How did you get your family to agree to your resignation?

Let the family know that the salary of the teller is really not high, and the bank teller sounds good, but in fact, the income is only understood by insiders. Then, let the family deeply understand the tedious and exhausting work of the bank teller. Bank tellers have to carry their own mistakes every day, which is still risky.

Finally, you have to have a clear plan, you can't be unemployed first and then employed, so that the family is not at ease. You have to have a clear plan to get your family to agree.

Since they are all adults, they must be measured in doing things, the age of the shopkeeper has passed, and there are always new plans and plans after quitting their jobs, this must be said to their parents, parents are from the past, and they will naturally conduct a risk assessment of your plans, listen to the opinions and suggestions of your parents, and know that only parents are the only ones in the world who only pay for you without returning. (To put it bluntly: there is no one who cares more about you than your parents.) ）

Parental disagreement stems from worry, and the disappearance of worry stems from the fruits of your efforts. There are only "blank checks", which have no real effect, and no bank dares to exchange them. Since you resign, you must have the ability to change jobs, and you must have initial results if you have a plan, otherwise everything is zero.

Before the author resigned, he kept taking the public examination and showed the shortlisted results to his parents, hoping that his parents could eliminate "worries - worrying that their children would have no hope of taking the public examination", of course, there are many ways to prove themselves, as long as they are effective.

If your family refuses to resign, they are worried that you will not be able to find a job immediately after you quit your job, and then worry about financial pressure. First of all, it is necessary to analyze what is the reason for your resignation, whether it is too much workload, low salary, no development prospects, or the company relationship is too complicated. If the analysis is clear, you can ride a donkey to find a horse, and it is not recommended to quit naked if the economic conditions are average, because the time cost of finding a job is very large.

In the end, the author successfully persuaded his parents to resign from the resignation position, although it was not the same as the subject's resignation, the author combined the following experience to give the subject a few opinions, "know the son Mo Ruo's father", and the parents clearly explain the situation, the reason is necessary, and this should pay attention to patience, not parents do not agree to kick the nose in the face, no patience and parents to make emotions, this is absolutely impossible. The author believes that with your patient explanation, parents will definitely understand, who parents don't want their children to be good?

Explain to your family what you want? What you do after you quit your job must make your family feel more promising than being a teller. And, it's also beneficial for your family.

And make sure you can. Finally, since you don't want to do it, you have to think about a way out and then go and leave your job.

Your family told you to settle down first, maybe you want to pursue your dreams now, but your family can't give you enough support. So, ask yourself if you have the determination and ability to do so. If you have the determination and determination to chase your dreams, like Strickland in "The Moon and Sixpence", who persevered to the end even in poverty, then you should be brave enough to go.

Leave your job and confess to your family. The world is so big, you have to go out and see. At this time, the family will not be able to stop you, of course, the family will definitely be disappointed that you did not live according to their arrangement.

Find a job that you like, even if the salary is not high, and your working condition is the most comfortable for you, and show them with facts. In the process of communicating with family members, you must not talk too rigidly, but be tactful and easy for them to accept. It's much easier to communicate with them than to be straightforward.

It depends on your own thoughts, your family must want you to have a stable job, if you feel that this stable job is suitable for you, you will do it, you feel that you don't want to be so stable and you will resign, and the road ahead is your own way.

When this job really affects your life! I think my family is looking at it. After all, the purpose of work is to live a better life!

If your job doesn't make your life better, then what's the point of continuing it? The so-called "better" does not refer only to the material, but also to the spiritual level. Of course, this must be done without a financial burden!

I understand your feelings at the moment. Of course, no one will be happy to do such a job that is not suitable for them. Even if the salary is high and the pay is good, but life becomes lifeless, the heart is isolated, and your physical and mental health is damaged, I think most of you must have thought the same as you want to find a job. But you also know that the family is also for your own good, and you don't want to see you give up this hard-won job "well", you should understand their hard work, and you should not hold grudges against them at any time. So I suggest that you should take some time to talk to them calmly, and you should also consider whether you can find a better job if you give up.

