Tangled: Leave your family and marry in another city, okay? As the title suggests, thank you

In a world of love that is not blessed by family affection and friendship, there is no true happiness, and there will be no eternal happiness. After all, people have feelings, there are seven emotions and six desires, and there are always too many realities that make you unable to ignore your feelings. Although behind love, there are also concerns about the existence of family and friendship, but this concern is neither compromise nor abandonment, but to achieve a balance point of coexistence.

We always say that love needs to be paid, but what about family and friendship? You and I are just members of the world, how can we love regardless of the feelings of relatives and friends, regardless of the feelings of relatives and friends? To go for chase?

However, everyone has different mentalities and ideas, and what you believe in is your choice, because whether it is love, family or friendship, no one will accompany you for a lifetime. We hope this helps. This answer is organized by K, please respect the fruits of my labor, and refuse to copy!

Try to talk to him, can you come to see your parents first during the New Year's holiday, the child is older, and he will always get married. But you will never give up this love, because you have matured and know that affection and family are very important to you. But when you grow up, you will eventually leave your parents, and you will come to see your parents more often when you have time, or when you have the ability to take them over and live with you.

Your parents will understand you.

It's not good, it's going to be very lonely, and it's especially helpless when fighting with my husband.

If it's happy, that's not bad, if it's not too smooth, then there will be days of crying noses.

Well, that's good! As long as you love him. In which city, are on earth!

It's not good, I used to think that marrying him would be **, but I later learned that I regretted it, so you have to think about it clearly, don't choose to regret it like I do.

Look at yourself like that, if you choose the right person and be happy, it's okay to marry far away, but I'm afraid that person will be hypocritical now and treat you badly in the future, and I personally think it's not very good to marry far away

It's a bit bad, after all, it's far away from relatives, there's no mutual care for each other, and the number of times you go home a year is only a handful.

Can current transportation and communication regard other provinces and provinces as distances? The chain lies in the person who marries you?

Look at people, adaptability is different. Also, if you really love him to the core, you will be desperate.

It seems that your adaptability is not particularly good.

If true feelings appear, nothing can stop them.

Is this a problem? Make your own choice, and if you think it's right, do it!

There are good and bad, the good thing is that his parents can't participate in his own life, and his marriage has contradictions, and the bad thing is that the man bullied and has nowhere to complain.

Hello! Don't be entangled, after reading what you said, I would like to say that I would like to praise you, your choice is right, and you must work hard to get the future through the work of the two of you. That's how you can feel accomplished. Emphasize that your idea is doing the right thing, and this is the advice I hope you have!

Marrying far away, first of all, I can't take care of my parents, and I often go home to see it, but it's easy to say, how many are there really to do? It's good to go back once a year, but after a long time, I am physically and mentally exhausted, and my parents are old and will always get sick, what should I do? You can't live just for yourself!

That's so selfish! The decision is all on himself, if he is wronged after marrying far away, no one will say that no matter how good he is, there will always be friction between the two of them, and he bites his tongue when he eats! Do you want to go home and complain after a quarrel?

How do I go back when I have a child in the future? I can't go back until at least every other year! The child is too young to toss, when he is older to go to school, he will have to go home with the child's time, and he usually can't go back to his parents' house if he wants to go back!

There are too many responsibilities ...... marriageBe careful!

If you have a good relationship, isn't it the same in **, the important thing is to treat your parents with an understanding heart, come back often, just hit **, not to accompany your parents for a lifetime, miss you and your feelings.

Feelings are not a joke, if you are good with your boyfriend, love each other. You can support him with him, and the career will start slowly.

When you have a conflict with your boyfriend and no one around you speaks for you, you will remember the good of your mother's family.

This is everyone's different ideas, just I married out of town, and I also have three sisters above. Although the future is unknown, I think it is more important to find a talk. Like my husband is pretty good to me.

Let your heart follow your feelings and find your own happiness! Your parents can only walk with you for a while, while your lover will accompany you for the rest of your life.

My boyfriend is also from other places, and I have a daughter and a younger brother in my family, and I plan to marry far away.

It's not good, it's good to be closer, relatives, friends, and classmates have a care.

I'm just like you, I have a sister and brother above me, and I'm also not sleeping well at night to get married now, so uncomfortable.

As long as your husband treats you well, it's fine!

I am married far away, I didn't know anyone with my husband when I went to his house, I couldn't even understand the words, and the food was different, fortunately my husband was towards me, otherwise life would be very sad, I regret it now, I didn't have a relative in the past, if my husband is not good to you, then you have nothing.

If your husband is very good to you and has a good character. It's up to you to analyze this yourself. If he's a good man, then it's worth it.

He will give you a home away from home. If you can't, you break up. The important thing is that you are not mature in your mentality, you are not yet independent, and you are not ready to get married.

You have to be ready for your own little home! You've grown up. There is also whether you can agree to buy a house closer to it!

The most important thing is that you are not prepared.

Fortunately, it depends on how your relationship is, if you feel that it is worth paying for him, just follow the feeling, your other half is the person who will accompany you through your life, I am married far away, I don't feel anything, I just don't know anyone, and sometimes I will be lonely.

Distance is not a problem, just find someone who is sincere to you!

If the other party treats you badly, then you will feel isolated, so you have to think about it.

It's best not to marry far away, I don't think I'm young, I don't think it's easy to go back to my parents' house when I'm old, and the elderly can't be taken care of immediately when they're sick.

At home, marry not far away, unless the man is not working hard in his hometown.

First of all, don't say whether your parents will be sad after you marry far away, and you can't guarantee that your married life will always be harmonious and beautiful after you get married.

Follow the heart, only you know how to walk the most correct, look farther, don't think about the present.

It's best to marry closer to home, marry far away, and you can only bear anything in the future.

