His parents are divorced and he hasn t seen him for ten years. , see you again, should I call my mot

Of course, it is called Mom, Buddhism often says, "Blessed people live in blessed places, blessed people live in blessed places", a blessed person, no matter where he is, ** is a good feng shui; A person who has no good fortune, no matter how good the feng shui treasure is, it is also a futile effort. Because, good fortune is not to be sought, let alone robbed, good fortune is self-cultivation, only after accumulating enough kindness and merit, good luck will come often.

In the view of Buddhism, there is a way to increase blessing and eliminate karma the fastest. This way is to be filial to your parents. Filial piety to one's parents is the greatest blessing in the world, and it is better to serve one's parents at home than to burn utilitarian incense far away.

The Buddha said that in this world, the greatest good will not be greater than filial piety; The greatest evil will not be greater than unfilial piety. A person who is not filial to his parents has an unkind heart that runs counter to the Buddha's heart, so no matter how much Buddha he worships and burns incense, it is difficult to get blessings.

In Buddhism, it is often said that life is a process of fate, and the so-called no fate, no gathering, no debt, no come, which can also be understood as the cause and effect we often say. Whether we are parents or children, the fate of parents and children is either to repay debts or to ask for debts, and they owe each other, so they meet in this life and become parents and children. The Buddha said:

If there is no Buddha, serve your parents well, and to serve your parents is to serve the Buddha, and your parents are the greatest victorious blessings in the Three Realms.

Therefore, no matter whether our parents have given us a surplus life, whether we have food and clothing without worry, we should be grateful to our parents in this life, grateful to our parents for their hard work in giving birth to us, and grateful to our parents for their hard work in raising and teaching. As written in the song "Cause and Effect of the Three Worlds", "What is the cause of deafness and dumbness in this life? In his previous life, he scolded his parents viciously", "If there is no sense of cause and effect, why should he save his mother".

Then someone said that my parents did not give me good living conditions since I was a child, made me suffer a lot, nor did they give me a happy childhood, and even often violently faced me, and my current achievements are all my own efforts, and have nothing to do with my parents. Therefore, I feel that my parents have not been very kind to me, and there is no need for me to repay them. This could not be more wrong.

As the old saying goes, "filial piety comes first", even if our parents are wrong in their words and deeds, we should not blame them, our parents gave birth to us is our greatest kindness. As for whether oneself will be blessed or suffered, isn't it one's own karma? If you want to know the cause of the past life, the recipient of this life is; If you want to know the fruits of the afterlife, this life is.

Regardless of whether our parents are right or wrong, we should not be disgusted, but should know them with reason, move them with affection, and warm them with filial piety.

The parents have not seen each other for ten years after being divorced, and when they meet again, as children, they should be called mothers. This salutation is polite and self-respecting. The affection between parents and children cannot be interfered with.

But the flesh and blood relationship of the biological mother cannot be separated. This affection needs to be cherished, cared for and maintained by both parties with true affection. Parents are gone, the family is separated, but the children who are physically and mentally healthy face everything, and they can also get the happiness of mother's love, so that they are sunny, optimistic, and pursue happiness.

The blood relationship is continuous, and the parents have not seen each other for ten years after they have been divorced. When you see your mother, you will feel like calling your mother in your heart.

How old are you? If you are not able to support yourself, it is recommended that you stay with your father, after all, if your mother has her own family, you may be a burden to your mother or affect her current family, however, you can often visit her when you want to be a mother, if you are an adult and you are at work, then my advice is that you live independently, only if you are strong, you don't need to be attached to anyone, family affection is important, anyway, even if you live independently, You can also visit your parents often when you have time. Come on, it's painful not to have loved ones around, but everyone will go through this day, just let you experience it early, good luck.

Absolutely. Your parents are divorced, they are no longer husband and wife, but your parents will not change. The fact that you want to see either one has nothing to do with whether they are divorced or not. If you want to see it, go for it.

Yes, but you have to let your dad know and communicate with him to avoid unnecessary trouble.

It's all right, and it's okay for my parents to do it themselves.

You mean that your parents divorced at a very young age, you lived with your father, your father brought you up, your mother never showed up after the divorce, and then she came back to you seventeen years later, right? If so, I deeply sympathize with your experience, and I believe that you must resent this woman in your heart, and if it were me and I would too, I think you can give her a chance to explain, listen to what she has to say, and it will not be too late for you to make a decision.

My parents divorced, and my biological mother, whom I hadn't seen for 17 years, came to me. After all, it's a biological mother, so you can recognize it, but the main thing is not to forget about raising you.

Hello, you can call your stepdad dad, after all, your parents have been divorced for ten years, and your mom has remarried, if your stepdad is very kind and good to you, you can call dad.

Of course you can, stepfather, also father, should respect stepfather, respect for the elderly is a Chinese virtue!

Yes, it should be easier to contact your grandmother's aunts and uncles.

My parents divorced when I was four years old, and I haven't seen my mother for 20 years, so I want to meet you and discuss what to do.

Yes! There is no way to let go of a child's affection for his mother.

Now there is a **, called "Baby Home", which is dedicated to helping separated people reunite**, it is best to use the power of **, it is easier! Just tell me your details, it's easy to find, and I sincerely wish you to find your mom soon!

Yes, it's better to use the power of **, it's easier.

OK. There must be hardships when parents divorce. Mom is getting old, and you should be a comfort to her when she grows up.

can be checked, no matter what, it's your mother, even if you don't go to her. It's content to know how she's doing.

Of course you can, provide clues, and should inquire for you.

As long as you have the heart, you will definitely find your mother, good luck.

Yes, go to your mother's hukou to find out.

