In a marriage that wishes for the other party s death, what do you insist on?

When I see you, I can basically guess that you are a woman. Because if the man really arrives in a marriage that he wants the other party to die. Either they will leave decisively.

Either it's going to kill the other half. And women complain in such a way. It can also be seen that you have a strong resentment towards him in your heart.

I am here to explain that I am not giving you a question, not hoping to tell you what to insist on. I want to help you a little bit. I hope you have a small direction on this confused road. I'm sure that's what you want too.

We have to think about a few questions. First, why our marriage is like this. It's caused by the other party alone.

Or do we have a big problem with ourselves? Objective facts are needed here. Maybe the other party has made mistakes in the past, and at the same time, we also need to think about whether we have done anything to hurt the other party.

For example, scolding, complaining, chattering, etc. These actions will bring you further and further apart. We can't change others, but we can start to adjust ourselves.

When we stop stabbing each other in the heart with a knife. Then the probability of the other party taking the initiative to barrel us is also much smaller. The relationship will be eased somewhat.

However, it is a pity that most people stab each other in their marital relationship.

The second question is, do we like who we are now? If you don't like yourself. So how do we get others to like us?

If we don't value ourselves yet. Then the other party will cherish us! Don't say, how good I was to each other before.

He should do the same to me. What we give to each other, this is what we can choose. But we can't force each other to be nice to us.

So all we can do is like who we are. Cherish who you are now. When you cherish yourself, you will naturally let go of your resentment towards the other person.

At that time, our hearts will become calm. At the same time, your marriage relationship will also improve.

If you can adjust these two points well, then you can look at your own marriage again in the past time. Whether the situation is getting better. If you really can't adjust these two points. Then it is advisable that you let go early.

There are many aspects to this, such as worrying about children, and parents and sisters. I'm afraid they won't be able to accept it, and the other is unwilling and reluctant to form a family, many things are made by themselves, and people are emotional animals. I am reluctant to make a stitch and a thread by myself, and I am unwilling to let others get it.

Maybe there are children involved, reluctant to have children, or there is an uneven division of property and does not give up, or one party has a new love, and the other party does not want the other party to be happy, and deliberately insists on not divorcing.

If you live like enemies, you may insist on a complete family, and the harmony of three families, after all, it is impossible for you to have only your mother's family and your mother-in-law's family and your family in marriage!

This insistence comes from nothing more than the ties of the children, the constraints of the families on both sides, and the fear of being rejected by the eyes of the world.

I think most of the things that can be insisted on in this way are considered from the perspective of interests.

If you divorce yourself, I am afraid that the benefits will be minimized.

I will always get money for those who can't get it.

In order to give the child a complete home!

I don't think it's necessary to insist on this kind of marriage, because two people have become enemies in the marriage, and there is no need to continue such a relationship, and if it continues, it will only make the two people very painful.

should not continue to insist, it means that two people are no longer happy in life, and two people no longer have any love, and they should take the initiative to leave each other.

If your marriage really comes to the point where you wish the other person died, then don't hold on any longer. It's good for both of you to let go decisively.

If the marriage really wants the other party to take this step, then don't insist on making a decision and letting go of both.

Introduction: In fact, it is easy to have some contradictions in married life, and if this contradiction is not resolved in time, it will bring serious problems. Do you still need to persist in a marriage that wishes the other party died?

This kind of marital state is very unhealthy, and it has involved personal safety, if you still want to insist, I really don't understand what the point is, it's better to divorce quickly. When you get divorced, you can discuss your personal development, and you can also make each other quieter, and if a married life is not only not happy, but also painful. This relationship itself is abnormal, and it is estimated that it has long been divided in other relationships, and there is no need to treat it special because of marriage.

Therefore, there is still no need to maintain, breaking up quickly may be able to make the other party develop better, and if you persist for a long time, you will have psychological problems, which will bring a series of hidden dangers. In the process of marriage, there is no need to lose one's happiness because of others or because of children. There may be a period of discomfort after the divorce.

But most people are able to adjust, even if they are alone with children at the time of divorce, women who have no job at all can carry it. As an ordinary person, how could he not bear it, so he broke up quickly.

In fact, the way to fall in love after getting married is different, which is why many people choose different criteria when they get married and when they fall in love. The most important thing in married life is that two people work together to make progress together, marriage is like a partnership, as long as two people manage their family life well, then they can maintain it better. Therefore, in the process of married life, we must observe whether the two people are developing in the same direction, and whether they can make the overall material conditions of the family better.

As long as the overall material conditions of the family can be improved, then this married life is worth it, and it is the wealth created by two people.

There is no need to persevere, because the two of you have reached the end, and if you continue to persevere, it will only make the two of you very tired.

There is no need to insist, in a good relationship, you want the other party to get better and better, and you have to separate with such thoughts.

<> many people often face a lot of problems that are difficult to deal with after entering marriage. Some people can easily become insincere in the relationship because of the daily trivialities in the marriage, and may even treat the other person as an enemy. Then many netizens raised questions:

In a marriage where you want the other party to die, do you feel the need to persevere?

In my perception, I think that if I am in such a marriage, then there is no need to insist on it at all. In most people's hearts, marriage actually brings us not to rely on, but more to the harbor of the family. So if you don't experience such feelings in this marriage, and even the relationship between two people has been completely hostile, then there is no need for this marriage to exist, and if you continue to persevere, we can only hurt ourselves.

So sometimes how to live in harmony in marriage is also a behavior that many people should learn, after all, the reason why two people get married, more because of a certain emotional foundation, but often some people can get along happily in marriage, and some people refer to being a person but becoming an enemy, and the problems contained in this should also be a topic for us to think about seriously. No matter how deep the relationship is, in fact, it is often because of the constant quarrels in daily life, and it will be slowly consumed. Therefore, sometimes we should not pay too much attention to winning or losing in a quarrel in marriage, but should think about how to better deal with problems without hurting the feelings of both parties.

Many people are often not able to do this kind of behavior in their relationships, so it will lead to a conflict between the two parties, and only a big quarrel can finally be resolved. In the long run, they will lack communication and communication with both parties, if there is a lack of communication in a relationship, it is easy for each other to not know each other's attitude, then the bad result is also something we can predict, and it also hurts others, isn't it?

This is definitely unnecessary, which means that the relationship between the two of you has come to an end, and there is no love anymore.

I think it is unnecessary for Jian to serve you, which will make both parties have more pressure, and I will feel that this marriage is very tiring, which is not conducive to the common progress of both parties, and I cannot take on the responsibility of the family.