Life is metamorphosis and maturation in pain.

I think it should be said that the color of life lies in discovering the value of self-existence in the face of setbacks, difficulties, and pain, and slowly transforming and maturing.

Life itself has no meaning, and being alive is just a state of life. The so-called true meaning of being alive is a unified goal that society has invented in order to gather strength. Being alive and life itself is meaningless, and it is precisely because of the meaningless nature that it can be given various meanings.

As long as you live, you can choose. Its meaning is instilled in you by your elders, teachers, textbooks when you are in school. As you mature, you will understand it for yourself and give it meaning.

Meaning is just a formality, there is no good or bad. It's just that when you are young, in order for you to establish a standard of judgment as soon as possible, the elders tell you that this is good, that is bad, and so on. Everyone's life, everyone's life is actually wonderful.

Only by being alive can you freely make choices and change what you want to change as you wish. You have the opportunity to give your life other meanings. And once you die, you give life a final result.

All life will have the result, death. Death means that everything has lost its meaning to you, any meaning, and you no longer have the opportunity to change the meaning that life gives it any meaning.

Although there are many grievances and sufferings in life, you have freedom and the opportunity to change everything. The true meaning of life is different for everyone, your life is your own, not someone else's, the true meaning of your life can only be decided by you, and any words of others can only be used as your reference. The true meaning of life is different for everyone.

You can make any choice, choose a direction to work on, or you can give up at any time. As long as you want. There's nothing you can't do!

Let your mind run wild and don't be imprisoned anymore. You will find that there are so many possibilities for life. More than the stars of the Milky Way.

It has always been people who adapt to society.

Hello. Suffering is the wealth and nourishment of a person's life in the process of growth. Improve your emotional intelligence in adversity, work hard, and believe that the sunshine is always after the storm.

Moved by these "elves", the beautiful state model presented by the tree in late autumn and early winter is more charming and elegant than that in summer, with more rhythm and rhythm. Perhaps, this is called "the maturity of life"!

Maturity is a height of life that not every life can easily attain. Life may gradually mature with the passage of time, and the accumulation of years does not mean that you have matured. Maturity is not a simple banishment of time.

Maturity comes at a price. Maturity is the sublimation of prudence, tactfulness and rationality realized through countless changes in current affairs and vicissitudes. The red leaves are red through the frost, the plum is fragrant and fragrant, and the wind, frost, rain and snow in nature have tempered and purified their souls, and made them go to the extreme of life scenery.

Otherwise, how can there be the eternal swan song of "Who is drunk with frost and forest" and "The fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold"!

The same is true for people. The peace and stability of life is not a kind of luck and happiness, on the contrary, some hardships and sorrows in life are a kind of eternal wealth. Suffering builds a monument of faith, and the wind and waves raise the sails of the strong.

All the frustrations and hardships constantly renew the soul. This is how people continue to mature.

Be kind to life, deepen life - this is the choice of the wise. Life is like a flower, and maturity is the autumn fruit of the tree after the flowers have fallen. If there is no splendor of the flowering season, but there is no mellow fruit, how can it be regarded as a kind of life on the dust and hail?

Maturity is priceless, and it lasts for a long time!

We are always like this, only seeing the surface of other people's scenery, and then complaining about our own talents and bad fate, but we don't know the efforts behind others. Each of us is inevitably trudging on the road of life, and no one can judge whether we succeed or fail until we reach the end of our lives, so we must not be discouraged at any stage of life, and we must be filled with hope.

Each of us has many abilities, and many times we see only one of them, we always compare the shining side of others with ourselves, and begin to complain about fate, but we don't know our own advantages in other aspects, so that we feel that we are bleak, and then sluggish, making ourselves a mediocre person. In fact, in a certain aspect we are inferior to others and make us miserable, but it does not represent our full ability, we should treat everything in life with a normal heart.

The mussel is sick, and it ignites because it is giving birth to a crystal clear pearl. When its wounds regenerate, that's when the pearl is ripe. In fact, our life is not like this, it is so similar to "mussel disease into pearls", maturity is gradually growing in our pain.

Any misfortune, failure and loss may become a factor in our advantage, and the reasons for failure are nothing more than subjective and objective factors, and some failures are caused by our own limited ability. In this case, we need to reflect on it and make another impact.

