After getting married, did you make yourself lose a lot of friends?

You're starting to feel a little bit dislike about your married life, which will affect your relationship as husband and wife... The reason for this is that you feel that you don't like life without friends, that you are not used to it... I think you have to change your mind, and if that still doesn't work, then you have to change your way of life ...

Married life is not so good.,This has to work hard for your own family.,There's no boy yet.,When you have a child.,That's to work hard to cultivate a child.。。。 Life is like this, it's so simple, look at other people's lives, think about your own life, think about why you're working hard now, what goals you have... What to live for.

You will know that life is very boring, very boring, but you have to change a way to see her, then life has a color... There is hope ...

No, it can be said that there are more friends. Because you can have many friends in common, for example, your wife's friends can be your friends, and vice versa.

Are classmates from middle school and college still in touch? Maybe what you said is right, but there are some things that you can't talk to your husband about, so your best classmates will come out, don't ask for more, just have one, so that some things between you and your husband and the boredom in your heart can be said by someone. It's also a way for you to connect with your colleagues.

You will find it wonderful to live like this.

It's a similar situation, and I don't have many friends now, so I'm always on the Internet, but fortunately, you can meet different people at work, so it should be fun. It's not bad to go out with colleagues occasionally.,You don't necessarily have to make any confidants.,In fact, I feel like only friends from the student days are confidants.,How many years of feelings don't change and won't be indifferent because of distance.,The rest is a play on the spot.。

1. Before getting married, we have no constraints, mainly to get along with friends, and naturally there are more friends; After marriage, there are many family affairs, and we have time to spend time with our wives, which narrows the scope of our social isolation. 2. Before marriage, we basically have no burden or no burden, but after marriage, we unconsciously put our energy on family affairs, and began to think about how to assume a role in the family and consider our own life problems.

3. Before marriage, many friends will look for you if they have nothing to do, or play or party, etc., and after marriage, they will no longer look for you so often, in contrast, you will feel that there are fewer and fewer friends.

After getting married, there will indeed be fewer and fewer friends. Because generally everyone has their own families and children after getting married, everyone's experience will be busy with them, so there will be less and less interaction between friends.

A person's life is high and the sea is wide and the world is far away. And the description of us is always easy to lose ourselves so that we make the wrong choice, but no matter how we are, make mistakes, as long as we have the courage to bear and correct, it will not be too bad, Buddhism has clouds and bitter seas, and there is no limit to turning back, no matter how much we go, how much we do, just guess that the town is willing to turn back, there will always be a better way out, people are not saints and sages, who can do nothing, and making mistakes is an essential part of life. Life needs to make mistakes, because there are mistakes, there will be self-confidence, there will be self-awareness, so as to better grasp and treat life, don't deny yourself because of a momentary mistake, don't deny the life of others because of a momentary mistake, life is not, because of a mistake and can be changed, don't easily compromise the core, all the mistakes made today are an essential part of life, and also for that more wonderful tomorrow.

In life, it is always good to change a companion, right and wrong intersect, some things do not have to be annoyed, some of the hungry people go wrong do not need to panic, the journey of life is long, there will always be ups and downs, there will always be regrets, we should be glad because on the way forward, every mistake is another growth in life, and we can only find our own correct direction in the continuous mistakes and exploration.

After getting married, there will be fewer opportunities to go out and meet new friends Some old friends have less contact with each other and slowly don't come and go Some old Kaixiao friends have been in contact with each other for a lifetime, so there will be fewer friends.

No, it should be said that some classmates may be estranged, but there will be new neighbors and friends on the in-laws' side.

Because you have to think that it is not easy for two people to start a family, and it is time to stop.

This is true for most people when they get married. Let's talk about it from a woman's point of view: many women have a lot of friends before they get married, but after getting married, we will find that women have fewer and fewer friends, even if they have a few close friends, but after getting married, not only do they have fewer friends, but even the relationship between their girlfriends who used to eat and sleep together and want to be together every day has not become as good as before, and it feels less intimate than before they got married.

First of all, after we get married, as wives, we have to face a lot of trivial things in life with our husbands, men work hard outside, and women are responsible for tidying up the shed at home, and unlike before marriage, you don't have to think about anything and don't care, you eat ready-made meals when you get home, and your parents help to collect housework. There is no pressure in life, and it will be very pleasant and relaxing with friends. And after getting married, you have to face the housework that can always be cleaned up, with endless meals, unfinished clothes, and after cleaning up these things, there is no energy to go out shopping with your best friends, not to mention that many women are not like before, as long as they can clean up the house in an orderly manner at home, and the husband can do the chain to make money, and now many women will go out to work because of the pressure of life, in order to be able to branch some pressure for their families. went to work hard for his career, so the fatigue of the day plus housework, and he didn't have the heart to go out to play with his girlfriends. In addition, the time of marriage of friends around me is different, some people are married, some people are not married, get together and don't know what to talk about, not like before, nothing to talk about, everything can be said, because there is no pressure to be together every day, I always feel that there are endless words, but after marriage, women's thoughts and topics are generally on their husbands and families, so some girlfriends who are not married, or girlfriends who don't want to get married yet, are together, and there is no common language for husbands or family sales. Coupled with the fatigue of life, I am reluctant to spend more energy to get acquainted with my girlfriends, and over time, the relationship is not as good as before marriage.

