What should I do if my newly met girlfriend is very opposed by my family.

This girl is a bit casual, you first learn more about her, whether she loves you, whether you really love her, whether your personality, worldview, values are consistent, what are her other qualities, these are determined to be "yes", and then you can consider whether you can accept her past, if so"yes"then you can find a way to convince your family.

Her attitude towards sex is a bit indifferent. Before marriage, he was like this, regardless of his reputation. You can imagine that in the days after marriage, if you go on a business trip...

But there are no absolutes in everything, if she is kind-hearted, those past events are just too naïve and poorly considered, and when she is older, she becomes mature, it is very good, don't you say that your personality is very suitable.

Don't be together anymore unless you can genuinely not mind her and other men's affairs.

I suggest that you associate with her for a while longer, and see ...... hearts over time

Brother, after reading your narrative, my feeling is that you may really be inappropriate. If you get married for a lifetime, think carefully and make a decisive decision.

Why are your parents against you? Is it not the right door? Or do the three views do not agree?

Tell me about myself. My wife and I have known each other in '96, and then we started to be together in '97, and one day in the second half of '97, her mother found out, that guy, all kinds of opposition and obstruction. Because, I came out of the countryside and went to the city alone, with no house, no job and no stability, and it was normal for her mother to oppose it.

At the same time, I knew my own shortcomings, and I thought that maybe it was a mistake from the beginning. Fortunately, my wife insisted at that time, from meeting in 1996 to getting married in 2006, no matter how much resistance there was, the relationship was not interrupted. During this period, I endured too much bitterness.

Starting from working as a typist for someone else's typing shop, working as a salesman for a company, and then changing from a salesman to a computer training class, every choice has been strongly supported by my wife, and it has also given me the motivation to persevere.

It was with my efforts that the mother-in-law at that time also saw it, and from the clear opposition at the beginning, it slowly changed, and then I could occasionally go to her house to eat. I think it may be my persistence in my relationship and my efforts in my life that moved the mother-in-law-to-be, that's what they said, this young man is diligent and motivated. After nearly ten years of long-distance love, we formed a new family, in line with the responsibility to the family, to the lover, I worked hard, from the time I got married with my parents to live with the present house and car without debt, there is a certain amount of savings and investment income every year, which can be regarded as allowing me to stand on my feet in the eyes of my mother-in-law.

Therefore, if the door is not the right one, as long as it is not a super-principled issue, as long as you work hard, you can exchange for the happiness of your life.

If the three views do not agree, then one word, points.

Then why doesn't the family agree that you are together?

How long have you been talking to your girlfriend? How much do you know about her?

Otherwise, the parents' opinions should still be taken into account.

Otherwise, you're going to have to convince your parents to accept your girlfriend.

You'd better listen to the reasons why your family is against it. This kind of thing can't be too arbitrary.

You can please your girlfriend and your parents, maybe you will talk to your heart.

No, you can't give up, I'm the same as you, as long as you don't give up, you can believe in yourself, tell your girlfriend to do a good job, don't not believe in yourself, you'll regret it for the rest of your life.

Then you just look at him everywhere We are in a similar situation When my wife and I first started talking, we were unwilling to talk Later, we were still together When I was introduced to the family, I said that I couldn't look down on it In short, I finally agreed It is not easy to find a good wife Cherish it I believe you can solve it.

Happiness is your own, your parents can't accompany you through your life, don't you also want your children to live a happy life, as long as you feel happy with her, your parents will agree sooner or later.

What do you think love is, if you really love him, then I can tell you that love is not cluttered, whether it is his parents or your own parents, you can give up persuasion, so that you can be regarded as loving him, if you can't let go then your love is not perfect and unreal.

Alas! Tragedy! Don't give up if you like it!

Bring her to her family and convince them that she is okay if she is there, or make a show in front of her.

It's better to give up! Before you even started, you were already hesitating, and you already had a lot of worries.

Give up, it's still small, don't worry about the future, the road is still long.

It's hard to say. Does your girlfriend want to get married, and can she stay at home after getting married?