As long as a person finds a balance in the fulcrum, he will not lose himself in the face of setbacks, nor will he have a slack mentality in the process of moving forward. In short, there must be something in life that allows us to see through the pain in life and see the good side of life.

Time flies by like a white horse, rushing by, we live in the annual rings of the years, experience the joys and sorrows of life in the world, listen to a familiar old song will always be moved by yourself, taste the taste of life, suddenly infinitely emotional, life is not copied and the same, the age of forty is too late to wait, but also ruined the town is not allowed to hesitate and wander. In life, I often hesitate in the gains and losses, and often encourage myself to face the difficulties bravely and work hard to solve them, only the more things we experience, the more we will gradually become stronger, and we will turn difficulties into strength, transform cowardly emotions into strong strength, fill in the ravines and create a smooth road. Life is a long road, the future is unknown and ever-changing, it is inevitable to encounter difficulties and risks, as long as you have a firm belief and move forward bravely, you will definitely usher in the spring of life.

We are familiar with those successful and wonderful lives, none of them have gone all the way to fame in one fell swoop, and they have experienced countless ups and downs and setbacks, ups and downs and torments. No one can succeed casually. After experiencing countless failures, he chose to be strong, and talked about creating the brilliance of life with persistent spirit and tenacious perseverance.

Everyone's life is irreproducible and identical, on the way to success, will encounter the rainy predicament and lightning and thunder barriers, how to overcome the courage before the last trip to choose for yourself. In the journey of life, it is inevitable that the bitter cold and suffering will be unavoidable, which is also a challenge and test for us, and the process of experience will be transformed into experience and wealth, so that we can overcome the self and become a butterfly, otherwise the steps forward will be bound by fetters. Every time you overcome the gloom, you will see the blue sky through the dark clouds, you will find the direction of the sun's rays, and you will find the beautiful hope of life.

How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain, and how can you dispel the confusion of trouble without experiencing the heat and coldness of the world. Only by having the courage to face and accept this unexpected difficulty, learn to persist and not give up, correct the mentality and actively work hard, and exchange your unremitting efforts for the good show of life. The dark clouds gradually dispersed, only the heart of self-persistence will always be fresh, the road under the feet will be wider and wider, with persistent faith and pious heart, escort to break the cold of the ice, ushered in the warm spring of the undercurrent.

Life has bitterness and joy, not only to be able to taste the bitter and sweet indifference, but also to face the success of the calm, such a process of experience is immature to maturity inevitable, without a cold bone, how there is plum blossom fragrance, do not experience the hardships of life, how can create the miracle of life. No matter who does not work hard, they will not get out of the miracle of life, and only by persevering can we reap the beauty beyond life. Only by experiencing pain and tempering can we give birth to life, break out of the cocoon into a butterfly, bloom with colorful colors, and dance to our heart's content.

Although the process is painful, it gives birth to the qualities of bravery and strength, and gives it the same brilliant color and style as it was yesterday. Life is not replicable and similar, whether it is a storm or a rapids reef on the road ahead, as long as you go on firmly, you will usher in a sunny day.

Wen Jin Huanlu.

If you live long enough, you will find that in a person's life, the troublesome things are always reborn again and again.

Every time it happens, you will be a little stronger and less painful than the last time, and you will become more and more skilled and more and more capable of facing it.

So, don't think about it for the first love of failure, and don't doubt life for the first entrepreneurial failure, the first time you were fired, the first investment failure, the first college entrance examination failure, in the following years, there are many such things, you have to die and then die, when it really comes to that time, you also want to open, don't want to die.

This kind of realization is something that only those who have lived long enough can deeply understand, and if you can accept it, the young you can be liberated from your suffering now.

I want it to be done, but what if it's not as expected? Anyway, I have experienced all kinds of failures, and I only need to succeed once in my life.

A mature person must have experienced a lot of suffering, and a person who has not suffered too much will not be mature. Suffering is the only way to maturity, and no one can avoid it.

Immature people are characterized by sitting and talking, complaining, complaining, and looking to them as if they are the unluckiest people in the world, while everyone else is happy.

Such people never understand the truth that "life is full of suffering", they think that life should be comfortable and smooth, so when pain comes, they do not face it bravely, but try to avoid it.

Human nature is indulgent and hard-working, and only after experiencing painful torture can it be reborn and become a phoenix. Therefore, don't complain about the painful test of the sedan chair, but stay through and get through!

Note: Some of the text is from Huang An of Toutiao.