What are the necessary subtexts that need to be understood in society?

To be a man, you must know how to pretend to be stupid, know how to pretend to be confused, you must not be careful about anything, you must pretend to be stupid when you should be stupid, you must be confused when you should be confused, of course, you have to be smart when you should be smart, anyway, you must always be confused, and occasionally smart. Don't be inferior when interacting with anyone, be confident, low self-esteem is really easy to ruin a person. If you don't know, you don't know, you must not pretend to understand and deceive yourself.

It's really too easy for people to get separated, not to contact for a day, not for a week, not for a month, and finally never contact again. In this society, don't take the relationship without blood relationship too seriously, there is no need to deliberately maintain it. In the face of interests, human nature is worthless.

In front of money, feelings are not worth mentioning. Don't expect others to help you, helping is helping each other, someone helps you, you have to return the gift, there is no free lunch in the world.

To do things to learn from Cao Cao, to do things in the people to achieve things in the sky, should be ruthless, must not be soft-hearted. To be a man, you have to learn from Liu Bei, hide the weapon in your body and wait for the time to move, you have to endure it, you must not be sharp, you must plan people in advance, you must learn to layout, or don't shoot, and the shot is the end. I am not a gentleman, but I have a conscience, I know that the rivers and lakes are sinister, but I still act sincerely, I want to be alone, how can I be turbulent, the world is changeable, single-handedly, after deceit, smiling alone.

No matter how good a friend is, you must keep an appropriate distance: if you are far away, you will not be close, and if you are close, you will be disrespectful. Leave room for others and for yourself.

When you trust someone unreservedly, in the end there are only two outcomes: either that person in your life or a lesson in your life.

The best people are sophisticated, that is, they are willing to buy a thousand dollars, and everything is from the heart of sincerity and mutual help. The consequence of being a strong man will be that others will have no choice but to cut their love and give up many innocent thoughts. For example, if a friend buys a new dress, you don't think it looks good, and it doesn't fit well on his body, so when a friend asks you if you look good, you must say that it looks good, that is, you must know how to save other people's face.

1. "Let's talk about this next time!" "—It means that there is basically no drama and can't do it!

2. "We have to study and study your matter" - it means that if you don't know how to count and don't send some cigarettes and alcohol, you will definitely not be able to do it!

3. Praise vigorously: "How high is your ** level in this regard!" —It means that he has something to ask you for and wants to ask you for help!

4. "It's not early, you can stay and eat!" "—It is possible that the other party is issuing an eviction order.

First of all, some people will say that you are better than me, but it is not generally in your own heart, but you just want this way to let you do more things; Secondly, some people ask you if you are free tomorrow? Maybe it's just trying to take up your time every day.

Stay and eat, it means that someone's meal time is coming, you should also go, you are really a good person, it shows that you are just a good person, but you don't have any strength, this matter will be discussed later, this shows that you are not interested in this matter.

We must conscientiously complete our work, do not gossip, do not form cliques, do not meddle in things, understand market policies, and understand the preferences of leaders.

If you want to mix well, you must remember these 9 unspoken rules of society.

1.Spend 20% of your time with anyone, even if you're a partner. Every word you say and everything you do will become a weapon for the other party to hurt you in the future.

2.Most of the things in the textbooks are absurd fairy tales that can't stand the test of society, and few people will tell you anything that is really useful, except for your parents.

3.If you haven't met a living bodhisattva, you don't know how kind people's hearts are; You haven't met a big demon, you don't know how vicious the human heart is. I wish you had a miserable end, you are in debt, your wife is separated, and hypocrites who are worse than death abound.

4.Read more valuable books when you have nothing to do, otherwise your brain will easily hail and become a "night pot" or "bedpan" for ill-intentioned people, and sooner or later it will be tarnished.

5.Poor children are immersed in a world of deception and ideals from an early age, and teachers will not tell him "how important money is", parents will not tell him "how realistic society is", and the boss of society will not tell him "the face of society as it is". Everything depends on their own trial and error, they often think that people's hearts are very simple, and society is not sensitive and beautiful.

But by the time I got to the point, it was too late.

6.The biggest gap between people is the cognitive level, 80% of people are stupid and self-righteous.

7.If you meet uneducated, stupid and poor parents, then you are miserable. Because they don't understand anything and are very stubborn and irritable, they don't know how to make money, they don't understand the world, they don't understand the unspoken rules of society, but they only know that they tell you to be honest and don't make trouble, they only know that they let you bury your head in hard work, and they only know that they roar at you rudely for the trivial things of sesame mung beans, and there is a high probability that you will become a stable and timid poor person.

Born in this kind of family, if you don't wake up your thinking, this life will definitely be wasted.

8.Cognitive awakening is the only way to awaken a person's second life, especially for the poor, because no one is going to teach you how to survive, how to make money, how to make relationships, how to manipulate the brain. On the contrary, you often meet people who pour you ecstasy soup and deliberately defile your brain.

Only cognitive awakening can allow you to stand on the shoulders of the awakened, see through the true face of this world, and move towards the bright road!

9.Parents are the first teachers, and primary school textbooks are fables. Reading 10,000 books and traveling 10,000 miles, practice is the only criterion for testing the truth. The best education is still bitter and then sweet, learning war in the midst of war. People gather by like, and things by groups. I believe that things are man-made!