He confused me, and I was lost in thought for a point.15

The question is multifaceted, it depends on how the person is doing, and what he thinks! Why don't you try to ask him what you think about the future? See what he wants from his career?

If he just wants to make excuses, he is confused about his future career development! Take a look at his actions for future causes! You'll know if it's an excuse or not!

What he said is not wrong, you are still young, love is originally a kind of spiritual enjoyment, but people still have to live, we also have to face some future life, if there is no material foundation for children, children will become a burden, this is an undeniable fact!

I think you should think quietly at this time, whether he really loves you and really wants to be with you, this is very important, this is only known to you, in terms of your understanding of him, is he a person worthy of your reliance! I think you'll have the answer!

Emotionally immature, he can't afford to pay the responsibility of a man.

He should be told that his parents ask the elderly, and children are life.

Depending on your situation, it seems that marriage is a matter of time.

Don't worry too much

He seems to see marriage and children as one, in fact, there are many young people who get married first, and it is okay to have children when the time is ripe in a few years You can help him separate marriage and children.

If you can, tell him that you want to get married, maybe you will get married first, and then talk about it later

He looked into the distance and fell into deep thought.

he looked into the distance and fell into contemplation

contemplation

英 [ k nt m ple n] 美 [ kɑ:nt m ple n].

n.Contemplation; Stare; Stare; Intention;

Example sentence] he was lost in the contemplation of the landscape

He pondered over the sight in front of him.

That scene was ordinary.

but also a scene that I will never forget.

On that day, the drizzle was pouring down, which made people feel a little cool. I was walking down the street and saw a woman in front of me holding a little girl in her hand, probably about two years old. His clothes were tattered and dirty, and he looked at the crowd of passers-by with begging eyes.

The child was dark and thin, with fingers in his mouth and stomach in the other, and I think they hadn't eaten for days. There were some onlookers around, and I couldn't help but stop and watch.

At this moment, a young boy of six or seven years old came over and looked at them with curiosity. I heard one woman say, "Little friend, give us some money, we haven't eaten for days, so have mercy on us!"

I looked at the little girl again, she was so young, and she didn't have the carefree look of a child of that age, but it made people feel like they had been through a lot of things. Look at the woman again, her eyes full of anticipation, silently begging the little boy. The little boy reached for a crumpled five-dollar note and handed it to the woman.

Don't give it to her! A beautiful young aunt said, "She's so good, why don't she go looking for a job, why bother begging here!" The people around him started talking:

Yes! It's definitely a lie! "These people are so hateful, they only pretend to be pitiful to gain the sympathy of others!

The little boy hesitated and reached back.

After a few minutes, the little boy reached out again and gave the woman the five dollars, which had been held hot. Only said in a sweet voice: "I believe in her!" "Let the queen walk away.

I was stunned, and everyone was stunned, all amazed at what the little boy did. I was even more moved by his words. I thought the little boy would put the five dollars away and go shopping himself, but he gave the money to the woman.

You can see how much the little boy believed in this woman, and how much he sympathized with her! The people present also took out money to give the woman one after another, only the beautiful aunt just now was still stunned.

The rain was getting heavier and heavier, and a gust of wind was blowing, making people feel a little cold. Looking at the little boy's distant back, I felt a trace of warmth pouring into my heart, making my whole body warm. Looking back at the beautiful aunt who was just there, I suddenly felt that she was not very beautiful either

When I got home, I thought back to the scene and fell into deep thought. Although it was an ordinary scene, it moved me very much and made me unforgettable.

Give points if you can.

I have lived in the school for nearly six years, and many things have happened in the school that I will never forget, but the most memorable thing for me is that I was not in the classroom when the class teacher had a meeting, and the scene that happened in the classroom was really ridiculous.

It was Friday, and the teacher happened to have a meeting to go, so he wrote the words "write a test paper" on the blackboard and left. I just wanted to finish the paper quickly, so I wrote at a gallop, the teacher just left for more than 20 minutes, there was no turmoil in the classroom, the students were writing the paper seriously, the classroom only heard the sound of "swish" writing, no one dared to look up, for fear of wasting 1 second, about this time, the students' minds remembered that "time is the most valuable thing for human beings." "Time is a constant, but for the diligent, it's a variable.

