I couldn t help myself from asking my boyfriend what to do with his former girlfriend

That's a manifestation of no confidence in yourself, not confident, adjust your mentality, the more you care, the easier it is to lose, everything is fate, you want him to be unsure that you are, change your image, you are the most perfect.

Don't compare yourself to what you used to be, just be yourself.

This reminds me of an animation "Our Existence", in which the male and female protagonists are just like you. Although it is a bit inappropriate to put it here, but I think you have to have faith in yourself, for your boyfriend, you and his ex-girlfriend are not comparable, one is what he has now, and the other is deep in his memory, if you insist on letting him compare, it will be unfair to you, and he will also hurt.

I remember that there is a sentence in "Our Existence", the male protagonist said to the female protagonist, you have to believe that the most important thing for me now is you. Reality is always the most important thing.

So, you are the most important person to him right now. When he really talks about the happiness of his former girlfriend one day, you have to believe him, it is not that he thinks that his former girlfriend is better than you, but in front of you, he can be calm with you and open his heart to you, which is a manifestation of trust in you, after all, only you have the courage to look back on the past in the painful past. In this way, the relationship between the two of you is further advanced.

In short, in a word, don't be jealous, you trust him, and you are the winner of love.

In fact, such comparisons are meaningless.

Now that you have him, do your best to make him happy, to stay away from the sorrow of the past, and slowly become a part of his life.

If you really love him, don't go back to the past. You don't love his past, and if you blindly mention it, you will only talk about his sore spots.

Besides, everyone is different, his former girlfriends have their good, you have yours, you can't be like them, or feel that you are better than them, let yourself have a sense of superiority. But whether it's really good or not, your boyfriend knows best in his heart. Keeping dwelling on this topic will only have the opposite effect.

So, love him, or love yourself?

If you love him, just endure it. Don't ask. Maybe one day he trusts you enough and will put his arm around you, talk lightly about their previous affairs, and then say that you are better.

Like my current girlfriend, why do you ask so much? It's none of your business. But I still recruited.

She said she wanted to know or she wouldn't be able to sleep. I was tired of asking, and finally I felt that so much time had passed, so I said. He's your first love, right?

If you are too curious, don't force it, and you will naturally say that you are kind to him. That's how I succumbed.

It's better not to ask.

It reminds him of the past.

It's going to be hard. If you love him.

Don't hurt him.

Two people are together to have fun.

Don't always mention other people's wounds.

Adjust your own mentality, wait, wait for him to say it himself, if he doesn't want to say it, don't get to the bottom of it, and believe that you are better than before. If he had a tough previous relationship, I suggest you don't talk to him when he just fell out of love, otherwise you will be the one who will hurt in the end.

Man is more dead than man.

Each person is unique in the world.

Try to do it well...

Don't fall for it!

Don't always uncover other people's scars.

Typical obsessive-compulsive disorder. It is necessary for you to see a psychiatrist.

Look ahead, or he'll be disgusted.

If it's over, why bother asking? Sometimes you ask too many questions and ask for all the privacy of others, so what do you want others to do?

You have to change yourself slowly, and if you are in love with each other now, then don't talk about the past, it's all in the past, and cherish the feelings between you.

My girlfriend rarely mentions me before, but I mention her before ...

Because she used to be bad, anyway, I was depressed and just knew that I would often think, The more I thought about it, the more uncomfortable it became, I didn't mention it much later, this, after a long time, I felt a sense of security, and naturally I won't mention it, I can't forget it, but I won't, my girlfriend rarely mentions me, I used to worry about her jealousy or something, before, It's not so unforgettable, of course, it's still my favorite now.

Men don't have to love you to be with you, keep that in mind. Crucial.

I've sent you a message, I hope you can be happy.

It depends on your boyfriend, if he really loves you, he will forget about it before. You don't have to deliberately mention the past, just get along.

I won't be with you if I can't forget.

You love your girlfriend now and in the future. Doesn't care what he used to do? If you dwell on the past. Then you'll end up unhappy.

As long as there is nothing wrong with your girlfriend's character, what was in the past can actually be ignored, and cherishing the present is the last word. It may not be good for both of you to have gains and losses all day long

It's okay to cut you next, if you want to suspect someone, don't deal with someone! Is this your first time in a relationship?

What is her past like? Is it serious?

Ex-girlfriend, you should forget;

Your ex-girlfriend has a boyfriend, you should let it go;

Your ex-girlfriend is in love with her boyfriend, you should avoid it and bless it.

Two ways. First, shielding, never forgetting, there will be a slap. Second, delete, pick up and fall, and find another herb.

Delete her and be cruel to yourself.

Close your eyes as you do it, and imagine that he's your ex-boyfriend.

Find your ex-boyfriend and beat you up, and you don't want to.

Close your eyes and imagine your ex-boyfriend.

If your relationship is proposed by your boyfriend, and your purpose of this kind of friend relationship, I advise you to let go, its psychology is gone, and there may be a camp to redeem it, but I feel that I broke up and broke up, slowly looking for your true love, fate has not arrived, if you meet someone who really likes you, he will definitely treat you sincerely, wait slowly, don't be in a hurry, if it is your boyfriend who lets go, fight for all.

The other party who asked me was cut off from contact for more than 10 days,**Never received a block.,The first day was fine, and the next day I said that I wouldn't contact you when I went back.。 And then it was gone. I can't control what to do if I hit the other party.

