Many men have the condition of not looking for a single parent family , rationally analyze the reas

Well, in the final analysis, rich people eventually become dependents, and in the hearts of most ordinary people, single-parent families are worse off than two-parent families. In fact, look at it, many celebrities are single parents, and they can still find a partner, just because they are rich and powerful.

My mate must be a single-parent family. Because girls who grow up in a single-parent family environment will be stronger and more self-reliant, unlike girls who grow up in a family environment where their parents are there, bathed in the love of their parents every day, and are used to being a princess disease, and can't stand it...

I guess so. After marriage, you may have to live with your elders, because single parents are not good for the elderly to live alone.

Growing up in a single-parent environment is considered mentally unsound.

Single-parent families may not be in the same financial situation as their parents.

It's not a single-parent family, and my parents don't care about single-parent families, and I don't care about individuals, and I haven't been here since I came here for him... I have lost confidence in him, single parents are not a problem, I am afraid that single parents have hidden problems, it is okay to be friends, be cautious about marriage, and observe and post for a week.

The most fundamental reason is that the mind is not sound, so let's change it slowly, although it is difficult.

I am afraid that single parents have hidden problems, some of them are single parents, and some of them are the elders of single parents.

I'm a single parent, so I don't dislike girls who are single parents, because they need love more.

My girlfriend is a single parent, she is very dark and closed and violent, so what, it's not her fault that she is single, anyway, I'm resistant!

Sympathy, cherish each other, respect each other, and tolerate each other.

What about the woman's mate selection conditions, Gao Fu Shuai, well, the first one is satisfied, and the rest are not.

I don't think it doesn't matter anyway.

Single-parent boys have the same problem.

Why don't young people choose single-parent families when choosing a mate?

1. Because people from single-parent families are often influenced by their original families and fear marriage in their hearts, it is difficult for marriage to last for a long time.

After young people fall in love, they hope to enter the palace of marriage, and they hope that their marriage can last for a long time. But when most young people are looking for a partner, they will care about whether the other party is a single-parent family, because in their opinion, if the other party has been living in a single-parent family and is affected by the failure of their parents' marriage, they will leave a shadow in their hearts, thinking that there will always be some unsatisfactory things in the marriage, and the husband and wife will inevitably quarrel, and it is likely that their marriage will repeat the same mistakes as their parents. If you always live with such a partner, you will be worried all day long, so you will definitely think about it carefully.

Second, people who live in single-parent families do not get along with their elders so harmoniously.

Because some people have seen their parents' quarrels when they are very young, and in the end they can only live with one of them, and they can't experience the joy of being accompanied by their parents, so they resent their parents in their hearts, hated them for taking away their happy family, and hated them for not thinking about themselves and only choosing their own happiness. If you choose the other half of a single-parent family, you have to accept his whole family, it is likely that he is particularly alienated from his biological parents, so that it is difficult to be a person in the middle, in order to avoid trouble, when preparing to fall in love, he will stay away from such people.

3. The most realistic reason is that if you choose a partner who lives in a single-parent family, it will not bring any help to the small family.

After getting married, you will face the problem of having children, which is human nature, but educating children requires not only the effort of parents, but also the help of the elderly. If their partner grew up in a single-parent family, both parents will have their own small families, and it is unrealistic for them to help take care of their grandchildren, which is also considered by young people.

Because they feel that the children of single-parent families will have some problems in their hearts, they are very insecure, and they are particularly sensitive, and being with them will make them very tired, and they feel that single-parent families will have some personality problems, so they will not choose people from single-parent families.

Because of the fear that the other person has character flaws. Some people believe that children from single-parent families are too attached to their relatives or have personality defects because of the absence of relatives.

Because some young people feel that there will be a big difference in personality from such people. If you are really together, it is difficult for such parents to help themselves.

This kind of thing, it still depends on the person, some women, even if she is a single-parent family, will not affect her happiness, some women will not be happy even if they are a normal family, so this kind of thing, can not be generalized, what kind of girl you are looking for, or it depends on yourself, if you think she is a child of a single-parent family, you don't want to marry her, then there is no way, if you think she doesn't care about this, you can also marry her, this kind of thing, it still depends on yourself, others can't help you.

It is really difficult to find, and children from single-parent families will be particularly insecure, distrustful, inferior, and feel that the world has abandoned them and they cannot integrate into the world. The above thoughts are my own feelings when my mother died, when I was already a sophomore in high school, I grew up in a happy and harmonious family environment, my studies were not very good, but it was not very bad, and my family was a free-range policy for me and my younger brother, and my heart was relatively free and unrestrained.

But since I became a single parent, I feel a little inferior, to be honest, why should I have low self-esteem? I still don't understand the inferiority complex mentality at that time, and even now, in the eyes of others, I will still have low self-esteem, feel that I am not good enough, and will someone think I am bad in the future.

In a certain state, I feel that single parenthood has really affected me a lot, and it has affected my brother a lot. My younger brother has not been afraid of the sky since he was a child, and he was the kind of evil head and little demon king of the world when he was a child. When I grew up, I skipped school when I was in junior high school, didn't do my homework, was obsessed with the Internet, and was beaten by my family I don't know how many times, but I didn't repent.

