearing a divorce case shall follow the principle of prior knowledge of the family relatives through mediation, and if it is determined that the relationship between the husband and wife has truly broken down, the divorce shall be granted.

Legal basis: Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China provides that if one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, he or she may return to mediation by the relevant organization or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted: (1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Hello! Separated for three years means that you no longer have any feelings, just divorce.

Having been separated for more than two years can prove that your relationship has broken down, and you can directly file for divorce.

There are two ways to divorce, one is divorce by agreement, that is, both parties sign the divorce agreement and go to the marriage registration office to go through the divorce formalities together; One is litigation divorce, that is, the plaintiff files a lawsuit with the people's court where the defendant is domiciled for divorce. If the formalities of the divorce by agreement are complete, it can be completed on the same day, and the litigation divorce can be as little as one month and more than half a year, and the first divorce lawsuit may not be successful.

Therefore, ask your female colleague to take into account the above circumstances and adopt a divorce method that is more beneficial to her.

Ways to divorce by mutual agreement:

1. Conditions for divorce registration.

Both men and women must divorce voluntarily.

2. Both parties have full capacity for civil conduct.

3. The parties hold a divorce agreement, which must contain the intention of both parties to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property and debt disposal.

4. The parties concerned hold a marriage certificate issued by the marriage registration authority in the mainland or the Chinese embassy (consulate) abroad.

2. Documents and materials submitted for divorce registration.

l. Permanent residence booklet and resident ID card.

2. Marriage certificates of both parties.

3. The divorce agreement of both parties.

4. Both parties shall submit two 2-inch single recent half-length bareheaded colors**.

3. Procedures for registration of divorce.

1. The divorced man and woman jointly apply to the marriage registration office of the district or county-level civil affairs bureau (or town people**) of one party's permanent residence.

2. Both parties fill in the Declaration of Application for Divorce Registration and sign or fingerprint in front of the marriage registrar.

3. The willingness of both parties to sign and agree to the content of the agreement on the divorce agreement (in triplicate) and sign or fingerprint in front of the marriage registrar.

4. The marriage registration authorities shall examine the certificates, agreements, and supporting materials submitted by the parties to the divorce, and if the requirements for divorce registration are met, they shall be registered.

4. Time limit and fee standard for divorce registration.

l. Time limit for registration: If the documents and materials are complete, they will be registered and a divorce certificate will be issued.

2. Charging standard: 9 yuan per pair for domestic divorce registration.

If the husband does not agree, the only way to divorce is to file for divorce. Litigation divorce according to the normal civil procedure down, it takes up to 6 months, during this period, if the man has a personal threat to the woman, do not live in their home, find another place to live, or entrust a lawyer, but still must be present at the time. If the man is violent, then add a reason for divorce for the woman, and if the man is violent on the spot, do not hesitate to call 110 immediately for support.