It's boyfriend and girlfriend, I didn't mention breaking up, I feel as if I was broken up for no reason, I just want a result and an answer. That's why I always want to contact the other party, whether the other party's behavior has explained everything. How can I let myself accept the reality of being broken up and stop playing like this?

Answer: You are right, good evening. The teacher understands your feelings very well. You don't want to believe that fact. In fact, you already know the answer, how long have you been together? Do you have deep feelings for him? Beat his ** over and over again, but there is a fluke mentality, he has already blocked you, you don't have to control yourself, if you want to hit you, you will fight, this ** is destined to be impossible to get through.

The other party always doesn't say these questions positively, and I always hit ** again, although I didn't answer the case, I'll contact you in a few days. And then there is no then, until you go to hit ** again and find that it is still blocked, in exchange for another cold message, "I'll contact you in a few days", such repeated and unexplained cold violence is really incomprehensible, because this kind of invisibility makes myself fall into waiting again and again.

Answer: The teacher wants to ask you, you care about his attitude rather than him as a person, right? I care about being broken up. So now you calmly ask yourself, if this person is standing in front of you now.

How will you feel? Will there be the joy of being lost and regained? All your pain is just because you can't accept this form of being broken up, this torture of cold violence.

Now this man is still hanging on you, he is an irresponsible person. Stop losses in time.

Questioning is also the reason why I want to control myself not to call, although I was blocked, but he can see my call information, and will call me many times and send me a text back. It felt like I was being led by the nose again and again, and we got along for half a year. There is still a trace of affection for him.

It's just that this relationship has been torn apart. I just want a result, for better or worse, just to give myself a full end to my feelings and start anew. It's just that I can't get such a small request that I let myself fall into it again and again.

Excuse me, teacher, what should I do?

Answer: The teacher understands your feelings very well, and the teacher also knows, you understand everything. If you want this guy to come to you. Give you the explanation you want, and you must be ruthless not to contact him.

Then, you manage your circle of friends. Send some positive energy dynamics and information. Make him feel like you've put him down.

He'll be curious to come and test you. It's like fishing. Don't rush to talk to him right away.

You can continue to cold him. He talks to you, you can talk about something, don't talk nonsense, and don't wait to ask him why he broke up with you for so long.

Hello question, thank you Mr. Yang!

Let your girlfriend control you, spy on you, and have punitive measures, that's how I used to help my good friend, you must criticize it harshly!!

Don't contact again, good horses don't eat back grass haven't heard of it? What would you think of someone else if they had a girlfriend right now? The important thing is that others think that you are bothering him, and they are even more annoying to you

Do whatever you want! Only do what is good for yourself, don't suppress yourself.

Hehe, caring too much about a person's past means that you are pushing yourself to the cliff step by step Love him will trust him unconditionally If you don't believe it, it means that you are not confident People Only when you are confident can you do things well and smoothly You work hard yourself

If I were him, I might do what I would do, since I know each other, it is fate, not to mention falling in love, he must have some guilt in his heart, and friends should understand each other and empathize.

People have to face reality, cause and effect are circular, and fate follows fate. Is you always yours, either yours is to get, or will you leave, I Buddha has clouds: in the underworld, freedom is determined,

It's all gone, why bother to bring up his bad memories again, he will know if you treat him well, I wish you happiness.

Then you ask, ask his ex-girlfriend about the things that are bad for him one by one, and then you make up for it one by one, and when you make up for all the bad things that his girlfriend has done to him, you can't think of whether he has an ex-girlfriend or not.

You're just thinking too much.

Although I don't agree with breaking up and still being friends, it's not good to die of old age and not get along with each other after a breakup.

If they can still be friends after breaking up, it shows that each other has really let go of that relationship.

If appropriate, don't think about that.

It's time to let it go, a man can't hang himself from a tree, she doesn't.

Let you go to her You have to find the reason, is it a certain shortcoming in your body that makes the other party unbearable, such as not being mature enough, or what, you must know how to find problems from yourself, and then try to get rid of this problem, try to find her after a while, if not, don't stumble, I'm from here!

Love. It's like encountering a grand scene and making a beautiful and desolate gesture. Like this:

Since then, he has no intention of loving the night, and let him go down to the west building under the bright moon. This situation can be recalled, but it was already clear at the time. Even if there are thousands of styles, who to talk to.

Love can make a person irrational, and love can make a person forget themselves. Over time, everything will be diluted.

You thought she would change her mind, but she didn't. Let it go and let it be.

Fate, is there a fate to meet thousands of miles away, some people are a one-sided fate, and some people are fateless.

You can't let go, you have to adjust your lifestyle, where in the world is there no grass!

Have to live with dignity, don't look for her all the time, but you will feel that you are useless, you can't find a better one, pester her, she will be proud, thinking that you can't do without her.

Because of love, so love, after being together for a long time, life has become a habit, and this inertia can only be eliminated with time.

If you are sure that you can't be together, then try to control yourself from thinking about it and take your time.

Calm down for a while, maybe she'll look for you.

After a long time, see each other less, or get along with others, and gradually the relationship will fade.

Cherish it when you lose it, alas, to impress her with sincerity.

You can't let go of her, but you still love her very much, so you've been entangled in this relationship.

Since you like her so much, why didn't you catch her in the first place!

Loved her and couldn't forget.

Don't humble yourself. This makes you feel more uncomfortable. I moved myself.

Because people have feelings, you have feelings for her.

Forget it, what's the use of thinking about her?

If you love too little, you won't love a few more people.