Talk about the psychology of people who like to joke about others?

Self-esteem is very high, and if you look down on others, you will make fun of others, and this kind of person is better to stay away.

Different personalities and different performances. Maybe she thinks you're funny and teases you. As long as you don't curse or insult people in your words, you should laugh at it.

I want you to be embarrassed, otherwise he likes you, or if the person is a woman, then the woman likes the man, and then she suspects that you like it.

When you are neglected by others, you will sometimes use this method to try to increase the other person's attention to yourself, even if it is temporary, and then it becomes a habit.

If they're joking about you and making you uncomfortable, you can talk about your feelings and thoughts. But if they're acting against someone else, then you don't have to say it, because how they behave is their business. You can't ask others to do what they want.

Maybe he doesn't have the idea of respecting others in his world, otherwise he wouldn't be joking with others, and if one day he himself is treated as the object of jokes by others, he doesn't know how it feels.

Depending on each person's character, if a person is used to being unrestrained, of course, it will be difficult to recover, if one day, you scold the other party very hard and can't open his mouth, this may become a bad habit in the future.

Don't make jokes that others don't like to hear, on the contrary, people will not only think you are not humorous, but also think that you are boring.

1. This person has such a personality. 2. It may be that they want to belittle you. 3. Just kidding.

But it still depends on the content of his jokes, if it is forcibly labeled, or there is a blind button for nothing, which makes you disgusted, then you feel that you will stop him. Straightforwardly bring it up with him, see how he reacts, if you don't care about your feelings, then you can break off the relationship, whether it is a colleague or not, people with character problems are not worth socializing.

Definition of Character:

Personality is the personality trait that manifests itself in a person's stable attitude towards reality, and in the habitual way of behaving that corresponds to this attitude.

Attitude is a tendency of a person to react to people, objects or ideas, which is learned in acquired life and consists of three factors: cognitive, emotional and behavioral tendencies.

A person's attitude towards reality is manifested in what he pursues and rejects in life, that is, in what he does. And how a person does it is an indication of how he behaves. A person's stable attitude towards reality determines his way of behaving, and habitualized ways of behaving reflect his attitude towards reality.

What kind of person is a person who often makes jokes about others? This depends on what kind of person you are, which is very important.

Many people can't make true friends, or they can't seem to find like-minded friends, first of all, the fundamental reason is that you yourself may not know yourself at all, you don't know what kind of person you are, how you want to live your life, if you know yourself well enough, have a very clear life, work, and friendship principles, you will easily know whether to get along with such a person, which is a big premise.

Secondly, you must be able to distinguish between right and wrong, whether he is joking with you to be sarcastic, or whether he is just a person who loves to joke. If a person often makes jokes about others, does not take into account the feelings of others, and makes others unable to step down, I personally think that at least this person does not know how to take care of other people's feelings and does not know what it means to respect others, and such people are not easy to say in today's society.

No matter how familiar people are with each other, they should keep a certain distance, and this distance is to fully respect each other. Whether a person and your friends continue to associate depends on whether he has at least respect for you, if he looks down on you and disdains you very much, no matter what kind of person they are, they may not be able to play together!

In short, this person despises you, despises you, doesn't care about your feelings, doesn't care about your self-esteem, makes jokes regardless of the severity, makes jokes regardless of the occasion, feels funny, only amuses himself and others, and doesn't care about how you feel at the time.

There is also a kind of person, who is close to your best friend or classmate or colleague, who makes a good-natured joke, just to liven up the atmosphere, without malice, and can appreciate your subtle hints, and when you are unhappy, they will stop in moderation.

Jokes can be made, and it is necessary to distinguish between intimacy and occasion. Keep your distance from the first type of person, and don't worry about the second type of person.

A leader once said to me a sentence that I think is very reasonable: only when you have respect in your heart can you stop doing something! I've always kept in mind that the best relationship in this world is probably that I know it's not easy for you! Personally, I think this is suitable for a large part of the current relationship!

Such a person is very unqualified, and it is not love, he does not know how to think from the perspective of others, has low emotional intelligence, does not know how to speak, and his popularity is definitely not good.

Under normal circumstances, this kind of person is very selfish, does not know how to empathize, and some have a more aggressive personality.

A person who is self-centered and doesn't care about the feelings of others often makes fun of others, and he finds it funny, but he doesn't know that he has invisibly hurt others.

If there is really someone you don't like or jokes often happen around you, and you are embarrassed to say I don't like it, then try to avoid him, avoid this topic, or leave this "circle" for a short time under the pretext of washing hands and going to the toilet, this is a very wise approach, kindly remind you, remember to keep yourself at all times, maintain some of your own personality views, sometimes the joke is really big and there is no need to cover it up, it is very important to show anger and dissatisfaction appropriately!

In fact, everything is two-sided, and if you want to find the cause, you can't just look at one side, you must look at the problem objectively and comprehensively. First of all, start with your own analysis, do you not often communicate with people, understand that you are not good at joking with people? Therefore, whether it is a good or malicious joke, it will be a little uncomfortable or disgusting to you.