Leave a way back for yourself. Finally, I wish you to live the life you like Don't worry, the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge.

This needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, depending on the job that my parents strongly disagree with, first of all, whether it is a job that I like.

If I don't really like this job in the first place, and my parents strongly oppose it, then I will choose to give up, because I don't want to cause conflicts in my family and my parents because of a job I don't like.

If I really like this job and it brings me joy and fulfillment, then I will stick to it even if my parents strongly disapprove of it, and I will sit down with my parents to talk about my career plan, and I will let my parents know why I chose this job, why I stick to this job and what is the meaning of my persistence.

Although I will persevere, I will still convince my parents to believe in my choice, because this is the job I love, I can get a great sense of accomplishment in this job, and the income that this job may bring me is also very good, I don't think my parents need to object, so I will do my best to persuade my parents to agree to me to do this kind of work.

If my job is a very upside down, then I will communicate with my parents from this aspect and let them know that my choice is not wrong.

Originally, there will be a certain generation gap between children and parents because of the relatively large age span, I will try my best to shorten the distance between myself and my parents, and then let my parents consider the problem from my point of view, and I will also analyze from the perspective of my parents, the meaning and pros and cons of my choice of this job.

All in all, if I don't like this job and my parents oppose it, then I won't do it, no matter how much it is paid, if this job is the kind I like, I like very much, and my parents oppose it, I will stick to it, because this is my life, and I hope that my parents can respect my decision.

First, the family does not agree with the resignation of the party, generally for the sake of the party's future, and the information is not equal to the party (worried that the person in charge will not be able to find a better job in the future, etc.), as long as the communication is in place, the family will support the decision of the party. Second, the parties can communicate with the family members from the following aspects to dispel the concerns of the family:

1. Let the family know the reason for the resignation of the person concerned (at work, there are irreconcilable conflicts with the leader or colleagues, and after hard work, they still cannot reach a consensus with the leader and colleagues, etc.);

2. The parties cannot adapt to the company's working atmosphere, and although they have made efforts to adjust, they still cannot meet the company's requirements;

3. There is a big discrepancy between the company's position and the expectations of the parties, and after entering the company, they find that it is not the job they want at all or that the parties have better development prospects;

4. If the person decides to resign after fully predicting his ability to bear (unemployed for more than 6 months, whether his life can run normally), he or she has the ability to bear the expenses in the future for a short period of time, and there is no need for family members to worry.

After graduating last year, my brother found a job in mid-June this year, and I have been working for two months, and now I don't want to continue working because of the following reasons, and I want to leave. First, I feel that this job is not suitable for me and will not help my future. The only advantage is that there are five insurances and one housing fund, and there is a compilation.

Second, I have depression or anxiety tendencies but have not been tested in the hospital, this job has aggravated psychological problems, insomnia, loss of appetite, suicidal thoughts began to appear in my head, emotional instability, collapse and crying. This job costs a lot of favor and money, my parents don't understand the above reasons, they don't want me to leave, my brother said that he respects his wishes, but if he leaves, it will cause his brother to lose a connection, and he also said that he hopes he will not regret it, and he feels that he is very naïve to say that psychological pressure leads to psychological problems. Hello subject, from your text description, I feel heavy pressure and depression.

On the one hand, your family (especially your brother) is very dedicated to using resources to help you find a really good job (from a secular point of view), but on the other hand, this job has caused you to be stressful, causing your symptoms to worsen, and you are suffering and hugging. You want to leave your job, but leaving your job will cause some losses to your family, and your family will not be able to understand your pain and pressure, and you will not be able to tell your family why you want to leave your job. From the description of your symptoms, it can be preliminarily judged that there are some depressive components, here it is recommended that you can seek professional help, you can talk about the emotional distress that you cannot tell your family, and at the same time, we will help you sort out the current situation and help you find a solution.

If you wish, you can come to me, and I would love to help you. I will also use CBT methods to help you cope with depression.