What are four people who are going well to start to be unlucky?

1. Earning ill-gotten gains is very smooth, and you may feel very happy when you earn it, but this kind of fear will stay with you for a long time. 2. The partner is obedient, and the person who is obedient to you is not without thoughts, but does not mention you if he has an opinion. 3. Breaking up with your lover is very smooth, and love and marriage are hard-won.

4. The people who criticize you are gone, and when there is no longer anyone around you who is willing to give you advice, it proves that there are fewer and fewer true friends.

People who are very "smooth" in these four things are about to start to be unlucky, first, others will be obedient to you in whatever you do, second, the money you earn is not clean, third, those who used to be good for us are gone, and fourth, there is no trouble every day, only happiness.

Before people are unlucky, these four things are generally very smooth, and they should be vigilant when they appear.

1. When the ill-gotten gains are very smooth. 2. The partners around you are obedient to you. 3. The breakup with my lover is going well. 4. Those who dare to criticize themselves seem to have disappeared.

Complaining about this stuff will make you more and more blindly following the trend, irrational, narrow-minded, full of prejudices about things, and no longer have objectivity and calm thinking. The more you complain, the more you can be dragged into the vortex of emotions, which will not help you get out of the current situation, and even make the situation more and more difficult. Therefore, it is useless to complain, seeking change is the last word, and anyone who only complains about winning people is unwilling to seek change to win people.

Seeking change is an escape, and you can only save yourself by yourself, rather than always waiting for the atonement of luck. No matter how bad it is, even if it has already happened, we need to accept what has already happened, try to calm down in our hearts first, and then find the root of the problem.

From the highlight, the happy life goes to the trough, and this cannot be without a reason, even if it is due to bad luck, but it is only one of the reasons. Where is the problem, whether there is something wrong with yourself, you should re-examine your own thinking, and then seek to change, instead of complaining. Otherwise, even if someone is willing to pull you, they won't be able to see your outstretched English hand.

will only give up on himself, complain about the injustice of fate, and don't have to become this kind of person.

Dealing with people, whether in the highlight moment or falling into the trough, you need to be stable, practical, realistic, don't have all unrealistic imaginations, let alone any wild conjectures. Therefore, after getting rid of your own complaints, you also need to get rid of your own conjectures and imaginations, so that you can collide with good luck.

Think about what else you can do, what you can do, what you need to do, and then do those things well. Step by step, little by little, the changes in life are accumulated. What are you most afraid of?

Always thinking about having a good thing to sit back and enjoy, or getting better and better to be ambitious, looking down on trivial things, not wanting to do it, big things are in sight, but can't do it. Until you drag yourself heavier and heavier, it will be difficult to change again, don't just shout the slogan of "diligence" and "change", think less and do more.

How you want to do it, that's just what you think, what you do, that's what is really practical. Life is real, and you should be able to see clear footprints in every step you take. Thinking about how to fly every day is not practical, and it is even more detrimental to you to get out of the trough, it is best to be down-to-earth and go up step by step.

Keep a calm mind, don't care too much about the conclusion, if the purpose is too strong, it is impossible to commit to the whole process, which often leads to the conclusion and expectation before the horse.

You should have a state of mind that goes with the flow, you have worked hard, you have done what you should do, and what the result is, no matter what. As the saying goes, do your best to obey the destiny of God, if you care too much about the effect, then when the conclusion can not be expected in the same industry, once or twice, the psychological state will really collapse.

If you are too purposeful, it will also affect a series of management decisions, efforts and capital investment in the process, because you will no longer do good things just to get things done. Therefore, the conclusion is very important, but don't take it too seriously, otherwise you will be in a hurry for quick success, which is very not conducive to the change of the status quo, and will only make daily life constantly unfortunate. Mentality is very important, and without a good mentality, it is impossible to control a better life.

Don't be discouraged, don't give up on yourself, you must continue to improve yourself, you must stabilize your emotions, and you must be positive.

We must have hope, we must vent, we must calm our mentality, we must know how to be flexible, we must be calm, and we must do these things well.

Don't give up on yourself, try to improve yourself, analyze the current situation, plan your future, and invest in yourself.

Love to show off. If a person is often unlucky, one of the reasons may be that he likes to show off. Be on one's high horse. If a person is often unlucky, many times it may also be caused by his arrogance or bigness.

Undisciplined life, wasting time every day, not being strict with yourself, not planning for the future, often having negative emotions.

Always complaining. Withdrawal from college. Don't be afraid to have a good breakfast. No more reading. Ambition. Always staying up late. I'm always crying. Cut off from friends and come to Zheng Zheng. Don't go to work.

1. Ability to work. The reason why I feel uncomfortable is that when I can't handle the business, I need to take a good look at my work ability. Generally speaking, when you come to this position, you must have the ability to deal with the corresponding business.

If you can't deal with it often, it means that you need to learn to supplement your knowledge, which is a manifestation of insufficient ability. At this time, you must not be impatient, you must seriously study the experience of your predecessors and peers, read more books, and instill some knowledge in yourself, so as to continue to work smoothly.

2. Personal interests. If you don't work in a row, it's definitely not going to be good for you. But I believe that many people will also pay attention to this aspect when choosing a job, and will definitely not choose a job that they find boring.

At this time, we have to analyze what made us lose interest. Then change your mind, find the joy of work, and slowly you will like the job. Of course, if you really can't get interested, then consider changing jobs.

3. Colleague relationship. In many cases, strained co-worker relationships can also lead to unhappiness at work. This is actually the embodiment of a person's social skills, don't force everyone to like themselves, just do your best, be cheerful in the company, be enthusiastic, and be polite to others, this is enough.

Remember, as long as you're friendly to others, it's not your problem, no matter what other people's attitudes are. In short, be yourself and don't be afraid to communicate.

Generally, in the work, there are often times when things don't go well, only by analyzing and sorting out the problem can we prescribe the right medicine and solve the problem.

Bad luck is not necessarily a bad thing, because whenever you get through bad luck, the rest is smooth, and it should be regarded as a tempering of your own period

You can give up the job in front of you and take a trip to adjust your mood.

Maybe you've been unlucky during this time, I've been unlucky for a while, unlucky at home, unlucky at work, and it's good to go over.

Life is to make things that do not go well easy, not to endure hardships, and to suffer poverty forever.