My girlfriend s family is very much against us being together, what should I do?

If you are too poor, they definitely don't want their daughters to suffer with you, the daughter who has been rich for more than ten or twenty years, but now they want to follow you around, full of hunger, how to think about it is unbearable, if so, the only thing that can save this relationship is your girlfriend's attitude, if you love resolutely and don't mind living a poor life with you, then you can go away. But this is a risky move, I personally still don't recommend you to do this, filial piety first, if you can't convince her parents, then your feelings should give up. ‍‍

Find out the reason for the opposition, if it is a house, a car, a bride price, etc., for this situation, you should try to communicate, I do not want, nor approve of the couple's breakup, parents do not have any right and reason to oppose and prevent the happiness of their children. After all, getting married, if nothing else, is only once in a lifetime, both men and women have no experience, and when they encounter opposition from both parents, they are more at a loss.

Maybe what you usually do dissatisfies them, doesn't meet the standards of a prospective son-in-law, or you are a scumbag to them, and letting your daughter follow you is simply too subversive and impossible. You have to change this situation through your own efforts, walk around with them more, take the initiative to care for them more, help them do things more, be respectful and humble in front of them, and I think everything will be fine.

After all, your parents' experience is far richer than that of our young people, and many life experiences are not something we can learn from ourselves or from books, so no matter how your parents object, the most important thing is that you should improve your attractiveness and satisfy your girlfriend and your parents at home.

Find the problem from yourself, is it your own problem, if so, then your parents are against it, this is correct, after all, it is about a lifetime of happiness. At this time, girls still need to listen to their parents' opinions. And you need more change.

The advice to you is to let go, don't force it to stay, she is not a person with you, you are still self-reliant, develop your own career, and then slowly find another one, social survival is cruel and ruthless.

Think about whether the two of you are really suitable, are you all the way, do you really love each other, if you love each other, then both sides will fight for it, how many unmarried pregnancies in reality are finally combined, breaking through layers of resistance, and finally the two sides struggle together to live a happy life. I don't know if your relationship can stand the test, if the woman is willing to suffer with you, and if the man can take on the responsibility of providing for the family. If you ask yourself if you don't know, you still need to think carefully and think twice.

When I was with my girlfriend, he was actually very opposed to us being together at home, because I was younger than my girlfriend and they thought I was not qualitative enough. Later, I used my reality to tell them that I could take care of my girlfriend and that a person could do what he wanted to do as long as he stood by his beliefs.