Why college life is more complicated than society

For most students, because they don't know much about society, they feel that school life is not as easy as social life, in fact, if you step into the society, you will miss college life very much!

Because you have not yet seen the complexities of society ... So this sentence of yours is one-sided.

To support the previous statement about the university and society, it is imperative ——— have a good attitude! "Society", everyone can exist and live, and so can you! Tolerance and ignorance of gains and losses are the foundation of your good attitude; If you can consciously exercise your will and perseverance, you can be strong!

Money is not everything; "Dark" and "despicable" are spurned by everyone; Be a positive person and walk your own sunny road - you have the ability - there will be Bole to appreciate you! Good luck!

Empathize, some people are really bored, look at others unpleasantly, and want to do something stupid to show their attitude, and go around saying that others are not, just think that the person she hates is not the same as the person, I am really tired of those so-called female friendships I really hate people who gossip behind people's backs, lest the world is not chaotic, what is it to prove

Stay away from gossip and gossip, stay away from boring villains, this is my code of conduct.

Because you don't understand society yet.

Is it complicated?? Society is more disgusting.

It is normal for universities to be small societies, after all, as they grow older, the size of their schools expands (universities are indeed much larger than elementary and high schools), and they are under pressure to find employment, they inevitably become ivory towers.

It is not an exaggeration to say that it is a small society. Here are a few examples.

1. Bedroom. Nowadays, the dormitories are generally four-person rooms, but there are also six-person rooms and eight-person rooms, but there are relatively few of them. Often a dormitory roommates from all over the world, some may be from the south, some may be from the north, temperament is also very different, in fact, it is a small society, to understand each other, learn from each other, humble to each other, in order to spend the four years of college safely, even if they are not satisfied with each other, they will not let each other change because of their "dissatisfaction".

The same is true for going out into society, especially within the system.

Even if you are extremely dissatisfied with your colleagues, you still have to work with these people in the future.

2. Campaigning. In various elections at universities, such as the election of student council officers, there are often many votes and they are elected as officers, but occasionally there are cases where they receive more votes but are not identified as cadres for other reasons. This is similar to participating in the work, doing a very good job, and the democratic evaluation is also very high, but unfortunately it is not promoted, and can only pay in obscurity, and cannot get the due return, and if you are unlucky, you can get an advanced worker, if you are unlucky, it is easy to be excluded, which is a very normal situation.

3. Human words. In college life, the proportion of learning is not large, more often, it is your own time, you can actually do whatever you want, but there are more people in the university, and there are many people, and the originally uncomplicated things become complicated, and you have to face new visions, new standards, and new ways of thinking. However, these will eventually become "human words", and they have to face the "human words" of hypocrisy, the "human words" of jealousy, the "human words" of intrigue, etc., which are actually no different from society.

In short, universities are indeed a small society, whether they admit it or not, and this is the way it is!

<>1.It's hard to get out of your comfort zone.

Survey data on the status of college students shows that only 40% of them have time to study independently, which means that most college students are in a relatively comfortable state of university life. Indeed, college is where dreams begin, and for the 40% of college students who are willing to step out of their comfort, the realization of dreams depends on hard work; 30% of relative comfort, standing on the edge of walking out of comfort and immersion comfort; And for the remaining 30%, it can only rely on daydreaming. This comfort restricts most people's college careers and becomes the biggest challenge for contemporary college students.

For class, choose a "Buddhist" attitude to life, but the Buddhism here is not to go with the flow, but to deliberately put it badly. For example, Ali stepped on every class, and sometimes even rushed into the classroom after the roll call, found a seat that the teacher could not see, and then skillfully turned on his mobile phone, or put on headphones, immersed in his own world, isolated from the world, and put an end to listening to lectures and communication.

For life, clothes must be piled up to a certain extent and then washed, and must use a washing machine, if you can't row, you can even put the clothes in the laundry room, and so on, until you recall, find that you have no clothes to wear, and then hurriedly go to the queue to do laundry, wash it and let it go, often after a few days, only to remember that you still have clothes in the laundry room, and then go back to dry.

2.Physical activity is not valued.

For physical exercise, ask the seniors for advice before choosing physical education classes in college, which teacher's class is rarely named, and the free exercise time accounts for a large proportion, and then every time the class is done to prepare for the activity, he sneaks back to the dormitory, whether it is playing games or making up homework, in short, he doesn't do anything related to sports in physical education class. When I waited for the physical test, in the face of the precarious physical test results, I was heartbroken, complaining about why I didn't participate in the exercise well, making passing a luxury and a good physical fitness a luxury. <>

3.The herd mentality of going with the flow.

To participate in activities, to participate in the organization, you must ask your roommates, classmates, if there is no one with you, you don't plan to go, or even give up an organization that you like very much, but others are different, when your roommates and classmates have entered your favorite organization, you find that you have not participated in anything, nothing has entered, when your roommates go out to participate in activities, you will become a lonely "housekeeper". Then there is the familiar self-pity link, blaming yourself for why you should blindly follow the herd, but the matter has come to this point, the major community organizations have been recruited, and you can only go to some low-quality clubs with a shortage of personnel to do what you don't like. <>

College life is still very relaxed, and it is also relatively leisurely, and generally universities are more relaxed.

