I feel a little repulsed by my boyfriend, no matter how much he does, I don t feel that he loves me.

The more you care about someone, the more you will be harsh on him. The more conditions. Of course he loves you, and a man doesn't need to put so much effort into a woman he doesn't love.

You trust Him, and you subconsciously know that He loves you and will not leave you. That's why you lose your temper with him unscrupulously. You feel pressured because you love him too.

You feel like he's too good to you. And you didn't treat him like he did. You love him, and you're afraid that after you devote yourself to it.

But he left you because you didn't give you the same love. You're afraid you won't be able to take it anymore. Actually, he does so much.

It's just because I love you, I don't care so much. It's enough for him to know that you love him too. A man can give everything for a woman.

There is only one condition, and that is that the woman will stay by his side forever and love him. Take advantage of it. Don't be like others who naively think that there is always a more suitable one waiting for you, and if you miss it, you can't come back.

I think that if a man is willing to be so nice to you, and you are so cold to him, it obviously shows that you don't love him.

Since you want to escape, then give yourself a freedom, and let him be a good man to free himself.

You love him, and you love him very much, and you already have the idea of dependence. You don't feel it yourself, you don't get used to it without him. He's so good to you.

So you don't feel it, you're still content! Such a good boy went there to find it, and he will regret it for the rest of his life if he misses it! He just won't confess, you should understand!

It's so happy to have such a boyfriend.

Maybe you're used to it and don't feel new.

It's not that you don't love anymore, it's that you're used to it, and I can understand that you take his love for granted, and it's commonplace.

Maybe your boyfriend occasionally loses his temper at you, or he is coquettish or something like that, and life may be a little more colorful.

Sometimes this kind of love is suitable for letting go, maybe your way is not suitable for a man like him. Actually, you should be very happy.

It's just that you know best that you may be blinded by something that makes you unable to extricate yourself, and I think you will both miss and even miss the good things you used to be after the breakup.

But when you really come to that point, you will regret it a little later, I can't guarantee that you will, but I am sure that you will feel a little lost in your heart

Such a good man is rare anymore. Maybe you don't love him, maybe you're always together, and you don't know how much you need him. It is not easy for a woman to meet the right man in her life. I hope you are happy.

Don't wait for loss to cherish. Sometimes some people turn around and miss it for a lifetime. Is such a good man still there?

When you usually contact him, you should care more about him, give him some warmth, he will feel very happy, if you have something to do late, you will tell him the truth, he should not be angry, most childish people are lacking in care and warmth, you give him care and warmth, he should understand you, and in his heart, he may think that you are better than him or you are better than him, he may feel a little bad in his heart, a little depressed, he comes to see you, you are late, he may feel that you don't take him to heart I feel like you don't care about him All kinds of complex emotions are intertwined Of course he is going to be angry In fact, I am also a person who wants care and warmth I also have childishness But not everyone is so lucky Due to a series of reasons such as family environment life Buji human origin and so on That part of the unlucky people have become childish, become childish people There will be all kinds of misfortunes in their own lives, emotions and social interactions, and those kinds of misfortunes can only be borne silently by the wounded hearts in their hearts.

Then you have to think about it, whether your approach is right, you have to tolerate and understand each other, communicate and talk more, try another way, as long as the bridge is sensitive and the two sides love each other, it will be solved. FYI!

Communicate with him well and see if there are any misunderstandings and what exactly makes him feel this way.

Then do you really reject him, if not, then Li Jing will explain it to him clearly. If Sakurasan really rejected him, then you should know the reason yourself, and explain it to him clearly so that he can correct his spine.

A friend thinks that you reject him, then it must be that he thinks that there is still a distance between you and him, and that you still lack communication, so you should communicate more.

Spend more time with him and communicate more.

Are you just in love? It should be fine after a long time.

You can sit down and talk about why you feel that way.

Do you feel like you're really rejecting him? Or was he overreacting a bit?

Your boyfriend feels that you reject him, you can do this:

First, understand what your purpose is.

Be clear about what you want first, and it's clear that you want each other's lovers;

Second, what are the problems in the relationship between the two?

In other words, you need to understand the other person's motivation for feeling that you reject him and solve the problem of the other person's motivation.

For example, if the other party thinks you have a bad temper and wants to leave you, then what you need to do is not to promise that you will not lose your temper again, but to really get rid of this shortcoming and learn to manage emotions;

For example, if the other person feels that they can't get your attention and wants to break up, then you need to learn to express love. In a relationship, there are often many problems, and you need a professional analysis to find the real reason why he wants to leave you.

Third, establish secondary attraction.

Saving feelings can't be reunited by unilaterally advancing the relationship, love is not sought, it is attracted.

The core of saving the relationship In addition to solving the problems of the previous relationship, another key element is to attract the other party again, since you can attract the Yinbi Brigade for the first time, it is possible to attract the second time.

Attraction is to let the other party take the initiative to approach you, and the way you take is to take the initiative to approach and attract, and the other party will not repel, but the stove stool you face your approach, and approach without solving the problem, the other party will repuls.

The key to emotional salvage is to do it right. The difficulty of intimate relationships lies in the fact that many people are confused and cannot see the problem of feelings, and only by seeing the core issues clearly and adopting the right way can they have a chance to save their feelings.

