I want to ask about the husband and wife, and after a long time, there is nothing to say

As someone who has been married for five years, I feel the same way, but only occasionally, most of them are caused by work or other pressures in one of the parties, and if everyone is happy recently, it will be much more harmonious.

In fact, think about it, it's normal, because marriage and love are different, when you are in love, you think about beautiful things every day, say sweet words, but when you really live, it's more about your family, and many trivial things in life, you may be very tired after you are busy with these, and what you need is rest instead of sweet words, and then the birth of a child will distract love, this is life.

I think that if the family is good, the work is smooth, and the quality of life gradually improves, it is very good, and there will be time to talk sweetly, or it is crazy to say that there is love and bread, because it is impossible in today's society. Be realistic, you will be very happy.

This is because couples have been too normal for a long time, and they will not have the same feeling as before, which is normal. If you want to motivate, you have to rely on yourself, but it's really not easy, it's over, as long as you get along with each other, it's just a long time to find someone, or that's the case.

Belch. Distance produces beauty.

Don't get too close.

In this way, you will slowly lose the common topic, and then when you talk less, you will naturally communicate less, and then you will slowly distance yourself from each other, and finally the relationship will fade.

This kind of love life can't last long.

You have to look for common ground among each other.

Otherwise, this relationship will be in jeopardy. The other person will get bored with the other person and find a new love.

You have to make your relationship more progressive and have a topic, otherwise it is not called love, but wearing the shell of love in a stalemate.

I'm not cursing you. Let's be honest. It's true. Your current feelings are dangerous. It is necessary to save it.

As for how to save it, it varies from person to person.

You who have not yet stepped into marriage, of course, will have more requirements and fantasies about the sweetness of the future, but I think that feelings will be transformed into a kind of family affection after marriage. Love needs to be managed, and if you want it to last longer, you have to constantly inject new elements into it.

Feelings must be kept fresh! You're going to have a snack! But after a long time, the feelings will be lighter... This is also normal.

It's pretty much the same, but if it's boring now, how will it be in the future?

Life is bland, romance is made, how can you be happy if you are not romantic?

Wouldn't it be nice to tell her whatever she likes to hear?

Talk to him more about what he likes to hear.

Husband and wife are inexhaustible **, no words mean that everyone communicates too little, busy with their own careers every day, and has to take care of their wives and children, pay property fees, etc., invisible pressure on his shoulders, the previous happy world of two people has disappeared, in the face of such a situation, as a husband and wife, they should communicate more, tell each other their ideas, and everyone will tide over the difficulties together.

Because time will not only increase feelings, but also accumulate a lot of couples, it is not that couples have no feelings after a long time, but that they have long had problems getting along with each other, and they no longer have the ability to produce feelings, but they are constantly creating problems and constantly consuming the feelings in front of them, so the feelings will slowly decrease, or even disappear.

In fact, every pair of lovers is like this.,Don't think about it so much.。。。 Maybe you used to be too slimy ... It's better to calm down with each other for a while!

Give yourself a little space! Don't always live around him on it! It's going to be fine,。。

Hehe, that's normal. After a long marriage, it will naturally escalate to another place. That kind of can be said to be a state of an old husband and wife.

At that time, there was no newlywed enthusiasm, but it was enveloped by the warmth of another happiness. I don't know what that feeling looks like, but I do know it will. As for what the truth is, comprehend and observe it with your heart!

I didn't think it was like that. Let's talk about topics that interest each other.

No, learn to keep love fresh.

That's for sure. Just because you don't have something to say doesn't mean you don't have love. As long as love is in the heart. The form doesn't matter.

Generally, after about three or four years, especially after having children, everyone will quickly get tired of married life and get tired of each other.

First, we got pregnant not long after we got married, due to malnutrition, and because I don't know how to cook, my husband didn't have time to take care of me, so I could only go to my mother-in-law for a while to change the jujube and go to my mother's house, at that time I felt that I was slowly beginning to estranged from my husband, I told him a lot of Yan Hanci, his mother is not my mother, it is impossible to treat me like my mother, but he doesn't listen, he always says that his parents are very good, how is it, but I arrived at my mother-in-law's house, My mother-in-law plays mahjong every day, she doesn't cook on time, and her father-in-law smokes at home every day, and it's useless to say, and at this time he always says that I'm not sensible, etc., and slowly finds that I don't want to give him ** to say these things.

Second, later I went back to my parents' house, and my mother took care of me, she had a lot of things to do, but she was also doing her best to take care of me, because I was pregnant and vomited too much, my appetite was really not good, and I was very picky, so I could feel the distress of my parents, and then after giving birth, my in-laws did not say to help take care of the confinement, nor did they say to help take care of the child, in short, my confinement was taken care of by my mother, and he felt that his mother's waist was not good, and I had to understand if he couldn't come.

Third, then we couldn't take the baby alone, and it was true that a person would not take care of it, so I took the baby back to my parents' house, and his parents didn't hit one, at first I and he would be a day **, and then slowly I didn't want to pick him up, and I didn't want to talk to him too much, we separated for about ten months After I went back, I felt that the two of them could not be like the feeling when they were in love, at that time we had just been married for three years, and the feeling at that time was that I wanted to return to a person's life.