Grandma passed away and don t want to accept the fact that she s gone?

Updated on society 2024-07-28
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    You don't have to think about how to get out, live well, and leave the rest to time.

    It's almost impossible for me to feel that way, so it's almost impossible for you not to be sad, but please mourn!

    Some feelings can't be forgotten, can't be forgotten, buried deep in the heart, the most ruthless parting in the world is nothing more than "life and death parting" is an irreversible parting, no matter how sorry it is, it's useless, and you won't come back if you go.

    When my grandfather left, the kind of pain, can't be described in words, I remember that I had just joined the work at that time, and I heard the ** end say, don't worry, tell you something, your grandfather left, the first reaction was I don't believe it, how could it be, wasn't it good a few days ago? Why is it gone all of a sudden, but I quickly accepted the reality, asked for leave and walked out of the unit, my mind was blank, I saw it in the TV series before, those actors crossed the road, I thought the acting was too exaggerated, but that day I felt it, not that I didn't know that it was dangerous, but my mind was blank, I didn't know how to accept the reality, the person who loved me the most, how to say that it was gone, since I started studying, I was far away from home (home is in the mountains), I finally joined the work, returned to my own county, But he didn't have that much time to go home from time to time, and before he could spend time with him, he left ......

    After a week, my mother couldn't stand it anymore and said to me, "If your grandfather saw you like this, he would feel sorry for you, and I believed it."

    I didn't dare to feel so uncomfortable, and I survived.

    Now、I want to give you this sentence。

    Live well, bury those feelings deep in your heart, don't deliberately forget, because you can't forget, and don't think about it, because it's too late.

    What you can do now is to take good care of yourself and take care of the people who love you, because one day they will leave you, and in their lifetime, speak well and be filial to their loved ones who are still there.

    After experiencing parting, we must learn to cherish more.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Birth, old age, sickness and death everyone can't run, there is life and death, you don't want to accept the reality, you can only say that you have a close relationship with your grandmother, in fact, everyone doesn't want your family to die, after all, the family has feelings, you can only say that you mourn and change.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Grandma dies and doesn't want to accept the fact that he is gone, this is human nature, and it is often emotionally difficult to accept the fact that a person is gone and does not come back. Time has to be spent diluting everything.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Grandma died, I don't want to accept the fact that she is gone, it's normal, it can be seen that you have a good relationship with grandma, take your time, time is the best medicine.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Your feelings are very understandable, people are emotional animals, especially the departure of loved ones, of course, this feeling is very difficult to accept, but human beings have been living and dying like this, and everyone will go through this day, so many things must be faced calmly even if they can't accept it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Turn the longing for grandma into the motivation for study or work, and turn it into filial piety to your parents.

    When the grandfather and grandmother died, the grandchildren sent them on their last journey is the least respect, not to mention the closest people. People who can ignore the death of their grandfather and grandmother are not worth associating.

    It is recommended that those grandparents who marry far away and work in other places should try to go home to see the elderly when they can come when they are healthy, and often call **open** to greet the elderly if they can't come. Don't make excuses if you want to buy things for the elderly, it's very convenient to buy express delivery online, and you don't have to go home in person to face real people.

    In this way, if the old man suddenly returns to the West one day, he will not regret crying and hating for life because he has not fulfilled his filial piety. The loss of relatives cannot be made up for by no amount of money, not to mention the dearest grandmother who brought herself up. I hope that the grandfathers and grandmothers of the world can live a long and healthy life, and all children and grandchildren can be filial to their grandparents.

    The old have something to support, and the young have something to rely on!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello, sorry <>

    <> hear the news of your grandparents have passed away, it's a very painful thing. At this time, you may feel helpless and sad, but trust me, time will ** everything. You can honor them by keeping their memories alive, for example, by creating a photo album or writing an essay to show how much you miss and appreciate them.

    In addition, you can also share your feelings with family and friends, who will bring you comfort and support. Finally, if you feel unable to cope with this emotion, you may consider seeking the help of a professional counsellor who can help you deal with this emotion and find appropriate ways to cope with <>

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1.First of all, you should express your emotions to your relatives and friends in a timely manner, and express your thoughts and memories of your grandparents, you can write to your relatives and friends, or you can chat with your relatives and friends to share your emotions with them. 2.

    Adjust your mentality, accept reality, respect the wishes of your grandparents, and don't impose your loss and sadness on those around you. 3.Participate in as many activities as possible related to grandparents, such as going to pay tribute to them, participating in events to commemorate them, going to charity events, and trying to fulfill their wishes, etc.

    4.Treasure the grandparents and grandparents to leave the ** and relics of the elimination of the family, often ****, think of them, miss them, and continue to carry forward their spirit. 5.

    Spend more time with family and friends, share your own stories, participate in more family activities, find empathy, seek family support in time, and remember your grandparents together so that they can live forever in their hearts. 6.Arrange more activities to pass on the stories of grandparents, such as traveling to other places, such as participating in volunteer activities, such as participating in more family activities, etc.

    7.Engaging in physical activity, such as running, swimming, cycling, etc., can help you release stress, relax and rebuild your self-confidence.

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