It's okay.,Miss your mother.,It's good to go see her.,See how he's doing.。。

I think it should be possible, dear, can you try it?

Yes, the police station will tell you after learning about the situation.

It should be possible, I wish you a speedy fulfillment!

Of course you can, it's so developed now.

I guess I can't find it, so it's best to ask your father's relatives.

It should be okay for your dad to know.

In this world, only your parents are your dearest people, no matter what she is in, this family relationship will not be broken.

You don't see your mother much, it's not that you don't love you, maybe it's because you're busy with work for your livelihood. If you are still young, it is recommended to contact your mother and go to see her under the supervision of an adult.

Your parents are divorced, that's a matter between your parents, so no matter what the teacher is, why can't you go to see your mother if you have your parents' blood on your body after all, you can go, and your mother will miss you, because after all, she was pregnant in October and gave birth to you, you are her meat, if you can contact your mother, go and see your mother, no matter what kind of relationship they have, whether they are divorced or have remarried, that's their adult business, you are a child, you are your mother's child, you must go to see your mother.

Although your parents are divorced, it doesn't affect you as their child, you have the right to see him, no one has the right to stop you, you should visit your mother often, and your mother will be very happy.

Of course you can, after all, it's also biological, but ask your mother if you agree first, and then go and see if you agree. And your father needs to ask, but if you are an adult, you don't need to.

Then you'd better just ask, tell us what you think....Let's see if your mom agrees with you to see it....Don't be afraid of self-defeating, in case your mom has a new life....If you go suddenly, there will be an accident or something, so ask your mother in advance, saying that you miss him and want to see him!

Yes, after all, she is also the one who gave birth to you after ten months of hard work, and she gave you life, so you must know Entu, and I believe that your mother still loves you the same.

Blood is thicker than water, if you want not to look at it. The law does not prohibit you from going, you also have the right to go if your child wants to see it. Follow your own people. I wish you all the best.

Of course, it's your right.

It should be said that after the first day of the wai, the two women met, and your parents had to divorce again.

Be tactful, tell your mother the pros and cons, and if your mother feels sorry, she will agree. But to be honest, your dad was a bit too much. It is not recommended to fit well like this, it will not last long.

It should be said that because Dad wants Mom to know that he still loves her, he wants to help Mom tide over the difficulties when Mom is in trouble, this is a good father, a very responsible good father.

Do your best, it's up to them to make their own decisions about the affairs between your parents, and I hope your whole family can be reunited soon

It's so hard, does your mom still love your dad and still want to live with him? If the answer is yes, don't go to your mother's words, first close it and then talk about the next step, if your mother really needs this kind of life, she won't care, but your dad has to be true love for your mother, or forget it, at least when your mother is, or they will leave again.

Then go to the root of your dad and say don't let your mom know, I really want to know why your dad said that he still wants to be with which woman he said without results? It seems that he chose your mother for a certain reason.

Listen to what your mom thinks. This kind of thing is still not to force the two old people because of you, some things only the parties have the right to decide, and only you know whether the shoes fit or not.

Okay, I'm verbose, I hope it can help you.

I think your dad and your mom are divorced, and it's normal for your dad to find a girlfriend, there's nothing to make a fuss about, you don't have to deliberately tell your mom, if mom asks about this in the chat with you, then you can tell your mom truthfully, and you don't have to hide anything.

If it's time for your dad and girlfriend to talk about marriage, then I think you should tell your mom, after all, that person will be your stepmom and will live with you when she marries. Your mother is the person who has come over, and she is also the person who loves you the most, if you tell her, she can help you pay attention to it, see if there is a problem with this woman's character, if you find a problem, your mother will remind your father, let him pay attention, to avoid problems after marriage, it is not good for you.

Of course, as a father's child, you should also understand and understand your father, don't feel that your father and mother are divorced, so you have a grudge against your father, and you can't accept him to have a girlfriend, let alone allow him to remarry, this is an unreasonable performance, and you must not do this.

You must know that Mom and Dad love you, and if it weren't for the last resort, they wouldn't choose to divorce, and they wouldn't want to go this far. Dad still has a long way to go in life, and he will long to have a suitable partner to accompany him. As his child, you don't want him to die alone, do you?

So you shouldn't be so opposed, all you have to do is help him check and don't let him be deceived.

If Dad remarries, try to bless him and don't hold grudges, which will be harmful to Dad and yourself. You should learn to let go, learn to let go, and don't get too entangled in the right and wrong, which can also make your life much easier.

I think you should tell your mother, because even if you don't tell her, she will find out sooner or later, and this kind of thing can't be hidden for long.

You should tell your mother that although the two parties are now divorced, you are the child of the two of them, and you still need to know the most basic situation.

It shouldn't be told, it's better to be less involved in the affairs of adults, although it is divorced, but knowing that my father has found a girlfriend, my mother will still be a little disappointed, so let things go naturally.

It can be told that after the divorce, it is inevitable that both parties will remarry, and sooner or later the children will also know, and the difference between talking about it early and talking about it later is just that.

Yes, because if you don't tell your mother, you will know sooner or later, and if you tell your mother, your mother will still feel that you feel sorry for her, and the relationship between your mother and you will not be so rusty.

Should be told. After all, they have loved each other before, and telling their mother is to let their mother know that their father is starting a new life, and hope that she can start again as soon as possible.

You can choose not to tell your mom. Because this is a matter between themselves, you are responsible for doing your best, and let them communicate and solve their own affairs.

I don't think you should tell it, because what you do after the divorce has nothing to do with your ex, so don't say it.

It should be told that since they are both divorced, it is normal to find a new lover, and it doesn't hurt to tell them.

It shouldn't be told, it's their own choice that mom and dad are divorced, and the children don't know their hearts, so it's best not to meddle.