See if your husband treats you well first.

The people who love you will always need your company, and the people you love can keep in their hearts....Marry ......... far away

Marrying far away will make you suffer, listen to your parents.

My mother married from Shandong to Hebei A few years ago, when the transportation was not convenient, it was very difficult, and she kept telling me not to marry too far, and no one could talk to you if she was wronged, so it depends on the feelings of the two people, and I hope to adopt it, and I wish you well.

Don't copy can not marry far away, you may not want anything when you are in love, but getting married and living a life can be completely different, boring family trivial things have no hometown, it is not easy to go back to your parents' home, it is normal for husband and wife to be noisy, but these things happen after you marry far away, and you can't go back to your parents' house at any time, you will regret it very much, and you should find one at home to live! I hope to consider it carefully, fight it with pure hands, be pure and sincere, and forget to adopt.

I am married far away, from Henan to Hebei, my husband's family is very good to me, I often miss my parents, now I have a baby, it is so inconvenient to go home! Parents can't help their grandchildren, it's inconvenient for my parents to go out when they're old, and it's inconvenient for me to take my children far away! Woo ......

It's better to be close to your parents, if you can. The ones who love you the most are your parents. Of course, my husband also has it. It's just a little smaller.

There is no eternal love, only eternal family affection, don't marry far away.

Whether it's true love or not, I really don't think it's good, who gets married and hasn't had a little quarrel, then you will feel very helpless, and think about your parents, how uncomfortable they are, they are uncomfortable enough when you marry, and it's so far away, it's not good.

When you start to feel how good a man is,,, you will know that you are wrong after a long time.

For the sake of your parents, I still married you.

It's not good to say, my husband is out of town, but I didn't get married, and I decided to stay at home.

If the environment is worse than yours, think again! But if it's true love, it's probably hard to give up!

I still have to suffer a lot of grievances, alone, my relatives are not around, I don't have a friend of yours, I am lonely, I deeply understand.

Don't marry so far, it's not convenient for anything.

I also married away from home, and now I feel the urge to divorce.

It's not good, I'm just, I've been living well, but I miss my family

I am married far away, and I cry alone.

Look at his character, be careful of being sold...

It's up to you to choose!

It depends on whether the man is worth marrying.

I am also married far away, because I am in love, I like to marry him, sometimes I am wronged, no one says, only I am alone, many things are different, the longer the time, my husband will change, their family will definitely not pay attention to you, plus there is no money, their family does not care, my husband still listens to his parents, I really want to divorce Alas, sometimes I miss my parents, and I regret that I was disobedient

It's better to choose a good job, family and friends will get together later, the most important career is now, and leaving is for a better reunion in the future.

I also faced such a choice before, but now I am determined to be by my relatives' side. After being introduced by others, my husband and I decided to go to work in other places, and the child was just over a year old at this time. Because I want to take the driver's license for the reason, my husband first went to work in the field in advance, originally planned for me to take out the certificate and also pass, my mother said, how much money to earn outside is not as good as being with the child, accompany him to grow up healthily, she said, if you are all gone, the child will become a left-behind child, look at them on TV, how pitiful, grandparents no matter how painful, can not replace the love of parents, if the parents are no longer around, such a young child, the soul is easily frustrated, this is a lifetime thing.

When my husband left for two months, he said to me, wife, I have been thinking about it for a long time, although I really want you to come over and we work together, but I hope you can accompany the baby, now the baby is our most important, and I am relieved that you are watching him at home. Hearing my relatives say this, I was shaken, yes, the child is the most important. I discussed with my mother-in-law and said, Mom, I decided not to go, for the sake of the children.

The mother-in-law said, if you don't go, let your husband come back, you are too young to be separated for too long, I said what's the matter, I believe him, doesn't your own son trust him? My mother-in-law said that I didn't distrust him, but the current society is too chaotic, even if you don't provoke others, others will still catch up. I said that if he were this kind of person, even if he wasn't like that now, he would be like that in the future.

The mother-in-law said, "What good is it for you to test him like this?" Wait until something happens to see what you do. What should I do, if something really happens, I will divorce your son.

We all laughed it off. I seem to be so sure in what I said, but in fact, my heart is drifting, yes, what should I do......After thinking about it for a long time, I thought again, why don't I go, I am paranoid that I go to work in other places to earn money, isn't it also for the growth of my children! I made the decision again, well, I thought, this time it won't change, I must go.

The change came from my mother-in-law, and it's funny to say. After the third exam, I had dinner with the coaches and friends in the restaurant to celebrate, and met an acquaintance who said to me, your mother is crazy playing mahjong, let your aunt watch the child play mahjong. My God, who can understand my mood at that time, I was full of fear, I thought, no matter what the reason, I can't leave the child, if I really go, it would be too irresponsible for the child, in fact, I also have to thank my mother-in-law, thank her for giving me a chance not to regret it for a lifetime.

If I really thought that I would leave without worries, I would hate my own ...... to death for my childrenI discussed with my husband that I would take my children to see him in the near future, and when I traveled, he would come back in a few months and never go out again, he said that being with my wife and children is more important than anything else.

It depends on what kind of job you have, it depends on how much you love her, people's concepts are different, I want to love, career can be done, part-time work is always part-time work, men make money without earning money, there is no profit if there is money, there is no profit with love, there is struggle.

Work and earn money to live better with them.

Work well and go home more often on holidays.

Not a failure.

1 Having a mother-in-law with a child reduces a lot of things for you, and it is very hard to take care of the child, and you have to worry about every second;

2. Your parents work in the same city, and they can see each other often, saving a lot of fares and tossing on the road;

3 You can bring your grandfather to live for a while, but you can't take care of all your relatives.

4 Wait until you have made a great sum of money, and then go back.