I like someone, and that person has a boyfriend! What should I do? Big brothers and sisters give a w

Updated on society 2024-07-22
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I think it's better to give up, one, if you chase it, you will appear as a third person, not only will it be difficult to be accepted by the people you know around you, but it will cost more cost and energy than chasing a girl who doesn't have a boyfriend.

    Second, even if you have the ability to chase after you, it is not because of the natural breakdown of her relationship with her boyfriend, but because of your intervention, it is difficult to let go of her ex-boyfriend at once, which is an unstable triangle.

    Third, if you catch up, then with your experience, how can you not worry that the next appearance of you will make her can't help but go? Human nature is inexorable.

    If she doesn't accept you, it means that she is a good girl, and at most she doesn't have a good impression of you enough for her to give up her current boyfriend; If she accepts you, will she be able to become loyal only to you in the future? If you're just friends, it's hard for you to accept the embarrassment of dropping a relationship into a friendship. So, the best realistic option is to give up on this idea and go with the flow to find the next happiness.

    Good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Hey, why haven't I encountered the problem you said?

    In this case, the feasible method can be counted on your fingers!

    One: The limitation of what the above person said, re-searching, is that your feelings for that person are not unforgettable.

    Two: Go and confess and fight for it. The limitation of this method is that they are not deeply emotional, or there is already a conflict! In this way, you are likely to succeed, and objective factors dominate.

    Three: Wait silently! The limitation of this method is that you don't know how long their relationship is, so it's hard to grasp. And it's extremely demanding on your subjective side!

    The above three aspects! It's up to you to do it yourself, and make up your mind based on your reality and their current situation!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Big brother and big sister? Not that old.

    Decide for yourself, my thoughts are:

    He was not married. If the woman chooses you, it means that their relationship is not strong enough, and if you can't pursue it, you will quit.

    Good luck!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    What if you have a boyfriend, chase! ...

    She and her current boyfriend may not be the most suitable, maybe you are more compatible with her

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let's find a new one! Don't be the one who destroys the happiness of others.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Ren will fall in love with one or several people all his life, inevitably hurt, after crying and hurting, one day after a long, long time, when he finally meets the love that truly belongs to him, he will understand that pain is sometimes precious, it enriches life and leaves some traces on memory!

    Just do what you are happy about, just do what you want to do, live a relaxed life, there is no need to deliberately force you to forget something, this will only make your life harder!

    Let yourself go, think clearly, and don't make unnecessary offerings! There are so many things in life that you have to learn to deal with, you don't lose everything when he is gone, you still have your job, your family, your friends! Integrate into life anew, where you will have a new self.

    And you must not believe in love, you just didn't meet the right person at the right time, and one day you will definitely find that happiness that belongs to you! He will truly love and care for you, and will not let you be hurt at all, let alone hurt you at all! Stop thinking about the person who is not worth thinking about, and accumulate feelings until your person really appears before using it!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I have a boyfriend and meet another boy I like, there are probably two reasons, the first is emotionless, and the second is emotionless and not fresh. There is nothing wrong with pursuing the other half of the match, but this kind of behavior is too inauthentic, and you must have a clear conscience before you officially break up.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's best to choose other things to divert your attention, or focus more on other men, don't do this kind of thing as a junior, your happiness will come.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Well done brother likes girls who have boyfriends, in that case you will only have one rival.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't fight for things that don't belong to you, don't fight until you find out that it doesn't suit you, hurt yourself, and hurt others.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Take the initiative to quit and don't embarrass everyone at the end.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Look at how she treats you, if you fall in love, then you can consider it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You said you shouldn't like it, you already have the answer, stop, don't hurt yourself.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You must have a reason for choosing your current boyfriend. But such as.

    If you really love A, love is crazy, and you want to start with him in the first version, you might as well try to see if he has the right to make a decision on whether you are interested or not. It takes time to see how good or bad a person is. If you hint a lot and he is unmoved, you will love him more and more.

    If he is moved, then this feeling will disappear, and you will find that he may not be so perfect after getting along. Third? You're not married, so he doesn't belong to a third party.

    Do you like him, do you like the feeling of being with him or the feeling of being intimate with him or being boyfriend and girlfriend? It's much easier to tell the difference.

    Since you are a beautiful woman and love him so much, why don't you hug him tightly from behind when you are alone? If you put your chest against his back, he will hug you tightly when he is interested in you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because she hurt him, and you always loved him. She definitely won't have the upper hand!

    All you have to do is keep pouring all your love into your boyfriend! Let her boyfriend completely forget about her! her off!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You know that your boyfriend is a person who values affection and affection, why should you doubt it? Let's continue to believe him, this may just be a way for God to test whether your boyfriend's love for you is single-minded enough!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't worry, you've said that love is important, but you have to be generous, don't go to your boyfriend's QQ like that, or your boyfriend will get tired of you, so you will give the woman a chance, you must be generous.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Everyone has the right to like and love, but only if you like and love in the right direction. As far as you are concerned, he may not be your best choice, try to broaden your social horizons, contact more excellent people of the opposite sex, and after a long time you will find that your thoughts and likes are very naïve, even ridiculous. In fact, a good girlfriend is more worthy of having than a man.

    Let me give you another layer of reasons for giving up. If you hint or confess to that man, and that man doesn't accept it, you will feel bored, embarrassed, and you won't know how to deal with him when you meet him when you meet him in the future. Secondly, if the man accepts you after a hint or confession, and pushes him into his bed as he wishes, but the man betrays the current man and is tired of being with you, do you think this kind of man will be reliable?

    Unless you are also the kind of person who is frivolous about love, he will believe that what he does to you is a sign of love for you.

    Therefore, it is recommended that you nip this kind of thinking that is not good for yourself and others in the bud. Take a walk and you'll find a more exciting life.

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