The confession failed. But don t want to give up.

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Abandon. You're just used to it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In all fairness, the chance of two people meeting is almost slim, but since time makes two people meet extraordinarily, but it prevents you from running towards love, it is not without a chance, because each other believes that only love that has experienced ups and downs can be trusted.

    I believe that everyone longs for extraordinary love, but in the future to live an ordinary life, maybe you should have understood that we live in an ordinary world, but in the process found extraordinary people for each other. After I confessed my failure, I completely understood that maybe you were giving me a chance, I was just too anxious, I liked you too much, that strong feeling made me unable to control my behavior, so I felt a lot relieved, but it caused a lot of pressure for you, you will feel that I am hypocritical, and my previous concern for you was intentional, but in the end I asked you a question Can I become the person you like, you said a sentence that is possible, and gave me great self-confidence, I really want to be your other half, and I hope you can give me this opportunity ......

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If she doesn't meet the person she likes before your relationship deepens, then I think you still have a chance. But after the failure of the confession, you'd better not be in a hurry, take your time, usually care about her carefully, and do it silently, otherwise it will be the same result.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Of course, there is a chance, you must know that it is actually normal to confess failure, because feelings are a kind of connection between two people, and unrequited love cannot establish a relationship, so change yourself at this time, and slowly change will make your image in the minds of others change.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is a chance. Don't be discouraged after failure. The person would become very unhappy after the confession failed. Because even if you fail to confess, the girl you confess to still lives in the same space as you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    After a failed confession, there is usually no chance. Because, if the other party doesn't take a fancy to you, he won't change this opinion for a while.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is difficult to have another chance if the confession fails, but there will also be a second successful confession, and some people may receive the attention of the other party after the confession, and then slowly get along with each other in the process of getting to know each other better, so that the confession will also be successful.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is still a chance to confess failure, because there are more such opportunities, if he does not refuse head-on, it means that you still have a chance to get along in the future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Confession failure does not mean that there is no chance, it mainly depends on whether she is willing to be friends with you, if he is willing to chat with you, it means that you still have a chance.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    According to the situation you said, you confessed to a girl that you failed to get married, in fact, this situation is normal, no one succeeds in the first confession, so, don't be discouraged, since she promised that you will still be friends in the future, then if there is fate between you, no matter what, you must come together, if there is no fate, you must also have the right mentality, as long as you do your best, you will definitely be able to find a better fate for you, and you will definitely be able to reap happy happiness.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you fail to confess, you can still be friends, you can start with a friend, let him slowly understand you, show your advantages, improve yourself from all aspects, try to make yourself excellent, only if you become excellent, he will be impressed by you, after all, he has a good impression of you, so you still have a chance, it depends on how you do it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There is a chance, but you can't be too hasty, you need to cultivate your feelings slowly, because emotional things can't be forced, the other party has a good impression of you, but you also need to take your time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    ...There is also a chance to confess failure, after the confession fails, then you can continue to confess, when you are when to chase him and when it ends, if you can't catch up there, it's okay to give up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In fact, you still have a chance, as long as you show your feelings to each other with your heart, or the two of you must say what you want to say when you get along, I think there is still a chance in this case, so stick to your own approach.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you confess to failure, there is still a chance, it may be that the other party is testing you, failure is the mother of success, give up after a failure, don't you think it's a pity, to find the reason for this failure.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Judging from your chat with this girl, the two of you still have a chance, although that girl may be faced with your impulsive confession, her attitude is withdrawn, but it may just be too sudden She is not ready, you can wait for the two of you to love. If you consider confessing for a longer time, the success rate will definitely be greater.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you fail to confess, of course, there is still a chance. As long as it is someone you really like, you should be brave enough to chase it, and slowly move the other party with sincerity, maybe you will succeed.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, you still have a chance, as long as you make the other party have a good impression of you, or the two of you communicate more and communicate more, such a chance is still very big, so stick to your own practices and behaviors.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Although the confession failed, I think there is still a chance, after all, the other party has not completely rejected you, there is still a certain chance.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It seems that you don't have a chance, if he has feelings for you, he won't reject you very thoroughly, even if he has a little affection for you, it won't be like this, so now it's better for you to find friends.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If the confession fails, in fact, you still have a chance, even if it is possible to move him in life as an ordinary friend, the two may hit it off.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The confession failed, and I don't think there should be any chance. Because the other party doesn't have any feelings for you, if you have a little heart, it is impossible to treat you like this. So you have to be interesting and don't go for that.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If the other party does not directly agree to you in the process of confession, then basically the confession has failed, and there should be no more chance!

