My ex boyfriend said that good men won t chase me, so is it true that there are no good boys chasing

Updated on psychology 2024-07-05
50 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You say your ex-boyfriend won't say a good man. Chase you. That's because he said such things when you quarreled with him, and then he wanted to keep you, and you didn't give him a chance, then he was actually trying to find an excuse for himself to keep you, not to say.

    There are no good men to chase you, in fact, there are quite a few good men. Then if you become good, there will definitely be good men chasing you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Little fairy, you really think too much... There is no good or bad boy, only suitable or not. The right guy for you is a good boy.

    Be sure to find someone who suits you, otherwise, you won't feel happy with any good person. I think that there is no girl in this world who can't get married, and if a girl really wants to fall in love and get married, she should find a group of interested boys with good character. But is the guy that most of the guys think is good for you?

    Not necessarily...

    A classmate of mine and his girlfriend were a couple in our eyes when they were in college, but they broke up after less than a year together... The reason is very simple, boys like to read, be alone, like to study astronomy, Zhou Yi, is a talent. Girls are more enthusiastic and lively, love to socialize, like shopping, shopping.

    Every time we sweep the goods during the holidays, she takes the lead in quality development. But these two people get together, it's like a goblet meets a red rose, outsiders seem to be so elegant, but what can a goblet do for red roses? The goblet is for red wine, is he willing to transform himself into a vase to nourish the roses?

    Even if he wanted to, would the roses kept in the goblet grow well? In the end, it's just that each other's needs are different. A goblet needs red wine, and a red rose needs a vase, which was wrong from the start...

    When they broke up, the two of them were also in an uproar, quarrelling, girls scolded boys for scum, boys were angry that girls don't like to read, they are not motivated, and their style is poor. . . But in my opinion, these two people are right, but they can't fit each other and need each other...

    So, little fairy, relax your mind, be true to yourself, and find someone who suits you, in my opinion, your ex-boyfriend is just not suitable for you, and it has nothing to do with his character. When you find that person, you will find that you are really good, not because you have changed anything, but because of the person around you, it is him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No, it's just that your ex-boyfriend doesn't want to see you doing well, you're going to meet that better boyfriend, be confident that you're the best girl.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    After reading the question, I feel that the subject is a little too sensitive! What your ex-boyfriend said when he quarreled with you naturally has a part of the nature of anger, so naturally it is not very credible, so don't amplify the meaning of his words!

    Of course, it's good that you can find the reason from yourself, but there are shortcomings to change the shortcomings, and you must not overdo it! Good luck at the end!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    That's just his opinion, not necessarily right. As long as you are good enough, you don't have to worry about no one chasing you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Your ex-boyfriend said that you don't have a good man to pursue you, it's just that he broke up with him in his heart, so he said this, you will have a better boyfriend to chase and chase better happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You affirm that his sentence represents your lack of confidence, it's not that there are no good boys, it's just that you haven't met it yet, this kind of thing is still fate.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello beauty, of course you can't believe your ex-boyfriend's words, because you broke up, he may say that you can definitely meet someone who is suitable for you and you really love each other.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    That's because he doesn't have self-confidence, you deserve better.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't care, it's just that you can't associate with other people. It belongs to my mentality even if we break up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What about me, my girlfriend I've been talking to for two years, I love her in every possible way, love her, what haven't I done for her? It was she who made me believe in love, and she also made me not believe in love, and she would dump me and be with her ex-boyfriend again.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you haven't met it, you can say it's not good! How so? As a man, I also say a word for men!

    I was in love once, three years, and when I was in love, I held it in the palm of my hand for fear that she would fall! It's her in my head every day, and I don't even bother to look at other girls! Every time we meet, I don't want her to walk or take the bus!

    No matter how far away it is, it's for her to be rented! In fact, I'm just an ordinary office worker, so let's not talk about the process, spoil her to heaven! Later, her mother thought I didn't have a building or a car!

