I haven t met the right person, do you choose to wait or settle?

If you have a candidate now, maybe you don't feel much about him, you can give it a try. Buying and selling are not there, benevolence and righteousness are there. If you don't pursue yours now, who will you and with you?

The person you are waiting for is also on the way, and it will not be settled, and whether you wait or not is a result. So let's assume that you now have a man in front of you who has been pursuing you unsuccessfully, and there is a hero who doesn't know what life will come to save you. You told me that you have to stick to your original intention, and you have to wait.

You're not crazy, please, be realistic.

Maybe this person you think will be the so-called person who is suitable for you, if you miss it like this, shouldn't you be lonely all your life? Besides, if you don't try it, you just say that others are not suitable, and you will no longer bully people like this. When you get old and you find that your so-called persistence is a joke, then you are a living tragic character.

It does not mean that you are pushed into the abyss, but that you will change a little, and maybe usher in a new life. Don't think that you will be wronged yourself, you will always stand at the highest point, do not step into the abyss, how do you know that the abyss has nothing but pain?

Besides, a woman has a few youths waiting for a void person, and you don't even know what kind of person he is, so why do you take advantage of your youth. It's terrible to wait, it's sad to wait for someone who you think you're going to come, and in the end, you'll lose everything. You don't have someone you love, you don't have a heart that you love.

After going around and around, I found that the person you had been unwilling to settle for had a happy family, and originally, the mistress of this family was you.

This is all fate, don't blindly insist on what you insist on, why you never doubt that your insistence is wrong. You still refuse to admit that you are so-called high and arrogant. You feel that you will wait for your love, and you feel that the man in front of you, the person you are unwilling to compromise, is your true destiny.

Will you regret it? You are too confident, confident that the right person will come to you.

How can you be so confident, confident that the man you think is the right man thinks you are the right one? He is good at everything, he is golden, handsome, literate, wise, humorous, and personable, but he doesn't want to be with you. Maybe you think that the person you are going to be, he has no money, no home, no handsomeness, only a heart that loves you.

How, do you think that sometimes the right place may not necessarily go to the end, and the future will not necessarily be gone.

Don't wait, and don't compromise.

What is the appropriate definition? What kind of two people can be said to be suitable? I haven't met the right person, so what kind of person do you think is the right person?

Some psychology experts once pointed out that no matter who is paired with whom, it is "incompatible personality", but they always think that "there is a person in the world who is most suitable for themselves". A happy and loving couple or husband and wife are not all made in heaven, but both parties understand and are willing to see each other's suitable places. There have never been two people who are completely suitable, and they have slowly become more suitable for each other in the process of getting along.

So, don't wait, love can't wait. If you wait, you're just wasting your precious time, you can't wait for love, and you can't wait for the right person.

Don't wait, and don't compromise. Just like He Yichen said in "He Yisheng Xiaomo", "If there is that person in the world, everyone else will become a general." And I don't want to settle.

Even if you don't have the right person, don't settle for it, because then you won't be happy.

If you haven't met the right person, then go after Ah. Find one you like, or like yours. Whether he is suitable or not, no one is born suitable.

Don't always think about finding a suitable one, if you can't get out of this misunderstanding, it will be difficult to find your true love. Whether it is suitable or not is known in getting along overnight. And even if it is two people who are not suitable, they can become suitable people in getting along every day.

So, don't think about whether it's suitable or not, and find someone you really like. After all, liking is the most important thing.

For this case, I think. First of all, it depends on the person you think is suitable in your heart, whether it is a realistic idea or a fictional idea. Some people have low eyes, and the person he thinks is suitable, that is simply a perfect existence, and that is simply a person who does not exist in this world.

This kind of person doesn't have to wait any longer, and if you meet someone who is about the same, you will be settled. After all, those who say that they can't meet the right person will be a little too persistent and idealistic.

Actually, what is appropriate? Is it really what you think, like the main character in the TV series? If your idea is actually quite realistic.

It's just that you're unlucky, and you really haven't met the right person. Then I think it's worth waiting. But don't wait too long, don't wait until you're old, and when you're not qualified to be with the person in your heart.

No matter how suitable that person is, you are already old, and you are not worthy of others, then it will not help. Anyone needs to meet someone who is almost suitable for them while they are not very old. Of course, everyone wants to meet someone who is really right for them.

No one wants to compromise but if you don't settle together, how do you know that for each other, it's really just a compromise! Give yourself a chance, and give others a chance, maybe the two of you thought they were going to make a difference, and you turned out to be the most suitable. If it's really not suitable, how can it be considered a compromise.

Of course, there is still true love in this world, and there are still those who meet people who love each other and are very suitable. But those are in the minority, and we can wait properly, but don't wait too long. In that case, we will lose our advantage, and if we don't meet the right person in our lives, we will die alone.

So don't wait too long, don't get too attached.

If Master Ben has never met the right person, then will I choose to wait or just find someone to do? Of course, a stubborn person like Master Ben will choose to wait all the time, because Master Ben always feels that if he can't be with the person he likes, then why should he get married? It's better to be straightforward and do whatever you want!

As soon as I saw that Master Ben was poisoned by "Why Sheng Xiaomo", I did empathize with it when I first started watching this TV series, as if if you can't be with the right person, then everything is meaningless, that's why Master Ben will be so determined, and I forgot to say that in fact, Master Ben will also be in the future!