The biggest feeling should be that society is really much simpler than imagined, and campus life is really dark! I'll tell you the truth, since the day I entered society, I have never been beaten by society, and the worst time I was beaten was on campus.

Many parents often instill a wrong idea in their children that society is dark and school life is the most beautiful and simple era. However, I am deeply skeptical of this statement.

In fact, many schools are militarized, you are always bound by a prison rent, and you need to provide the money you need to live, and you cannot be financially independent, and there is no freedom at all. Therefore, how terrible is campus life, such a state, it is clearly very dark, and it is ** beautiful?

And after entering the society, even the company with the most serious overtime, in order to avoid exhaustion, is only 996. However, the time spent on studying is more serious than that of the company with the most serious overtime, which is often 5107.

In fact, the darkness of the society imagined by many people is nothing more than all kinds of relatives, intrigue, and unspoken rules? Not to mention that this phenomenon itself is rare, even if there are really intrigue and various unspoken rules in society, will this be darker than a militarized campus?

In fact, in the real society, you can freely choose your own profession, you can decide what you do, you have the right to be lazy, you also have the freedom to degenerate, you have the right to entertainment, and you have the freedom to enjoy yourself. Therefore, those who are about to graduate do not have to be afraid of society, and just boldly enter the society.

After graduation, the experience in the society will make many people have a lot of feelings, and the survival of the fittest is the primary truth.

First, the society pays attention to the law of the jungle, basically no mercy, intrigue is far greater than in school, the school can at least have a world-old buddy brother, in the school people are also simple, thinking about things can often only consider the surface, but to the society, think about things can not only think about the deep factors, but also consider the people involved, consider the interests, consider the future impact.

Second, one will offend the villain if he is not careful. You can still be willful in school, but there are a lot of helplessness in society, knowing that you can't do it. The brothers in the school are still in contact with the society, and they will be brothers forever, and if the brothers in the society often contact you, then you have to be careful, you still have the value of use.

The school looks at friendship, the society looks at interests, in a word, the society is sinister.

3. In school, waking up is going to school, and in society, waking up is life.

Some people in the school think they are in society, but in fact they are just playing at home.

Fourth, if you make a mistake in school, someone will immediately point it out to you, and if you make a mistake in society, you don't know how many bags you have to bump out of your brain before you know that you are wrong. I thought it was difficult to deal with some classmates at school, but when I entered the society, I found that interpersonal relationships are really complicated.

In short, society has taught me to be self-aware and self-reflective; It made me understand that people are different, and factors such as family of origin, education level, living environment, growth experience, etc., affect our cognitive perspective, cognitive ability and cognitive level in all aspects.

College life is very different from social life. The specific differences are as follows:

1.School is a small society. The Colonel is a special community in society. He is more responsible for education and scientific research. than the function of society is single and clear. The environment is also relatively simple.

2.The personnel are more distinctive. Universities are younger than campuses.

The students at the university are all around 18 to 27 years old, with no children or the elderly. This part of the young people is relatively simple, the quality is also high, full of youthful vitality, is a gathering place of fashion and trends, and it is easier for young people to try new ideas and show their personality.

3.The university's interpersonal relations are both simple and single. In the university, the relationship between teachers and students, classmates, roommates, and the student union is mainly the relationship. The others are gone, so the human-machine relationship faced in the university is really simple and simple.

4.There is very little pressure on universities. First of all, in terms of filial piety and living expenses for the living, parents generally give it cover, and there is no financial pressure. The second is that there is no work pressure, and academic pressure is not comparable to work pressure. Be cautious.

To sum up, university life is an ivory tower time in life, a greenhouse before entering society.

There is a lot of room for intellectual development. The life of college students has not yet entered the society, and they have more energy to devote themselves to the development and development of intelligence. The improvement of knowledge, thinking ability and vision during this period will have a positive impact on the whole life.

This is beneficial for the future structure of contacts in all walks of life, which is difficult to do in other identities. Networking plays a big role in career development. 4.

Ideals are richer. At the stage of college students, personal ideals and idealism are stronger. This stimulates a positive mental state, which is conducive to life planning and goal setting.

The spirit of idealism is one of the driving forces of social progress. Of course, there are certain shortcomings in the identity of college students:1

Lack of social experience. There is a lack of social experience at the college level, and experience takes time to accumulate. To a certain extent, this will affect the maturity of judgment and adaptability.

2.Weak sense of reality. Idealism can also produce a bias in the sense of reality.

This needs to be adjusted through practice in the coming period of time, so that the ideal can be integrated with the reality. 3.Autonomy is beginning to emerge.

Even though they have knowledge, they are still developing the ability to live independently, which requires the support of skills and time. The independent operation of the university students also requires the support of family resources. So, as a human being, I will experience the superiority of being a college student at some point.

However, this superiority is more reflected in the opportunities for learning and growth, and the lack of college students is also obvious in terms of life operation and social experience. College students should devote themselves more to learning and potential development, which is the focus of this identity stage. Easily enjoying all kinds of advantages, while ignoring learning and growth, is the wrong way to use the identity of a college student.

Only through continuous learning and accumulation can the advantage of this identity be truly transformed into the driving force of life and the driving force of development. Therefore, college students should cherish the opportunity to learn more and constantly improve themselves, which is the main value of this identity.