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First: Talk less and think more.
In the workplace, when you know that your colleague is a scheming person, don't be in a hurry to expose him, because such a person prefers to hold grudges, and once you offend him, he will take revenge on you and find an opportunity to take revenge on you. So, what to do? That is, when you get along with him, you must talk less and think more.
Don't even say all the words in your stomach when you're happy to talk. For example: dissatisfaction with the company, dissatisfaction with the leader, complaints at work, etc.
In this way, not only will the other party seize the handle, but also deliberately betray you to the leader, causing a bad impact on your workplace.
Second: one move to defeat the enemy.
It's important to learn some skillful workplace strategies. When you meet a scheming colleague, you can analyze why she will find you trouble, whether you are not competitive, or too kind and easy to bully, and take different countermeasures for different situations in order to defeat the enemy with one move.
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Be sure to avoid contact with these colleagues as much as possible. If you have to get in touch, then there must be evidence for what you say and what you do in the relationship, otherwise he may find an opportunity to frame you later.
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I think that if you encounter a bad mind, then don't get along with him, try to avoid him, and do your part.
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In the workplace, you can adopt the following strategies to get along with scheming colleagues
1.Be alert and wise: Be alert to the actions of your scheming colleagues but avoid overreacting. Don't expose your bottom line lightly, while staying calm and making informed decisions.
2.Maintain cautious and clear communication: Be more cautious in communicating with scheming colleagues. Be clear and avoid vague statements in case they take advantage of loopholes or misrepresent your meaning. Try to keep a record of your communication for later use.
3.Be professional and confident: Stick to a professional work style and not be easily influenced by scheming colleagues. Do your job well, show self-confidence and ability, and don't give them a chance to find a macro debater.
4.Handle private and sensitive information with care: Handle personal and sensitive information with caution when communicating with scheming colleagues. Avoid giving out private information to them to prevent it from being exploited or misinterpreted.
5.Exchange information with other colleagues: Establish positive relationships with other colleagues, exchange work conditions and observations with each other. Sharing information can increase awareness of scheming colleagues and find better coping strategies.
6.Don't get caught up in scheming games: Avoid falling directly into the scheming co-workers' play. Maintain integrity and morality, demonstrate their integrity through transparent behavior and values, and try not to provide them with available opportunities.
Summary: The most important thing is to maintain professional ethics and self-protection awareness, and not to get entangled in meaningless battles with scheming colleagues. Focus on your work and work hard to develop your abilities and skills to pave the way for your career.
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First of all, let's talk about what to do when you encounter a colleague in the workplace who is reluctant to communicate. Some people are more introverted and reluctant to communicate with others. However, in the workplace, many tasks assigned by leaders need to be coordinated with colleagues.
What should you do if you are unfortunate enough to work with such a reluctant colleague? First of all, I think you should find something that the other person is interested in, and use this topic to guide the other person to communicate with you. The second is to pay attention to the guiding role in the process of communication, rather than the leading role.
Learn to guide the other person and let him speak a little more, not what you say and he listens. Of course, it is also necessary to cooperate with the other party appropriately, otherwise the other party will feel embarrassed and will not be willing to communicate.
Let's talk about what to do when you meet a colleague who is a scheming. When I meet this kind of person, I only follow one principle: respect and stay away.
I can't afford to provoke, can't I still hide? (laughing and crying) I definitely can't play with each other, maybe one accidentally falls into the pit dug by others. So, the best thing to do is to stay away from him.
Of course, it is inevitable that you will come into contact with such people in the workplace. So when there is no way to avoid it, fight quickly, deal with the things that need to be dealt with as quickly as possible, and then avoid him. (What the hell!)
Of course, if you believe you can beat him, knock him out.
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The workplace is not only a great requirement for your personal work ability, but also a test of job seekers' workplace communication skills and personnel handling methods. Because the bad interpersonal relationship will directly affect the efficiency of their work, and will also affect their mood; For the kind of colleague who is unwilling to communicate with others, the workplace is not a suitable occasion for him at all, and he can only think about it if he wants to make a difference in the workplace with his personal ability.
The first is the reluctance to communicate and not be good at talking, which leads to the direct result of being isolated. Sometimes I can't complete my work because it's hard to do it on my own. How to solve this problem can only rely on enlightenment and communication, and spend more time when everyone goes out for a meal together, chats and has fun together.
If you still can't change this character, then there is no way, this kind of stubborn and arrogant person doesn't have to take the time to enlighten slowly, and no one is obliged to care.
And for people like scheming, you can try not to provoke them, but it's hard to avoid encountering the kind of people who deliberately want to provoke trouble, and the best way to deal with them is to ignore them and concentrate on doing their jobs, there is no need to spend time with them, but you can't let him act recklessly, give a warning at the right time, and frustrate the other party's spirit.
Choose to stay away from such people, don't deal with such people, don't talk to each other, and when in danger, we can choose to call the police.
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