How can I get my family to really agree that I am with my girlfriend?

I think it's too early for you to ask for parental consent, and I think your relationship hasn't been run in at all, it's just an online exchange. When you really live together, you may find out what is suitable or not suitable for each other... So, I mean, don't mention breaking up or not breaking up, and when you are stable at work, let your girlfriend come to Suzhou with you, get in close contact for a short time, such as half a year, and then look at the situation.

The problem of the family is secondary, and the main thing is the future...There are also reasons why the family disagrees, after all, they have more social experience than yours, and if they are really not in the same city in the future, how troublesome the problem can be imagined. How serious the employment problem is, do you know that if you have a junior high school graduate, you have to find a job in a different place, what can you do besides working? Sooner or later, you're going to have to dislike it.

The current situation is not good. And do you really love her? It's just a pity that you haven't gotten it yet?

If you are in true love, you will feel happy even if you have coarse tea and light rice, but you can't do it, and you are running for a living. Or be realistic, find a better one....Mobile phone typing is hard, so be it.

Sincerely, the gold and stone are open.

How to convince your girlfriend's parents to agree that you are together, I have the following suggestions:

1.Meet your girlfriend's parents politely and in a friendly way to make a good impression on them. Listen patiently to their worries and understand their starting point.

2.Introduce your girlfriend's parents to your family background, job, personality strengths, etc., so that they have a comprehensive understanding of you.

3.Express your sincere feelings for your girlfriend and say that you will treat the relationship responsibly with your parents.

4.Expressing respect and care for your girlfriend, so that your parents can rest assured that you will take care of your daughter's feelings.

5.Ask your parents to give this relationship some time to test, and believe that they will see your sincerity after getting along.

6.Promise to go home often to visit your parents so that they can feel your filial piety.

7.Take good care of your girlfriend in life and let your parents see the stability of your relationship.

8.Regularly report to your future parents-in-law on your current situation and maintain good communication with them.

9.Give parents some space to accept the relationship, and don't force approval overnight.

Convincing your girlfriend's parents with a combination of sincerity, rationality, and emotion often yields good results.

Explain each other's strengths, as well as the degree of your love, and the bright prospects for development.

It's not a verbal decision, that words and deeds, a sense of responsibility, mutual love, mutual understanding and tolerance, change the sentence of filial piety to parents, work hard and hard, have good moral character, have a regular life, and change your girlfriend's parents to accept you.

The answer, from the description analysis, should first understand the reasons why they disagree, and then convince them to disagree according to the specific reasons.

If He Douzhu is very resolute in their attitude, and his girlfriend is very concerned about not being Zen, then it is recommended to think carefully before speaking.

Figured out why.

However, after the branches, the mountain is how to achieve it by itself. Teasing repentance.

It was possible to convince them.

And it should also be implemented as soon as possible. Let them see hope.