Is it true or a joke? Is the joke genuine?

I reckon you and your friend are still relatively young, and neither he has made a real decision yet, or that he is not brave enough. So, first and foremost, do you like him or not? If you don't like everything, don't talk about it; If you like it (and you should also think about why you like it), then it's fun.

First of all: positioning, is it to play or to get married later? That's different.

Then, you should suggest that he take the initiative to show you favor and create opportunities, for example, say "this weekend is like watching a movie" in front of him, and you should also say that you like guys who dare to do things, guys who like to be confident, guys who like to take the initiative, etc. Look at his reaction, if there is no reaction, the first possibility is that he has no self-confidence and is not active enough, the second possibility is that he thinks very highly of himself and disdains to pursue girls--- this boy may eventually regret it, you don't pay attention to him, the third possibility, he doesn't love you, just because you are more compatible with him, so he also likes you a little bit. Or that he feels that you like him, so he thinks that you will wait for his arrival, in this case, you should give him a more sense of crisis, such as making more friends of the opposite sex (there are more options).

If so, he didn't react, leave him alone, or the last piece of advice, make more friends, including friends of the opposite sex, the number of friends of the opposite sex is too large, you can select the boutique!

Good luck!

He would say it was a joke.

Isn't that the three hundred taels of silver here?

He likes you.

If I was joking with a friend of the opposite sex, I would never say it was a joke.

Understand, he likes you, he is playing to get away with it, better than if you also like him, then find out! I wish you happiness.

Sincerely, I'm a boy, and I feel the same way for the girls I like.

It's better to go straight!

You first have to make sure you like her!

It's true. I'm a boy, you trust me, you can't be wrong.

Maybe he really likes you, a little, of course.

Or to be clear. If you like him, say it.

It's not that I say it too. so that there may be no pain in the future.

Go with the flow and don't overthink it!

I have a friend who does the same to me, and I feel that she or he cannot be trusted

He's a master, be careful

Hello friends, this is also according to everyone, a tacit understanding, in this bustling crowd, we will meet many people, a second, a minute, an hour, a year or a lifetime. How many words will be spoken, how many words will be said about this person's heart, and how many words will be said in a "joking" way so that we don't want to break the relationship with each other.

The word "joke" can be used in almost any conversation, it can be used to sarcastically break the awkward atmosphere, or to confide in the heart, so let me think about when everyone will say what "truth" will be said in a "joking" way.

1.Confessional type.

I love you, I like you, will you marry me?

This type of type, which I believe many people have used, is suitable for one person who has a crush on another person, but does not know the other person's heart, usually on Valentine's Day Singles' Day.

On April Fool's Day, he said to the other side. It should be that even if it is refused, the fissure can quickly resolve the embarrassment. For example, the usual context is that the male protagonist asks:

Who do you like? I'll help you chase. The heroine replied:

But you don't know, I'm serious.

2.Active.

Do you like me? Isn't it interesting for you to hide from me?

This type is also a tentative tone, and it also depends on whether the other party likes you, if you are rejected, of course, you can say that it is a joke in the same way, if the other party is, then it may be a hit and it will be.

3.Sensational.

If you don't marry me in ten years, if you don't marry, will we be together? If there were, I'd rather never meet you.

The former belongs to looking forward to the future, and the latter belongs to the emotional setback.

The former scenario: one party likes the other party, but one party has not had time to love the other party and is not ready to be with the other party, so the person who likes it gives each other a deadline to say such righteous words in order not to force the other party, but how many are really together?

The latter scenario: both parties love each other and come back to life, but due to personal reasons, one party betrays the other party, and the other party is very sad and does not know how she lost to the present lack of argument, her world has since collapsed, and all the good memories have become the painful past. So he said this sentence to the other party that makes people love and hate:

If there were, I'd rather never meet you.

The joke's heartfelt words are an occasional alternative way of expressing themselves in an entertaining way for the speaker to express his or her emotions more deeply. Among the most intimate people, the truth in the joke is also a special way to express your trust, love and concern for this person, and can also express your true feelings. For example, you can jokingly say to your closest people:

Knowing what you want to do, I also support you, but I am afraid that you will get hurt, so I want to know what you think, and also the cruise would like to remind you to pay attention to safety. This phrase is a joking expression of your trust, understanding, and concern for the people closest to you. For example, you can jokingly say to your closest people:

I know you're worried about yourself, but I think you have the ability to achieve your dreams, and you won't be alone because I'll always be there for you and work with you. This phrase is a joking expression of your support and encouragement to those closest to you. Sincere words in jokes can more effectively express your feelings for the people closest to you, and you can also more effectively express your expectations and encouragement for the people closest to you.

Therefore, between the closest people, telling the truth in a joking tone can make both parties closer, get to know each other, and build a stronger relationship.

To some extent, jokes are usually based on real feelings. Many emotional psychologists believe that we express our feelings in a humorous way to relieve tension or escape fear.

When we express our deepest feelings in the most relaxed way, we tend to make the other person more receptive. For the closest people, we can express our true feelings in a humorous way, but we also need to pay attention to the appropriate occasion, time, and way to avoid hurting the other person.

For example, in an intimate relationship, when you feel worried or anxious, you may jokingly express it to the other person. For example: I'm here waiting for your news, I've been waiting for hundreds of years.

This joke expresses your thoughts and worries about him, but the tone has a hint of joke and ridicule, which can both express feelings and relieve tension.

Of course, in jokes, the other person must be respected and the feelings of the other person must not be hurt. For example, if your partner is learning a new skill and it's not going well, you can say, "That's not how you started when you learned to run rounds."

This quote carries a certain irony and can be frustrating and hurtful for the other person, so avoid this from happening.

When speaking the truth to the people closest to us, we can use humor appropriately to relieve tension and express our inner feelings, but at the same time, we should be careful to respect the other person's feelings and avoid hurting the other person's feelings.