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My boyfriend is like this sometimes, and I think it's a sign of care, but it's a bit excessive, especially for girls with a strong sense of privacy. I don't care as much as you, under normal circumstances, we are in a state of flipping each other, you flip mine, I can't stand it, and I also flip yours, haha But if you mind a lot, just communicate with your boyfriend A lot of things you have to let the other party know what you really think, mind if you leave her a note or write or text him directly, if it's a letter, you can write at the beginning how the two of you met, how much do you care about him, unforgettable things between you, And then write and write that you can touch on this aspect of the matter, so that he can feel your feelings for him and realize the seriousness of the matter Try it, this method should work
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Directly said that he is not very good, and you will turn him over as soon as you meet, I don't believe that he doesn't feel awkward in his heart, let him experience the taste of his phone in your heart, and naturally he won't turn yours.
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You can choose to avoid it, and if it's like this now, you may still suspect in the future that it's not good for life, and you can avoid this person in your life.
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Hehe, it proves that he cares about you very much in his heart, he is not afraid of the shadow, he will turn it over, it's nothing, be generous.
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Don't do bad things, don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door.
Let him flip it. That's what is wrong with men.
You talk to him, and if you love each other, you have to trust each other.
If you don't even have the most basic trust, what is there to be nostalgic for in love.
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。Verbs. Me and my man cell phone. It's very open, and if you want to see it, you can see it
In fact. The mind is flat, as mentioned above. Don't do bad things, don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door.
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You turn it over too. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
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You should have your own space and you should feel uncomfortable unless you can use your own phone. If you don't believe in yourself, you don't believe in yourself. Anyone will feel uncomfortable and tell him clearly that you don't want to.
If your boyfriend is looking through your phone, you can jokingly criticize him for not trusting you or even look through his phone when you are having a hard time. When he gets nothing, he'll get bored and won't look at you in the future.
Actually, your boyfriend loves to look at your phone. The first reason is that he is insecure.
I'm afraid that you are too good to attract others. The second reason is that you may have done something that made him misunderstand and doubt, so if you don't want your boyfriend to check your phone, you can send Lunyu to communicate with him well, express your thoughts, and trust him to understand.
If you don't have a to get bored, let him turn it over; If you have a secret that you can't tell him, you can reason with him, tell him, let him know how to respect others, don't trust the other half, then this kind of life can't go on! He didn't listen to advice, so he was ordered to give him a warning.
But you still have to think about the reason for your presence or absence. If your partner is constantly looking through your phone, it means that he doesn't trust you. Maybe you're not giving him a sense of security.
You need to do something to make him feel like you're giving to her. Also, don't live up to a love and stay with him until the end of time. The most important thing between people is trust, especially with your partner!
As the saying goes, I'm not afraid of ghosts knocking on the door.
He felt relieved after reading his phone. If you don't let him see it, or force him to see it, but you're not satisfied, you have to consider whether you're a good fit. Trust is based on long-term coexistence and harmony.
What is Harmony? It is unfair to have the same view and understanding of something, on the one hand there is a problem, and on the other hand it is to sacrifice one's own interests to help. Marriage is complicated, not only for two people, but also for two families.
My advice is not to be wronged when you are in love. If you have any ideas, please communicate in a timely manner. The relationship between the two parties to make concessions is the cornerstone of marriage.
Two people have walked through the vast sea of people, from falling in love to staying together to being white, just because the three concepts are integrated and get along well. The two people meet, take off their masks, and forgive each other for their disguises. It is because of this purity that they can give themselves a sense of care and security.
In love, give each other enough space, not to care, but to trust. In any case, be considerate of the other person's feelings, always believe that you are the best partner for the other person, and create a comfortable space and relationship for the other person.
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You can take the initiative to say to the other party, hoping that the other party will believe in yourself in life, since you are with the right party, you will definitely be defeated and feel that the opposite sex keeps a certain distance. The other person will be particularly disgusted by doing this, and it will also make you feel unsafe and shaky.
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In such a situation, I think you should communicate with the other party, and then you should also give the other party more security, but to tell the other party that this kind of change of service behavior is not correct, and then it will also lead to a nuclear rift and a lack of personal space.
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It's because your boyfriend is very insecure, so you must give your boyfriend enough security at ordinary times, and at the same time, you should also let your boyfriend feel that you haven't done anything wrong to raise him or betray him, so that Sakura Jane's boyfriend can feel that you love to lift him.
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The boyfriend may be looking at the hand collapse machine due to the following psychology:
1.Distrust: The boyfriend may be distrustful of his girlfriend and wonder if she has a secret and will therefore look through his phone to confirm his guesses.
2.Jealousy: The boyfriend may be jealous of his girlfriend's other friends of the opposite sex or ex-boyfriend and look through his phone to find evidence to prove his suspicions.
3.Controlling: A boyfriend may want to control his girlfriend's behavior, and looking at his phone can give him more control over his girlfriend's activities and interactions.