    If a girl doesn't say yes to you and doesn't refuse you, then maybe the other party just wants to treat you as a spare tire.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The year he graduated, I asked him if he didn't have a crush on a girl. He shook his head, then secretly told me that he had liked the female class leader for a long time. I asked him why he didn't confess, but he told me that he wasn't sure yet, and he planned to find out what the other party was thinking before confessing to him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Many girls can't let go or forget after their confession fails.

    Well, first of all, I want to tell you that it is not the same for boys and girls to like someone, and girls may be impressed because boys are good to them; But boys have hunting and chasing parts in their genes, and they prefer to chase and pay for themselves. This is the reason why it is generally not recommended for girls to confess.

    The reason why the girls confessed their failure was that they misjudged his favorability towards you, that is, misjudged their attraction to him.

    What should the right way to do it?

    Make a good display surface. When a guy likes a girl, it's really not because the girl is good enough for me, but because the girl herself is good enough. The subject may wish to think about what advantages he has, and how to naturally display them in front of him (such as the construction of a circle of friends, the natural transfer of topics when chatting), and judge his degree of interest.

    But don't be greedy for too much at once, mystery and novelty are also important.

    Lengthen the time of observation. Some girls have just met a boy for a few days and are very popular, so they are in a hurry to confess. Why can you confess to someone you've known for a few days?

    If a guy has known you for just a few days and tells you that he likes you, you will also feel abrupt, right? You also recognize that you were sloppy. I recommend starting with a friend to increase the chances and frequency of contact and get to know the person in full.

    Mindset building. I've always advised people not to put down what they can't put down. Theoretically, as long as the person you like is not married, there is still hope for everything, but you have to use the right method.

    In this process of invisible time limit, the mentality is really super invincible and important, without a strong heart, the mentality will collapse into scum every minute, and all the mentality can be summed up in five words: not afraid of losing. I can present myself well enough, and even if I don't get the ending I want, I'm not afraid.

    I'm serious about learning how to love someone, and even if we're not together, I've learned from you, so does it matter?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Emotionally, most people are not all smooth sailing. In the process of falling in love, you will encounter many failures and setbacks, and confession failure is one of the setbacks.

    1.Don't be too sad and don't go to extremes.

    After confessing to being rejected by the other party, it is inevitable that you will be depressed and fall into a "sad" mood, but you can't be too sad and affect your normal life and work. It is advisable to self-regulate and do what you love, or talk to friends and family to restore your calmness. Regulate your mindset and release your emotions.

    2.Analyze the causes of failure and gain experience.

    Why did confession fail? This point must be analyzed, to avoid making the same mistake next time, I think, people only understand that they are wrong, can they change the direction. In the confession of failure, find the root cause of the problem and prescribe the right medicine, so as to truly solve the problem and gain experience.

    Analyze your own shortcomings, the reasons for your failures, whether you are not the type that the other party likes, or the other party does not understand you, whether the other party has no feelings for you, or your age. Indicators such as wealth are not met and cannot be solved blindly.

    3.Turn grief and anger into motivation and enhance personal charm.

    A confession failure does not mean that you have nothing, after the confession failure, you must adjust your mentality, be more confident, improve yourself through learning, and improve your personal charm. Whether it is the external dress or the internal cultivation temperament, it will add points to yourself and make you more likely to be liked by the opposite sex. Performance failure must be your own lack of the other party's standards, not good enough, constantly improve yourself at the same time to learn the skills of getting along with the opposite sex, I believe you will meet someone who appreciates you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Emotionally, most people are not all smooth sailing. In the process of falling in love, you will encounter many failures and setbacks, and confession failure is one of the setbacks. When we encounter a confessional failure, we are lost, depressed, and depressed.

    So, what should we do in the face of confession failure?

    If you are in an unhappy mood after the confession fails, you or ask your buddies or girlfriends to go out for a spin, buy shopping, and see the scenery. Play around and relieve your inner depression. You can tell your bosom friend about your distress, so that your heart will be much more comfortable.

    When a heartfelt confession is rejected by the other party, it is a particularly painful and sad thing, so at this time, you can vent your emotions by traveling, so that you can become very cheerful, and no longer be too sad for this little thing, which is not only very harmful to the body, but also will cause a great shadow to intimacy, so you can change yourself through travel.

    If you fail to confess, you must be frustrated, but think about it in another way, you love her very much, but she doesn't love you, so if he accepts you against his will, can you be happy in this life? So I understand, you won't be entangled in what I said, your happiness is not what he can give, and her happiness is not something you can give, in this case, it's better to give up, because there is a give-and-take, and if you give up him, you may get better, more suitable for you, and someone who can read you better.

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