    Strongly disagree! My girlfriend has a deep relationship with me, but we still insist! Her dad once cornered me and almost beat me up, but her mom said she wouldn't agree to it to my face!

    I still insist! I think I work hard to save money, and it only takes 5-6 years to buy a house, and it would definitely be good if my girlfriend was with me! My income is okay!

    But then we broke up, and my girlfriend proposed to break up with me, saying that it was her parents on one side and her parents on the other, and the pressure was too great! In the end, because she went out to eat and drink at work, I criticized her and said that she shouldn't drink, because I was afraid that she would be deceived! Unexpectedly, this became the fuse for the breakup!

    In fact, the two of them know the ending very well, and they have broken up for more than half a year now! The memories of three years are also a thing of the past! I've cried and hurt, but I've come out of it!

    I don't know what a man is without a good thing! But I only know that I love her very much and am willing to pay for her for the rest of my life! But God loves to mess with people!

    Hehe! I want to tell you that not all men are greedy for momentary pleasure! If you are surrounded by bad men, it means that you also lack the qualities to attract good men!

    That's all! I love my girlfriend to death, because she is kind and down-to-earth and knowledgeable! I don't know what kind of person you are!

    If you want to get a good man, you have to understand what kind of women a good man needs!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Who said that he was a good man, you just thought he was. He's not a good man, so are you a good woman?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Some men treat women like fish, prepare well before fishing, prepare plenty of bait, and then don't put in anything after they catch it. To deal with such people is to change oneself from a fish to a fisherman. Try a change of mind?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I can only say that I love when I chase you, this is called love, and I want to be happy in the past, but fortunately it's not yours.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Good men are hurt by bad women before they dare to love with all their hearts. The lover is seven points better and three points of self-love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't overturn a boatload of people with one shot, it will make people think that you have read countless people, which is not good.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes! Men don't have a good thing, they are selfish, they only think about themselves, and never for others.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's like this, men are all the same.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    On the surface, this is the case, but a man who really loves you will not cheat big things.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Good men are more introverted and dare to take the initiative when they meet the girls they like. And you girls will also find these kinds of boys boring.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Try to make yourself better so that there will be good men pursuing you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Whatever circle you are in, you are close to whomever you are. Improve yourself and jump out of the circle, the garbage man will stay away from you, and the good man will be closer to you. May your good man meet you soon.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This is the effect of like like clustering.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    What kind of man is a good man in your mind. Don't call the man who is chasing you trash, it's too hurtful. Love depends on fate, and you have to believe that you can find someone you love.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    What do you call a good man and how do you position it? If you feel that they are not satisfied, you can take the initiative to pursue it yourself, pursue what you like or are satisfied with, and decide by yourself, don't wait, you will only miss the ...... good marriage

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Improve yourself, become better, and naturally attract good men.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Put your mind right. It's impossible for me to dress and look exquisite, and I can't chase after him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I guess your vision is too high.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    What are the criteria for a good man?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Reflect on yourself.

    Isn't it enough to restrain yourself.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    What kind of garbage law?

    Don't pay for meals?

    Can't say romantic words?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    What do you want to be a good man? I don't smoke, I don't drink, I don't gamble, I don't go to nightlife, does that meet your requirements? And if I fall in love with you, you are the only one for me.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Your ex-boyfriend is not going to cherish the person who doesn't want others to get even if he can't get it At the beginning he was with you I feel like he chased you for half a year just to catch you up with this result That's why there will be a later relationship dull Feelings are bound to happen But I dislike you... I don't think he actually loves you much No matter how ugly the ugly duckling is always the most beautiful in front of the boyfriend who loves him, he is very macho He just wants to get a kind of acquiescence He feels that he has succeeded There is a sense of accomplishment And you are not still in love with him It's more of a habit You're used to this pattern with him You feel that the person who likes you now is not interested in someone who doesn't love you much One is someone who is likely to love you sincerely One is someone who is likely to love you sincerely One is a person who forms a habit One is a new start to weigh it yourself Look before you leap.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's clear that you're in love with your ex-boyfriend. But as a woman, there will always be a loss in love, especially on the premise of marriage, a wise woman will choose the one who loves her. And your ex-boyfriend looks like the kind of person who is self-centered and has a lot of problems.