4.Worried: The boyfriend may be worried about his girlfriend's safety and look through his phone to find out about his girlfriend's whereabouts and safety.
No matter what the psychology is, looking at the phone is disrespectful to the other party's selfish behavior, and it is recommended that the boyfriend should respect the girlfriend's privacy and solve the problem through communication and trust.
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Do you mind if the subject looks through their phone?
We in love always seem to like to prove our worth by pushing the boundaries of others.
It's normal to don't want the other party to look at the phone, it's not that if you don't let you look at it, you must have a ghost in your heart, there is a boundary between people in an intimate relationship, and this boundary is not not not close, but while trying to get closer, respect the right of the other party to say no.
Personally, I don't mind, not just my partner looking at my phone, but everyone, and even hate it when I'm chatting or playing with my phone, others are staring at the side, which is very uncomfortable. But the other half proposed to see my mobile phone, mind but will still show her, I don't want to involve trust or love because of the mobile phone, here, the mind of the cover Chang is not that she looks at my mobile phone, but the feeling of not being trusted.
If a person's sense of security comes from having to force the other party to live according to their own way, otherwise they don't love, then I think this kind of person will feel uneasy because there is something wrong with them.
Can you accept the subject looking at his phone.
I don't mind checking my phone, but if I deliberately check it and regard it as part of my relationship, it's counterproductive.
The matter of checking the mobile phone itself represents too much, trust in the other half, insecurity about the relationship and the desire to control their own existence, etc., for couples, the desire for trust, security, and control is ...... in the three emotions
If you can't grasp the scale and proportion, it is actually very likely to become a very fatal factor.
There is nothing wrong with the saying that a good man should stand up to checking his mobile phone, and if you have a clear conscience about these things, then even checking your mobile phone will not affect the sense of security between you.
But if as a woman, you care too much about checking your phone, or even regard checking your phone as something you have to do as long as the two of you get along together, then in fact, this matter will change from your lack of security to your excessive desire to control.
The so-called intimacy between couples should be intimate and measured.
Everyone should have their own space and secrets of life, and mobile phones are often a person's greatest privacy.
It doesn't necessarily have to be many secrets in the mobile phone, but this small space that only belongs to a person, if it is excessively violated, will only make the relationship between two people suspicious.
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First of all, I won't look through the subject's phone, because I think it's a very disrespectful and distrustful behavior towards people. Everyone has their own right to privacy, even between lovers, and the privacy of others should be fully respected and understood, and the act of looking at other people's mobile phones is impolite and disrespectful.
Secondly, if I accidentally find something I don't want to see, I can communicate with him, and I won't be angry with him right away, for example, once I saw a ** of his ex-girlfriend, but it was not a separate **, but a group photo with several people**, I didn't get angry, but asked him why he kept this **, and he said that the separate ** were deleted, this is a group photo suitable for several friends. I don't think there's anything, so I've kept it, and it makes sense that I want to do it, so I followed his inner thoughts, and this ** has always been there.
But it doesn't affect the relationship between the two of us. It is precisely because the two of us can understand and tolerate each other that the relationship between us is getting better and better, and we are thinking about each other and encouraging each other in work and life. We all feel like we've got the right person, so don't worry too much about these inconsequential little things, as long as he's nice to you.
The two of us have always been not recommended to play with each other's mobile phones, and often play with each other, not with the psychology of prying, but more want to understand each other, what do we usually pay attention to? And we both feel that our hearts are open and fair, and there is nothing we can't see. But of course, the past must be ignored.
Whether it's a former brother of the opposite sex or an ambiguous, object. The first type: couples with very good feelings, it is recommended not to look at each other's mobile phones.
If you have a good relationship, trust each other, and you believe that he will not do anything unseemly, then leave a little personal space for each other.
As the saying goes: "Love is intimate with boundaries", since you believe him, the relationship foundation of two people is very good, then you must respect each other's privacy.
The second type: the other party doesn't mind you watching it, then it's better not to watch it.
If the other party's mobile phone is not locked with a password, or he records your orange age unlock fingerprint, tells you the unlock password, and looks like he has nothing to do, and even when you ask to check his mobile phone, he is not panicked at all, at this time, it is best not to look at it.
In this case, there are only two possibilities, the first is that he is very honest with you and has nothing to hide from you, and the second is that he has destroyed the evidence before showing you, even if you look at it again, it is meaningless.
The third way: if you find him abnormal, you must see it.
If your relationship foundation is not very good, and you find that the other party has been very abnormal recently, often holding your mobile phone and chatting non-stop, or even playing with your mobile phone behind your back, changing the mobile phone password, and setting a new password, then you must read it and ask what it is.
You can agree with the other party that you have the right to look at his mobile phone; He also has the right to look at your phone and set fingerprint passwords for each other, which can be viewed at any time.
Both people have the right to look at each other's phones, but also reserve space for each other.
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