How can I get along with them cheerfully? I m sad

Lou Da, hello, after reading your above question, I think you don't really let go of yourself, you yourself have a kind of psychology that you will say the wrong thing, then you will inevitably say badly, and you have to chat to pick up the chat they are interested in, which requires you to first try to listen and integrate into their communication range, that is, don't be in a hurry to talk at the beginning, listen to what they say, you can hear what they are interested in, hobbies, Personality and so on can be inferred from what is being talked about, of course, this is only part of the story, because some people are good at hiding themselves...

Then slowly you have a common topic with them, and you can communicate with them normally.

Don't think it's flattering, I think it's a process of integration, because when you and they are more booked, you can talk about what you are interested in, as we all know, we are very tolerant of acquaintances compared to strangers...

Hehe, the above is just my personal opinion, maybe one-sided, but I hope it will help Lou Da!!

Feel your depression, helplessness, and distress.

You have to learn to regulate venting as well as smiling.

When you don't care so much about what other people think.

Maybe you'll let go of ...... a little

Humans are inherently social animals.

Can't live without friends.

And there is also a magnetism between people.

Nor you can't make everybody.

All like you. But there will always be some of them.

Try to find a few of them.

They will help you open the knot!!

Hope it helps!!

Don't be afraid to talk, don't be afraid to talk about everything, girls talk a lot, they will always talk, and they don't speak foreign languages, don't be afraid to say the wrong thing, what can you do if you say it wrong, at most, everyone laughs, you laugh too, it's nothing, it's good to get everyone closer.

After listening to the lecture "How to manage a life without regrets", you can be happy.

Then be yourself and leave them alone. If you can't do it yourself, how can you be happy as someone else?

1. When you meet your classmates, you will greet them all and talk to the people around you about things that you are interested in.

2. You first find out what you are good at talking about, that is, what you understand better. Refining these things as your own strengths can be displayed at the right opportunity, on the one hand, you can increase your own self-confidence, and on the other hand, classmates or friends can be more willing to communicate with you.

3. Have your own taste, not something too vulgar, but in line with your own identity and be more decent in behavior. Try to use as little swear as possible.

4. Have your own principles and personality, but don't be too strong.

5. Participate in more activities together, and the activity itself is a time to shorten the distance and allow you to communicate and collaborate.

6. The most important thing is to keep a cheerful heart, encourage yourself more, believe in yourself, and do something that makes you feel fulfilled.

7 I hope it can help you, and I hope you can adopt it.

In fact, the key is still in yourself, try to let go of yourself. You always feel that they have opinions about you, so have you ever reflected on yourself? A lot of the time it's your own troubles, free and easy, you don't need to care about other people's opinions, let alone whether they have any opinions about you?

If not, you're really looking for something on your own.

It's simple...

Don't care what people say about you. Do what you love to do...Go your own way and let others do it, I used to be very introverted...

But not anymore ...Sometimes I like to tell bad jokes, others think I'm 2, but my 2 makes everyone happy...Hahahahaha.