Why do they lose face when I do this?

They organize the competition to attract customers, if you have been the first, slowly other people will not want to come to the competition, because they know that they can't win you, then the competition they organize is meaningless, just simply give you money and let you access the Internet for free, here is only you who get benefits, of course you feel unhappy, since you have a good relationship with their boss, you shouldn't do this, this is to prevent their business, you can participate a few times, but you participate every time, In fact, you don't give them face first, people are business-oriented, since you have a good relationship with the boss, you should be considerate of them, after all, people's business is more important than your play, you may be young, immature, you should consider other people's feelings and interests before doing things, if you don't know other people's bosses, people treat you like this, that's they are wrong, but since you know people and have been network administrators before, how can you not be clear about things here, people may think that you are deliberate, deliberately hindering their business, So don't be wronged, they may have lost a lot because of you, there may have been more people to participate in the competition, because you always have to be first, there are many less, alas, you don't understand people.

The competition is to motivate people's fighting spirit, the more people participate, the more money the boss makes, if you always have to be the first, and you have done it there again, others will think that the boss set up a bureau to deceive them, so slowly there are fewer people to participate, and the boss does not want you to be the first. If you think about it, if you participate in a kind of competition, and you always know the boss first, what do you think, you must think that it is **, and you are deceived by yourself, isn't it?

You don't just think about your own feelings, you should also think about the problem from the perspective of the boss, maybe you feel more unhappy about the grievances.

Since you have a relationship in the early stage, you are not afraid of evil to the end.

Give it a try.

You are a good family, I am very happy to serve you, and I will give you the following answers: Netizens have no face, as long as they can express their thoughts, they can gain the respect of others. To solve the problem between netizens and disadvantages, the first thing to do is to establish a good communication channel, both parties must be patient, respect each other's point of view, and have a certain psychological preparation, do not give up easily, and have patience to solve the problem.

Secondly, respect each other's point of view, do not impose one's own point of view on each other, respect each other's ideas, and have the patience to explain one's point of view so that the other person can understand it better. Finally, be objective and fair, don't make unreasonable decisions because of your emotions, and look at the problem with an objective attitude in order to find the most reasonable solution. In short, netizens should respect each other, establish good communication channels, and look at problems with an objective and fair attitude, so as to solve the problems between netizens.

I hate to hear "Is it not a shame?" This type of words, I especially want to slap him in the face Sun Yuyan replied: "You don't even have a face, ** face?" ”

When I was a child, I rarely heard those words, and I didn't care about and pay attention to them, but as I grew older, I began to hear these words from the mouths of the older generation, and then I began to hear these words from my classmates, and I probably heard a lot of these kinds of words among my colleagues, friends, and old classmates in the future.

But I don't want to hate these words too much. Chinese seem to have tacitly agreed that they must give a few thin noodles when they meet people, so that they can be considered people. And what about the occasions when these words come up most often?

It is also considered Chinese characteristics, and the conversation must be at the dinner table, ah, no, it should be called the wine table. The most common scene of "whether you don't give me face" is naturally persuading you to drink at the dinner table, singing and dismantling liquid at the party, or whether you go to the organized party, they seem to have everything related to "face".

I regard the phrase "is it not to give face" as a testimony of social habits and the atmosphere of the rivers and lakes, and most people who have left school and entered the society or people with a strong atmosphere of the rivers and lakes like to use this sentence to oppress people. And the other party who listens to these words always agrees to what he didn't want to do. This can be regarded as Chinese characteristics.

I also thought, the person who said these words ** is confident that others will give you face? Why should I give you face, because your face is big? Hehe!

Why do some people take themselves so seriously? Who do you think you are, don't give a little face, you really think you have such a big face, okay?

We have not yet left society, but we are about to enter society. But there are always classmates around me who have already left society, so the first time I heard this sentence among my peers was when I was at a party, drinking, a group of boys, one after another to respect a girl, because she was the class leader, and the sentence "Isn't it not to give face?" "That's why I hate people who drink at dinner tables.

Why give you face, who do you think you are? Why should I have wronged myself in order to give you face.

The so-called "give or not give face" is just the word respect, but respect is mutual, why should others give respect to a person who advises him to drink or is "face" at every turn? Therefore, respect is given by yourself, and face is also given by yourself, and you never need others to give you face.

Some people say that now we call hypocrisy high emotional intelligence, people living in this world, will never live so real forever, always have to be hypocritical to some people, sincere to some people, we only need to be sincere to you and the people who love you.

Spit on negative energy, just take a look.

Please forgive me for being shallow.