Just when our family was wondering what to do with him in the future, my mom committed suicide for a complicated reason. My younger brother began to change, he used to steal money and go out to surf the Internet, he used to be very hostile to everyone, he used to look at newborn calves and was not afraid of tigers, he used to cry when he wanted to cry and laugh, he used to skip school and climb the wall and run if he didn't want to go to class, and it didn't matter what happened. Watching movies, as long as there is a mother and child plot, I silently wipe my tears, I am extremely unconfident in myself, and I don't care about anything.

Also, in his 98 years, he has not talked about a serious love, because he feels that there is no eternal love in the world, and no matter how close you are, you will leave you, and you dare not pay or say what you want. Five years have passed, but the impact is lifelong. Therefore, it is too difficult for children from single-parent families to get love.

Children from single-parent families may not be easy to find a partner, because they live in a single-parent family, and the education of children generally needs both a father and a mother, because both parents often have different influences on children. However, children from single-parent families generally have only one parent to care for or take care of the child.

With only the company of the father or mother, such children will generally be harshly disciplined or overindulged, so there will be no complete parents from an early age, and there will be some defects in the personality. Therefore, children from single-parent families generally have more extreme personalities, or they are too introverted. And some of them are caused by the divorce of their parents, so they are full of fear of marriage or love.

I think this will often affect the emotional life in the future, generally speaking, the first is that children who are too introverted, often belong to the kind that dare not contact the opposite sex, that is, they feel a sense of fear of the opposite sex, plus some of them had a shadow when they were young, and it is difficult to open their hearts. Then there is the second category, which is the kind of personality that is more extreme, often because I was too indulgent to single-parent families when I was a child, which often leads to such a result.

Such children are often the kind that are particularly prone to anger and tantrums, and they are generally the kind that are particularly hot, so they often don't study seriously in school, and of course it is generally difficult to get into a good university, and some even become street gangsters, so seriously, it is difficult for such boys to find a partner, because they don't go the right way. Therefore, it is difficult for some children from single-parent families to find a partner, because there will be families who will look at it. Is the other party's child's home relatively happy?

I think that children from single-parent families are not good partners.

In fact, I didn't have any prejudice against people who grew up in single-parent families, but recently I have received a lot of cases, all of which are from single-parent families, especially families that grew up with their mothers, and girls have a lot of problems getting along with each other.

Because boys grow up with their mothers, it means that they can't get financial support from their fathers, because women's earning power is generally weaker, and they can't make money well with children.

If there is a capable and motivated father as an example, he may be poorer, and the boy will know to work his own when he grows up. But like the mother, the mother, as a woman, is generally more childish, and loves to care about the immediate gains and losses, which does not help her son's character building.

In the past, after enough hard life, most of the boy's mothers hoped that their sons could climb the daughters of rich families, and if the son was a little tall, it would be a treasure for their sons.

This kind of man is often humble and arrogant in his heart, he doesn't want to be looked down upon, but he hopes to get help from the outside world in everything, and they will use the hardships he has endured in the past as a reason to ask the woman for it, no matter how much the woman pays for him, he will only be too little and will not be grateful.

They hope that they can get a rise in class through marriage like women, but they can't, and they also hope that they can exchange for a rich lady who is willing to pay for money. If you are unfortunate enough to be a girl from an ordinary family, then all your family's requests for a normal marriage will be frantically bargained by the other party.

Because they feel that they have already suffered a loss from looking for you, and they can't take advantage of you, even if you dare to make a request, they begin to pretend to be weak and accuse your family of selling your daughter's materials and so on, and they will not feel that their family treats others badly. So once money is involved, you will find out how dark and ruthless this other party and the other party's family are.

Of course, girls from single-parent families do have personality problems, but girls generally experience emotional setbacks and will reflect and change, but it is generally difficult for men to reflect on their own problems, because for them, feelings are not the most important part of their concepts, they will only keep changing people instead of reflecting on themselves.

Children from single-parent families are not easy to find a partner.

Children from single-parent families lack objectivity in their self-evaluation, especially what others say about themselves, and will always amplify those negative evaluations. Because in the trial and error stage of childhood growth, there is only one voice in the family (father or mother is a truth), one-sided, there are no two evenly matched games, and the entire character formation period lives in such a one-sided evaluation standard, so it is difficult to be healthy and objective.

This kind of child lacks a model of a benign intimate relationship, because this kind of person does not know that noisy and noisy is also a run-in process, so as to push away the partner who is likely to continue walking, the specific performance of girls is that they will not be coquettish, and boys will not be comforting. Naturally, there is no way to manage a good marital relationship.

There is also precocious puberty, which means that if you don't get what you want in the family environment, you need to get it from somewhere else, and often this other place is love, and you will behave too tolerant or too considerate, hurting the otherwise positive and healthy relationship between the sexes.

Personal opinion can be found for single fathers, but it is better not to find single mothers. Women are confused in big things and shrewd in small things. Most of the children who have been educated are too strong or have strong self-esteem and are sensitive.

Character flaws are obvious. Of course, whether it is a single mother with a child or a father with a child, there is no doubt about the love for your child.

When a single mother brings out a child gets married, it is easy for the mother to control the child to fulfill herself. You can't understand your daughter-in-law with a heart-to-heart attitude. In fact, if you want your son to live well, treat your daughter-in-law well, there are some things that should not interfere less, and help those who can help, they have a good relationship between husband and wife, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is easily solved, accept tolerance and love, hello, I am good, everyone is good, is the most important thing.

There is always confrontation and selfish distractions, and no one has a good time with anyone.

Because of these complex reasons, it is indeed difficult for children from single-parent families to find a partner.