    A good man has requirements for himself and no requirements for his own woman. If you are as smart as you are, you should know.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Your ex-boyfriend is a very possessive person, he must get what he wants, and after getting it, he will not allow others to touch it even if he doesn't like it. It's very selfish.

    He should have liked you before, and if a man doesn't like you and chases you, he will generally give up when you refuse the second time. But he has always been persistent.

    Later, it is unimaginable that he dislikes you so much. Because there is a shih hat in the eyes of a lover.

    After breaking up, someone chases you, and he comes to reconcile, the key is that he did not learn a lesson and cherish it, but returned to the past after getting it.

    Extremely possessive and incorrigible.

    You have so many people chasing after you, which means that you are very good. Don't stumble over someone who doesn't love you anymore.

    Now that there is such a good person, cherish him.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    He doesn't like you, but he is very possessive of you.

    And you, a little stupid, eat a hundred beans and still don't know the fishy? Are you his free rubber doll?

    It is recommended that you calm down. Then start the next relationship.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Forget what should be forgotten, accept what should be accepted, the scenery is often good now, smart you, you should know what to do.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I don't think you should want such a person, if you dislike you this and that, if you should be good, then why do you choose him?

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    They are still young, uncertain, and will not have any patience

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    1First of all, you shouldn't choose to be with your ex-boyfriend when the man you like most is not your ex-boyfriend. But then you broke up with him again. That's right, don't delay people.

    2 Since your ex-boyfriend still likes you and cares about you, he shouldn't look for another one.

    3. You don't have the right to let him break up with his current girlfriend. Because it's his business.

    4 When we meet, he should not touch you, and you should not allow him to hold you, kiss you, or hold your hand. Because now his girlfriend is not you!

    From your narrative, I get the impression that this guy is scum. Girl, withdraw quickly, don't be a stupid junior in a scumbag relationship.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Break up, he likes you, and he likes that girl, at first, he only likes you, it's unique, and now he divides half of his liking for you to others, there is a saying that is very right, when you like 2 people at the same time, please choose the latter one you like, because if the first one likes it enough, it won't be in love with the second person, he doesn't like you that much, he also likes someone else,

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Such a scumbag with a heart is not worth cherishing, there is a kind of love called letting go, and the one that belongs to you is still ahead.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Don't think about these things yet, it's not good to be a junior, and you can talk to him when they break up.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    About marriage, all women are eager to marry a good man, and about love, all women are willing to sacrifice themselves to bad men.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Put it all down! What really suits you won't do that to you.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    That's the case, my ex too, I found a new girlfriend I don't think it's good, I persuaded him not to be with her, but I didn't listen to my advice, but I really hope that he can live well. But anyone who has this idea of mine will not consider getting back together, after all, they have broken up, and the past is the past, otherwise they would not have broken up at the beginning.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    The ex-boyfriend actually knows that someone is chasing you, it's not what you said, it's likely that the other party is still paying attention to you, or knows some things about the man chasing you, but it's hard to say, whether it's true or false needs to be judged by yourself, as long as life safety is okay, time will test it.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Since they've all broken up, they're still harassing you.

    It's not a good man.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    He doesn't love you, and he says he wants to play, but he hasn't found his true love yet. Saying that he is not a good man is just trying for you not to pester him.

    You really should find someone who loves you, and even if you can't find it, don't look back, then you will become his general.

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He's not an overly narcissist.,Men have a slight degree of narcissism from a scientific point of view.,But it can't be shown.,Or it's not the same form of expression.,This man said that the simple point is to show that he is leaving you.,It can be seen from what you wrote later.,At that time, he didn't really love you.,Personally, I think love is unreasonable.,Any justified love or not love is hypocritical.。。。 Just a reason.