Your boyfriend thinks that you reject him, then you can have a good talk with him to figure out why he feels this way, and you should pay attention to some of your behaviors, so as not to cause misunderstanding to your boyfriend, which will not be conducive to the development of the relationship between the two people.

Others are bent on rejecting you.

1. Gather for dinner.

I won't call you. If you are at work, all your colleagues, at the time of the party, at the time of the dinner, they will not ask you to participate; Then it can be said with certainty that if they behave like this, they are intentionally rejecting you; Because they want to unite, the differences treat you as an outsider; Then you will not be able to bear it, and one day, you will be separated; Because when you can't fit in with the team, your coach will feel that you can't be a person; In fact, you have been calculated by other people, and they have set a trap for you, just to make it impossible for you to survive.

Second, I don't let you know what you say and do.

In work, in life, if others are talking, they will always carry your back and speak quietly; They don't want you to know, and they don't want to talk to you. Such an act is a manifestation of rejection of you; Because they want to become alienated from you, let you become a person who has no one to talk to, so that you will not be able to get along with them; When you feel that there is no point in being with them, you can separate them from their surroundings and get out of their circle.

3. If you have something to do, you will have to bother.

If a person is always okay, he will find you trouble, making you so unable and disappointed; Then it is safe to say that this person, his behavior, is rejecting you; In his heart, Tong Hanyuan is uncomfortable looking at you, and he is not pleasing to the eye; Originally, there was no contradiction between you and him, but he would target you; He just doesn't want you to be around him, he doesn't want to see you become a member of his circle; This is actually a behavior that looks down on you and looks down on you; It's an act that doesn't put you in the eyes of old age and doesn't think about your feelings.

Fourth, ignore you and don't associate with you.

A person in life and work is always cold to you, not saying a word to you, not saying a word to you; Then it is safe to say that in this person's heart, it is a behavior that wants to exclude you; Maybe it's your arrival that has brought him pressure, brought some trouble to his work; So in his heart, he will not want to pay attention to you, and he will not want to associate with you; So when I see you, I won't say hello to you; When I saw you, it was like seeing a stranger, cold and ignorant.

Your boyfriend thinks that you reject him, maybe it must be his own inner feeling in his heart, at this time you don't need to rush to reply, but to interrogate your own heart. Do you really hate him, this society wants to be true and sincere. Don't lie to others, if you really hate him, you can be silent.

But if you don't hate him, you can ask him, why do you think I hate you? From what things can be seen, he understands you when you ask him rhetorically. Didn't really hate him.

No matter who we are, we must be honest about our feelings, and cheating on feelings is a manifestation of ignorance, especially feelings for the opposite sex. So I think you should cherish this relationship and be sincere.

Your boyfriend thinks that you reject him, that is, in some aspects you don't accept him, you are too far away from him, when he kisses you, you reject him, and don't want her to accept you, so he will have such thoughts, always feel that you reject him, you can explain to him, just say that you don't, but now you may not be in love for a long time, so you don't want to develop too fast, because you should slowly understand, falling in love does not mean that you have to accept each other all at once, it is to go through a process, It's not that he is rejected, you can explain to him that the journey is chaotic. Tell him what you think of him, in fact, you like him, and you don't reject him, it's what he thinks this way, he likes him, accepts him, you can tell him what you think.

Talk to him, say what you really think, and make him feel that you are not rejecting him.

My dear, if a man is cold to you for a while, it is not necessarily that he is cold to feelings, because they also have "emotional cycles", and during those days, they will become irrational and insulated from you.

At this time, what a wise woman can do is: learn to trust and give space.

Do you know? Men usually like to think alone and solve problems on their own, while women like to ask for help or find someone to vent. So, you're solving a man's problem in the same way that you normally solve a problem, and it might become a burden for him.

Believe me, at this time, please relax first and tell him: dear, I care about you and want to share the joys and sorrows for you, remember that no matter what the problem, I will love you and support you!

When you relax, you will find that the indifferent boat will return to your gentle harbor enthusiastically after cruising for a while!

Rejecting you may not want to make you sad, maybe he still loves you very much in his heart, you can try to communicate with your heart, take your time, although you don't know what your boyfriend is sick about, but generally sick people will have a bad temper, so you have to understand. And "he'll tell me to go to bed again" is obvious, which means that he loves you very much and doesn't want you to be tired. Come on, bless you.

Don't say too much, do it silently.

In this world, there are many ways to care about people, there is verbal care, that is, to care with language all day long, this language includes speaking, text messages, QQ, etc.; There is also a kind of meticulous care, that is, there is a person who takes the trouble to take care of you impeccablely every day from head to toe, inside and out, so that you have nothing to say if you want to find faults. But the first can only give you a certain amount of spiritual comfort, and nothing else can be done, and what about the second? Over time, it feels like you're being watched 24 hours a day and can't even do what you want, and while everyone knows it's well-intentioned, not everyone likes it.

And both of these concerns have a fatal wound, that is, they will not last long. Excessive burning will only turn to ashes faster.

There is one of the best concerns that must be needed by each of us, and that is when someone reaches out a hand, smiles and says to you: no big deal, I believe you can do it.

The best way to help a person is to make him realize that he is no worse than others, to let him live with confidence, and to be there for him when he needs it.

Being there for him when he needs it is more touching than asking for warmth every day or taking care of him. In this society, we are all individuals, and getting too close will only suffocate our lovers, be afraid, and slip away.