That's the kind of thing, right? I thought to myself, "When the teacher comes back, this scene will definitely surprise her."

Providence is hard to disobey, the good times don't last long, the students have finished writing the test papers, and there is nothing to do Some drink some water while the teacher is away, some are bored looking at comic books, and some are staring at the scenery outside the window, probably at this time they are all imagining, right? Others were still engrossed in what was written, but fortunately none of their classmates spoke. This scene did not last long, some students could not bear to be lonely, and whispered left and right, but this still didn't seem to be enjoyable for them, a classmate stood up and made a grimace, causing the students to burst into laughter, the classroom was noisy, this was anxious that the representatives of the Chinese class and the class leader in the coming year, they said loudly in the classroom:

Stop talking! In the end, they seemed to have no choice but to get a few undisciplined classmates to stand up. I looked at their anxious looks, and looked at the nonchalant expressions of my classmates, I really couldn't laugh or cry, and I was helpless!

At this time, the two class representatives and the class leader's lucky star, the teacher, returned.

Is the paper finished? "It's done! The teacher seemed to be satisfied with the students' answers, but looking at the few students standing there, they seemed to understand something.

You're breaking discipline again? The teacher's tone was unusually harsh. "Well, me.

A few classmates habitually argued, but they always stopped talking. The head teacher turned his head to look at most of the students, smiled with satisfaction, and began to assign homework.

Alas, when the head teacher was not there.

I don't like to suffer, I'm timid, I'm passive in everything, my friends are very similar to what I used to be.

Now I'm much better looking at the opening point.

It's a blessing to suffer a loss, you suffer a loss, others owe you a favor, and it's easy to say something when you want to ask him for help.

China's human feelings, social and human feelings are very useful.

"Gods and horses are all floating clouds", remember this sentence.

Then enlarge your heart, be careless, be tolerant, be generous, and be cheeky.

Actually, you and I have similar experiences and ideas, I went out to work as an apprentice car repair at the age of 14, but I was too young, I was homesick, and the master was too strict, always asking me to cook, sweep the floor, and do laundry. If you have a bad temper, you won't do it. Later, he worked in a refractory factory and worked in a brick kiln.

I have worked for a few years and have suffered a lot of hardships that adults can't bear. At that time, although the salary was low and it was very hard, in terms of mood, I had a very happy life! Now the factory does woolen sweater processing.

It has been drifting for more than ten years. As "Upstairs" said, I entered the society too early, so I feel a little tired and more and more tired. Always like a prodigal son who has no fixed place to live and wanders the world!

I don't know how to plan my life, how to go, I'm very confused! In fact, it is difficult to gain a foothold in this cruel society, and it is a good choice to learn a competitive craft! Repairing mobile phones and decorating cars are all popular industries.

Young man!!

Of course, it's out of here, otherwise what if you get a respiratory disease!

Whichever career you choose, just stick to it, and in three years you will be able to achieve what you can't imagine at the moment!!

There's nothing to go back to.

If you can't stand it, you change jobs, you enter the society too early, and of course you will feel tired from working all the time.

Hope you can get a good job.

Emotional matters are difficult to understand many times. Missing someone is supposed to be a beautiful thing. Because there's one person to miss.

However, it seems that it has deteriorated due to some factor. I don't know what it is yet? There may be many girls like you and me, facing the same questions and seeking answers.

Sometimes I want to hate him, but I can't. Like me, now I have to bury that feeling in the lowest layer of my heart and try not to touch it. If you can't forget it, keep it.

At least until later, you can remember that he is the person you once liked. It is also the person who hurts you the most but teaches you how to deal with your feelings.

If his love does come back, don't give up if your feelings are still there. Give each other a chance. Perhaps, you will be happy.

But if he is not sincere, don't give your heart to him again. Because, the heart is given to him, if he doesn't know how to cherish it, it will be scarred. The heart is very heavy with such a load.

If you finally know that He can't give you happiness, hopefully you can find your own happiness.

Love doesn't make sense. There is no why. Only love is enough. Willing to give everything. There aren't so many ifs. Only with all your might.

It can only be solved with time or you try to like someone else and wish you happiness.