What are some of the offensive language you encounter in your daily life?

You're such a useless person. This is a kind of moral judgmental language, if a person's behavior is not in line with our own values and judgments, we will judge others according to our own perceptions, which is actually a kind of offensive communication. Quarrels between husband and wife, always according to their own perception to give each other an evaluation, girls often say that you are such a worthless person, on the surface it is an expression of emotion, but it will seriously damage the other party's self-esteem, so that the other party suffers violence.

You are ...... such person. This offensive language belongs to the label type, when the other party's shortcomings are criticized and disgusted by you, the label positioning denies all the other party's excellence and opportunities for self-adjustment, "you are just stupid", "you just don't know how to be considerate of people who care about others", "you just live completely in your own world", "you will always be just a person who doesn't know the situation", "you will always be a person who says incorrect things at inappropriate times", "you are just too selfish", "you are a useless person" and so on.

You break my heart. You broke my heart and first put the blame and the fault on the other person, which is a way to avoid responsibility for yourself, which ignores the inner roots of emotions and dilutes the sense of personal responsibility. This is a way to invisibly give violence to the other party, indirectly to show that you are not wrong, and putting yourself in the social role of a victim will make the other party feel a sense of powerlessness and guilt.

If you do this again, I will leave you, which is a very obvious threat, and using some behavioral consequences to force others to do something they don't want to do is a very obvious kind of verbal violence, which will make the other party psychologically depressed and painful, but because of the fear of the consequences, they will do things that do not conform to their original intentions. This kind of communication will bring a lot of pressure to others, and this invisible violence will also bring a lot of harm.

Forget it, don't talk about it. This sentence is not only very aggressive but also domineering, but when the other party hears it, there will be a feeling of self-inflicted experience in the heart, because whether it is right or wrong, why do you ask the other party to stop defending themselves? The subtext has a taste of disgust, and it is full of ridicule and contempt, as if to say, "You are so stupid, don't waste time talking nonsense", which is an extremely disrespectful contempt-type offensive sentence.

Look at others, how can you be inferior to him? Comparison is a common mistake made by Chinese parents, which has a great impact on the process of children's growth, and using the excellence of others does not motivate their own children, but allows children to subconsciously belittle themselves and form an inferior character. Similarly, couples often communicate in a comparative tone, which is a factor in violent communication, and long-term use will only cause things to go in a worse direction.

Text: Human beings have an instinctive reaction to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, when children receive some kind of bad hints from their parents' words, they either choose to escape, or choose to rebel against filial piety. It is the "add-on" of parents who turns their children into strangers.

Think: Actually, there is nothing that hurts people more than words, and sometimes it is often the words that hurt others. When the other party receives bad information, they will naturally stay away from me, which is why it is important to alienate interpersonal relationships, so not only children, everyone around them is the same, don't hurt them with our needs, before speaking, consider whether this sentence can be said.

A lot of language is aggressive.

In our daily lives, we often encounter situations where someone hurts themselves with cold words. Such a situation will not only cause harm to yourself, but also have a serious impact on your life and work. Therefore, we need to take steps in our daily lives to properly respond to verbal violence, specifically by calming down and avoiding making mistakes on the spur of the moment.

Analyze your situation rationally and respond to the other person with appropriate words. and asking for help from your own friends and family to solve the problem once and for all.

First, when you face verbal violence, you must first keep calm and roll back to avoid impulsiveness and mistakes. When faced with verbal violence yourself. It's easy to do inappropriate things on the spur of the moment.

Such an approach can cause serious harm to yourself. It is important to remain calm when faced with verbal violence, so as to avoid impulsiveness and mistakes. So as to effectively maintain itself.

Second, you should analyze your own situation rationally and choose appropriate language to respond to the other party. When someone hurts themselves with verbal violence, you can't passively avoid it and respond in a targeted manner, which is the most effective way to protect yourself. Specifically, when responding to the verbal violence of the other party, it is necessary to convince the other party to respond with facts, which is the most effective way to deal with verbal violence.

Third, you have to ask your relatives and friends for help in order to solve the problem once and for all, and when you have time to travel, you can't deal with verbal violence alone. At this time, you need to find relatives and friends, ask for help, and ask them to help you, so that you can rely on them to give you powerful help. Free yourself from verbal violence, so as to effectively protect your own interests.