So no matter whether your girlfriends are married or not, you must treat it with an understanding, not that your relationship has faded, but that the things you face after marriage are different from those you faced before marriage, so understanding can make friendship long live.

After getting married, my friends will be less and less, I personally think this is also a very normal thing, after all, after getting married, you have to spend a lot of time and energy to accompany your lover to take care of your family, and a person's time and energy are naturally relatively limited, but the real friends are able to stand the test of time. Slippery.

Hello! After getting married, you are always absent from many friends gatherings. Slowly, there will be fewer and fewer friends.

After getting married, I think it's normal to have fewer and fewer friends, after all, when we get married, we need to focus more time and energy on our family, and we also have to spend a lot of time and energy on our careers, so we naturally can't devote too much time to interpersonal communication.

Take myself as an example, before I got married, I still had enough time to stimulate Jane and energy, and often used some weekends and holidays with my friends to go out for dinner, or do some sports together, but when I got married and had my own family, I needed to spend my weekends with my family, because as a man, I want to show my sense of responsibility and take more care of my lover's feelings, especially when I have children. I spend most of my weekends with my children to cram school or take them out to play, and I don't have time to socialize with my friends or make some new friends.

In this case, the relationship between yourself and your friends will naturally become weaker and weaker, and everyone's contacts are getting less and less, the relationship is not very close, and friends will naturally completely cut off contact. They are also able to understand each other's current situation.

Maybe after having a family, you pay more attention to all aspects of family life, and gradually some friends have less contact with each other.

Personally, I think. Everyone's life is different. Some people will have fewer and fewer friends after getting married.

And some people have similar friends before and after marriage. The key depends. Are your friends before marriage the same group of friends as your wife's friends?

In other words, if the friends around you and your wife are very familiar, they are still these friends after getting married. The only thing that is certain is. Friends are married.

Everyone has their own little family. They all worked hard for the small family. Maybe there's less and less time to get together and be noisy.

That's for sure.

Roger that. There is another reason why there are fewer and fewer friends after getting married. In other words, your own wife was called from somewhere else.

After getting married. Your wife. Maybe I don't like your friends and your friends.

So they will interfere with your interpersonal interactions. In such cases. You're moving less and less with your friends before you got married.

A few years have passed, and then you will have fewer and fewer friends around you. This is also the case. Therefore, after getting married, there will be fewer and fewer friends.

There are several aspects and factors. One factor is that you are married, and so are your friends. Everyone is busy, and there is less contact.

Maybe only when I come home from outside for the New Year's holidays, will I get together. And usually everyone bullies and revolves around their own small family. So it will seem that there are fewer and fewer friends.

In this case, it's not that there are fewer and fewer friends. It's just that you have less contact with your friends and less movement. In fact, it's not that there are fewer and fewer friends around me.

Didn't you meet some new friends when you went out to work? Of course, there is another situation after getting married, and there will be fewer and fewer friends. Maybe you're marrying this wife.

Particularly introverted. The friends around you see that your wife is particularly unwelcoming to them. So.

Friends move around less with each other. In this case, you will obviously feel that since you got married, you have really fewer and fewer friends. This is also the case!

But this kind of thing is not the same for everyone. The key depends on what kind of environment you live in. For example, after you get married, you take your wife to work elsewhere.

Then you are surrounded by some strange people. Slowly, I became familiar with my colleagues. In this way, you will feel that you have very few friends, which is also very normal.

If you say that you will work and live in your hometown after you get married. Your friends are not getting fewer, it's just that you have a small family with each other, and you move around less. So, in real life, every month is different.

In other words, not everyone is married, and friends are less and less disrespectful. This can only be done from person to person.

It is not necessary that there will be fewer friends after marriage, but there will really be fewer friends with a baby full-time.

This is not necessarily, a confessional division of wine and meat friends who only play for fun, may decrease, but some of the new friends established by other relationships may increase.

At the same time, it also depends on the personality of your other half, if the other half has a particularly good personality, you can make more friends, but if the other half's personality is not good, it may reduce friends.

<> other words, although others say so, but in fact it will be like this, many times we will take things out of context, so after getting married, there will not necessarily be fewer and fewer friends, and there is no such law.