After my girlfriend broke up with me, Master Ben adopted the method of investing in a new relationship to forget about my girlfriend, so I found a girl who liked me to fall in love, to be honest, this girl is also really good, whether it is in terms of appearance or connotation, it is not worse than my girlfriend, but every time I am with her, I will think of my girlfriend, as if there is only one woman in this world, I really thought that I might be in love and talk about my head!

This girl has always been very patient with me, and then she directly proposed to live with me, and I felt that my psychology was unacceptable, because I found that I didn't like this girl at all, and if I let this girl sleep with me, I would definitely collapse, so I broke up with her immediately, and I didn't tell her the reason for the breakup, she always thought that I didn't have any physical problems!

Not meeting the right person, or not being able to get married at all, are the two most important reasons why older young people do not get married.

We are always wandering in the world, not knowing where to go in order to embrace happiness. But time never gives us a choice, and in the blink of an eye, we become older youths. At this time, we were already a little panicked, but we also didn't have much choice, everything could only cross the river by feeling the stones.

These older men and women who have not started a family and started a business have ruined their years of service, and the reasons for this are nothing more than the following aspects.

First, their own conditions are good, they have a house and a car, a good job, and a high income, and such people have high requirements for mate selection. Asking the other party to be better than himself, picking left and right, delayed. It's a type.

Second, if you don't have a house or a car, your own conditions are average, the woman's requirements are too high, and the man can't meet the woman's requirements, which is also a type.

Third, I never thought about starting a family at all, this kind of person feels that being able to play for a day is a day, and I don't want to suffer myself for the sake of the children in order to repay the mortgage and car loan after starting a family. This is also a type.

In short, in life, marriage and family are also compulsory courses in life, just like people live and have to eat and sleep every day, but people can't live without eating, and they can't sleep without sleeping. Not getting married does not affect a person's life. Modern people, social competition is fierce, work pressure is high, so everyone's life is not easy, for the choice of marriage, but also according to the different circumstances of the individual, everything is natural!

There is no set formula for falling in love and meeting the right person. Just because you're not in a relationship doesn't mean you're going to be in a good relationship, and just like that, falling in love often doesn't mean you'll find the right partner. Meeting the right person depends on a variety of factors, such as the individual's values, lifestyle, social circle, etc.

If you choose to wait for the right partner, here are some suggestions:

1.Know yourself: Be clear about your needs, values, and expectations, which can help you be more focused on your goals when looking for a partner.

2.Socialize: Actively participate in social activities, expand interpersonal relationships, and increase the chances of meeting new people, so as to increase the probability of meeting the right person.

3.Keep an open mind: Staying curious about new things and new people and having the courage to experiment can help increase your chances of meeting the right partner.

4.Be yourself: Strive to improve your inner and outer qualities, and become a better person, which will naturally attract better partners.

5.Be patient: Sometimes, it takes time to meet the right partner, be patient and don't be anxious to get the right partner.

6.Staying confident: Believing in your ability to find the right partner and being confident and optimistic can help you succeed in your relationship.

To sum up, not falling in love all the time is not guaranteed to wait for a good person, and the key is to improve your chances of meeting a suitable partner through positive actions and attitudes. Of course, everyone's situation is different, and the approach and strategy need to be adjusted according to the actual situation of the individual.

Love and marriage need to be reflected in reality, and when it comes to the year of establishment, we have not found the person we like, we should lower the requirements and standards for our partners, find a suitable person, and enter the marriage hall hand in hand. As long as the other party is not the type you hate, feelings can be cultivated slowly in the process of getting along.

When women reach the age of establishment, they still haven't found the person they like, and their mood may not be anxious, but their parents must be very anxious. For women of this age, if they want to find love, they may miss out on a lot of suitable marriage partners. Regarding their marriage and love situation, I personally have the following two thoughts.

When women reach the age of establishment, whether it is physical development or psychological growth, they will enter the stage of maturity. During this period, women could not be like little girls in love and marriage, full of flowers and moons, fantasizing about finding a prince like an object.

And when a young woman is looking for a partner, the most important thing is to fit herself. Not only in terms of personality, he can be compatible with himself, but also requires the other party to be pragmatic and able to tolerate his own shortcomings. It is also a happy thing to find a suitable partner to marry.

Love can follow feelings and let us find the person we like. In love, you can not care about the future, or you can not be afraid of gains and losses, as long as the two of you are happy and happy. In this way, psychology cannot exist in marriage, marriage is the superposition of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and more often the reality will be considered.

And when women are young, it is far more important to find an object that loves them and is suitable for them than an object they love. is suitable for his own partner, and he will tolerate himself everywhere in his married life, so that his life is smooth and comfortable. If you miss the right person for you, you may let yourself miss the most suitable marriage; At the same time, he also made his married life unhappy.

Therefore, when the age is approaching, women should not be looking for love, but should be suitable for themselves. When you meet a suitable partner, try to get along with each other, and enter the marriage hall when the conditions are met.

Personally, I don't think you should find a suitable person to enter into marriage, because for marriage, it is a lifelong event in life, and you should not easily find someone to live in order to get married, which will make your life very passive, lose yourself, and the gains outweigh the losses.