Secondly, you should probably consider exercising your mental capacity, since you can't change this environment, then you should try to accept and adapt to this environment, who hasn't encountered frustration and embarrassment? Once you get used to it, it won't be a problem for you. This is a problem that you need to find change from yourself, in fact, the solution to the problem is mainly up to yourself, as long as you can change quickly with the environment, then your philosophy of life can change very much.

If you really can't stand this kind of person, you will try to have as little contact as possible in the future, and if you go out to play with other friends, if there is one, he can choose to refuse, try not to let you meet him, he knows less about the two of you, and he doesn't know how to make fun of you. If you make a joke when you are having fun, you can also make a joke about him and make him make a fool of himself, and he will naturally experience that feeling at once. Gradually, I won't be making jokes about you so often.

I do hate this kind of person, but if you don't want to be friends with him, I probably won't be able to accept it. It mainly depends on the mood of the two of you at that time. Maybe he was trying to be humorous and create an atmosphere when he was happy, maybe she didn't realize that you were disgusted at that time, but their hearts are really not bad, and they just want you to pay more attention to him.

Therefore, there is no need to turn against each other, but there is still a sense of tolerance to receive everyone.

In private, what can two people tell their good friends tactfully when they do something together? I don't like to be joked about by others, and the other party will restrain me.

I've seen it many times, maybe out of jealousy, but the best thing to do is to smile. Because your smile will make the other party's bad intentions against you not be carried out, and the topic against you will not continue, because a person's self-talk, no one is interested, and it is almost ridiculous like a clown jumping off the beam.

If the other person is trying to provoke you purely as a joke, you can also tell the other person in a joking tone: "That's what you see." And then there was no follow-up.

Because any of your justifications is a futile struggle, the other party will say, "I'm just joking with you, why are you still unhappy, why can't you make such a joke?" ”

So, when you encounter such a situation, you just do it, or smile. Smile it off and leave no truth for the other party.

Either that, show weakness and tell the other person, "You're right. "It's not cowardice, but there is no need to explain, no matter what you explain, the other party will have malicious intent against you, because people want to see your anxious white face, so that everyone knows that you are a person who can't afford to joke, and it's your own mood to be able to joke and can't afford to joke, so just ignore such jokes as crazy words.

Never try to tell anyone about your grievances, it's pointless, it's just a matter of giving people who know more to talk about after dinner.

If you are really wronged, don't tell anyone, since you know, you should understand that people have a scale in their hearts, but no one will solve the problem for whom, one is not capable, and the other is that there are many people who don't think it's a big deal to see the excitement.

Hello, joking is a relaxing way, a well-meaning joke can relieve tension and anxiety, but some people will bully him in the name of joking.

1. Jokes between classmates.

In school, classmates often play all kinds of jokes with each other, but some people will deliberately use others as objects of ridicule in the games, making others feel embarrassed and uncomfortable. For example, when playing a game of ball toss, some students will throw the ball into the hands of the weakest classmate and say with a smile: "This ball is so heavy, can you throw it?"

This form of joking, while seemingly harmless, is extremely uncomfortable for the person being ridiculed.

2. Jokes on social **.

With the popularity of social networking, people are communicating more and more through the Internet. However, some people will make others feel uncomfortable or ashamed by making social jokes, making mean comments or interactions. Some pranksters also post false information on social media to cause panic or embarrassment to others.

3. Jokes in the workplace.

In the workplace, some people may make jokes to relieve stress at work, but sometimes the jokes can be malicious or discriminatory. For example, a colleague might strike up a belief that someone is deserving to be made fun of because of race, gender, or other reasons. This malicious joke not only hurts the victim's self-esteem but can also lead to a negative atmosphere in the workplace.

In general, bullying in the name of joking is not a harmless act. If you notice this behavior, you should stop immediately and apologize to the victim. We need to respect others, accept their differences and characteristics, and interact with them in a more friendly way.

In this way, we can build healthier, more positive social relationships.

I wish you a happy and happy life.

This behavior may make the victim feel uncomfortable, but they may not know how to respond because they are unsure whether they should think it's just a harmless joke.

2.Insulting titles: Some people may label others with insulting labels, such as "stupid", "fool", and then claim that it's just a "joke."

In fact, such insulting language can cause harm and embarrassment to the victim and can greatly reduce their self-esteem and self-confidence.

3.Going above and beyond someone else's bottom line: Some people may attack someone else's fears, weaknesses, or sensitive issues and explain their behavior in a "joking" way.

However, for many, these topics are unaffordable and can have long-term negative effects.

4.Disparaging of other people's interests: Some people may ridicule other people's interests, hobbies, or habits and call them "jokes."

This behavior is often motivated by an attitude of disrespect for others and non-acceptance of diversity. This will only make others feel unwelcome and incomprehensible.

In conclusion, using the excuse of "joking" as a means of bullying others is immoral and irresponsible. We should treat others with respect, understand each other, and get along in a positive way.