Is it to love someone to give unconditionally

Love needs to be given to each other, and unilateral giving sometimes brings pain, and everything has to be measured! If that person really loves you, he doesn't need you to give! If you love this person and you want to pay for him, although we say that you don't pay attention to returns, but the object you pay must be a person with good moral character, so that even if you pay, in the end it will not hurt too much!

Wishing you happiness and happiness!

It depends on whether you are worth it!! Sometimes unconditional giving is exchanged for sadness! It's up to you how you grasp it!!

No. There must be a bottom line, don't lose yourself for love, it's not worth it. There is something better in the world than love.

Not all, be worthy of yourself and your family! People can't only take care of themselves in life, and before doing things, we must think about the parents who gave birth to us and raised us! In this life, only parents are the people who really love us and care about us, and the people who pay unconditionally for their children!

How much you pay may not be able to get the corresponding return, don't invest everything in men, men can never be trusted, say change, kneel in front of you and say that you can't do without the person who can't do without you, in the end may also betray you, so it's better to leave yourself a way out.

Says who? Drag him or her out and beat him or her.

Agree with what was said upstairs !!It is better for a woman to love seven points, leave three points, and use three points to love herself and hurt herself.

Yes, if that person is your child.

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Because loving a person will unconditionally pay for a person, all unconditional payment under the premise? It's all because of love, no matter what kind of love it is?

That's right, there is a teacher I don't know who has helped me for three years, he is an online teacher, and then he added me, I don't understand why he has been doing so long.

No, all kinds of help, including lack of money, feelings, psychological problems, heartfelt words, etc., can be told to him, he said that I can find him for anything, care about my study, life and body, etc., not just answer questions, I don't like to ask him questions... It's been three years.

He really helped me a lot.

Slowly, I may feel that I have feelings,,Three years is not a short time,

What boys don't cherish is not your contribution, but you who have lost your value. While you are giving unconditionally, you have given all your self to this boy, you are on the path of self-disorientation, and your value is being consumed and depleted.

You overestimate the purity of men's treatment of love, and you think that your efforts will inevitably be compensated equally. But the fact is that when you give and lose yourself, your attraction to him gradually tends to 0. There is no doubt that you end up being the outcast.

The core law of attraction is "unavailability". Women who make men dream of must be independent and mature. "I like you, but you're not my only option. As long as you're not good, I can leave you at any time. ”

When you start to "lose yourself", at this time, you may have these 3 manifestations: sensitive and suspicious, pandering, and verbose discipline. And these traits will make the male ** be invaded by free space, and your self is "falling off".

In his opinion, you have become an "appendage", and no one wants to carry the "appendage". You will become a "trouble", a "burden", and he will only have feelings of avoidance and disgust with you, and the more time passes, the stronger it becomes.

In a relationship, why is a woman who gives unconditionally abandoned? Because you don't have the ability to keep learning, growing, and excelling. When you are no longer financially and personally, you lose not only love, but the whole world.

Because of love. Selfless love will unconditionally give for a person. In real life, for example, our parents are like this. For our happiness, for our tomorrow. Parents will give unconditionally.

It is not valid to simply explain it with the phrase "Thanksgiving". Because the more people who need help, the more likely they are to be the ones who are not able to give something in return. In other words, if helping others is considered an "investment", then it is very uneconomical to "invest" in those who need it most.

However, friends will help each other regardless of gains and losses when they are at a critical moment of life and death and cannot exchange for equal value.

As a social connection, friendship can be as powerful as kinship. For example, in one experiment, participants were required to hold a painful position to "fight for the benefit" of different people, and the results showed that people were willing to hold the painful position for 140 seconds for their own benefit; Willing to hold the painful position for 132 seconds for the benefit of the closest loved ones (e.g., siblings or parents); And for the sake of cousins, they can endure pain for 107 seconds; In addition, in order to help other children, they are willing to endure 103 seconds. However, for the sake of their best friend, they are willing to endure the pain for 123 seconds!

The Banker's Paradox.

The diversity of goods and services that can be exchanged between two people, the uncertainty of when each person may need help, and the future possibility of providing certain items in the long term all make a "one-for-one" type of exchange difficult to achieve in some scenarios. But these are the places where friendship is most needed, and that's where the evolutionary value of friendship comes in.

For people in any society, everywhere, there is only one test that a true friend endures, and that is whether he or she is willing to give you what you need, without expecting any quid pro quo.

In fact, if an "imaginary" friend makes it clear that they want to be reciprocated in the future, then it is seen as a sign of a lack of friendship. The extent to which this assertion is held may vary depending on the individual, culture, and circumstances. But in any case, friendship always means relaxing expectations of equivalent exchange.

In my lab, we map social networks in Tanzania, Sudan, Uganda, and a number of other countries and regions. In the drawing process, we designed an anonymous gift method to identify friends based on the above idea.

No, human nature does not give unconditionally, but human motherhood will be willing to give for their children, really, many mothers are like this. There are people who give unconditionally, but very little, and time has a shelf life. There should be painful growth in giving.

How many people can do unconditional dedication to love? Probably not, people are selfish, and they all want to be rewarded in love, some people are in exchange for love, and some people are in exchange for money. No one will do unprofitable things, this is the reality.

In the process of falling in love, everyone's feelings are different, some people may love more blindly and will pay for each other unconditionally, but some people are more rational. In fact, most people hope to get the same amount of effort from the other party in the process of falling in love.