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Anonymous users2024-02-13If your boyfriend says he can't help it, it could mean that he is very excited or sexually aroused, but this situation needs to be handled with caution. Here are some suggestions:
1.Communication: First of all, you should try to communicate with him to understand his feelings and thoughts. Ask him what he wants and make sure you understand what he means.
2.Respect: If he makes some demands that you are not willing to accept, you should tell him how you feel and emphasize your boundaries. You should stick to your bottom line while also respecting his feelings.
3.Wait: If you feel that he is too excited or too impatient, you can advise him to wait and calm down before thinking about it. Sometimes, cooling down can make people think more rationally.
4.Pay attention to his emotions: If you feel that he is very depressed or has other negative emotions, you should do your best to comfort him and help him relieve his emotions.
Most importantly, you should make sure that both of you are on the same channel and that you respect each other's feelings and needs. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to seek help, including a professional counsellor or relationship counsellor.
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Anonymous users2024-02-12You are still students, don't have sex too early, otherwise it will not be good for your studies. You can read more books, learn more, and get to know each other more. It's not too late to have sex when you have some financial means.
If you still can't restrain yourself, don't be together, lest you regret it. If you really love each other, then don't care about other people's eyes. You can go find a suitable place and travel together.
I wish you all happiness.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11I can't help it, I just don't want to bear it.
If he loves you, he will hold back, he will respect you, even if the body reacts, he will not touch you, but solve it on the side, or feel the cold water to calm down, if he has been begging you to keep wanting, you should consider whether he loves you, if this is your bottom line, he has been touching, it is his fault.
Believe me, the boy can endure it, he must be able to, even if he can't bear the cover, he will find a way, instead of telling you that he can't help it, I hope you don't get hurt.
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Anonymous users2024-02-101.Is it important to know for the first time? I'm a girl and I know that the first time is important, so it's right not to give easily, and you're not wrong.
2.Talk to him well, say that you are not ready, if he really loves you, he will not be forced, he will respect you, and if he does not understand you, you should also think about whether he really loves you.
3.If your boyfriend is really in need, you can help him in other ways, you can ask him to cool down in the shower or something like thatTake 10,000 steps back, you are a girl, even if you take the last step, you must protect yourself and take safety measures.
5.I hope you and your boyfriend can love each other forever and be with each other for a lifetime! I also hope that you will be able to avoid harm.
6.Hope to help you and get yours!
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Your boyfriend wants to gain your sympathy so that you can give it to him and not believe his nonsense.
The boyfriend said that he couldn't help but think about what to do, it depends on the situation of the relationship, everyone has been entangled in this, Women still have to love themselves, otherwise they only regret themselves, don't give themselves easily, love is to feel with your heart, love is a responsibility, think about it, whether two people are suitable for each other, don't be impulsive and hurt yourself.
Young people will have acne more or less, when the acne has just grown, add honey with cucumber juice, apply it to the acne and it will go away, or wash your face with a booked toothpaste, eat less spicy and greasy food, and when the acne is ripe, use a toothpick to puncture the acne, do not squeeze it and leave marks.
Then look at the people who have more serious problems than you, see how they have survived, maybe you will cheer yourself up, you will have some motivation to face the problem, or just like everyone said, go out for a walk, see other new things, don't let your life always revolve around a problem that drives you crazy, I wish you a good day!
Hehe, you don't need to deliberately change it, it shows that you are kind in your heart, compassionate, and grateful. However, if you can make yourself stronger with some training, it will make the people around you feel that your character is more perfect! For example, you can try to look at a problem or situation from a different perspective, and at the same time exchange views and feelings with very good friends, which should be effective. >>>More
Half similar to what I've encountered before. I think he probably has some trouble, and there are two reasons why he doesn't want to tell you, one is that he doesn't want to put pressure on you, and the other is that he doesn't want you to know. If he really said to you, "I guess I won't look for it", I think he loves you no matter what mistakes he makes. >>>More