In order not to hurt the body and not affect Dabao, which two time periods should mothers avoid when

In order not to hurt the body and not affect Dabao, the mother should avoid the two time periods of Dabao's third and seventh years old when she gives birth to a second child, and of course, it is not recommended to continue to have a second child after Dabao is 10 years old.

Before the eldest is three years old or after the eldest becomes an adult, if the mother gives birth to a second child before the eldest is three years old, the energy can not keep up, and there will be more things to worry about.

When the mother gives birth to a second child, she should avoid the time when Dabao can't walk, because Dabao can't walk. It is also very hard for the mother, and she needs to take care of Dabao is still pregnant, so she will not be able to bear it, and there is another time period when the child is in elementary school, because the homework in primary school is very heavy, if the mother gives birth to a second child at this time, Dabao will not have a quiet environment to study.

No. My point is that children should not interfere too much with their parents' decision to have a second child. There are several reasons for this:

1.Childbearing is a basic human right. According to the Constitution, citizens have the natural right to bear children and raise children. By interfering in reproductive decisions, children are depriving parents of their basic human rights.

2.Parents have the ability to support them. If the parents still have the corresponding ability to support and finance**, having a second child will not have a substantial impact on the lives of the existing children, and the reasons for the children to prevent them are not sufficient.

3.Perceptions can be transformed. When parents have a second child, the living environment of the children will inevitably change to a certain extent, but this is not necessarily a negative impact. It can be seen as the addition of a new member of the family, a change of mindset, which can be an opportunity to add a bit of joy to life.

4.Can help in other ways. If the child is really worried that having a second child will increase the burden on the family, they can help them build a chair to reduce the pressure on the parents, instead of asking to stop having children, which can resolve the conflict and achieve a win-win effect.

To sum up, having a second child is an important choice in life, and children should not be overly intervened. Parents should be understood and supported in their financial or life capacity to make decisions. If you're really worried about changes in your home environment, you can find ways to help in other ways.

The best way is to reach a consensus in the conversation, resolve each other's concerns, and achieve a harmonious and win-win outcome.

For example, Fang Zhiheng in "Ode to Joy 4" finally wanted to let go of her heart and go home for the New Year, but when she opened the door, she saw that her mother was pregnant with her second child, and she didn't even have the right to know, so the loneliness was even more acute!

Because whether to have a second child or not is a decision between the parents. As a child, you have no right to interfere. However, considering the complexity of family factors, you can actively communicate on this issue, and both parties can reach an agreement to avoid conflicts.

If you can afford it, then you can give birth to it. Children have no right to interfere with their parents' reproductive rights, and parents are not qualified to ask their children to raise Xiaobao.

Finally, in response to this problem, we need to consider it comprehensively, and emotionally also need parents to communicate with their children in advance. So what do you think? Let's talk!

I don't resolutely no, I am a mother, I think that the process of raising a child has exhausted me physically and mentally, even if you pay a certain amount of childcare subsidies, there is no way to solve the actual problems of the family, and both husband and wife have to go to work and have no time to take care of the children, which is the main problem.

If you want to have a second child, what are the requirements?

1. Economical enough.

has a stable and good economy**, such a family is actually quite suitable for having a second child. Because, parents have enough ability to provide good education and material for the two babies. On the contrary, families with poor economy will become very poor after giving birth to two treasures.

Second, young and good health.

According to scientific studies, the best age for women to have children is 23-30 years old, while the best age for men to have children is between 30 and 35 years old. Therefore, if the age of both parents is still in this range and does not exceed, the chance of conception will still be very large, and at this time, because there is a big treasure, the parents will not be in a hurry when the second treasure arrives.

3. Have time to spend with your baby.

It is said that the most beautiful confession is companionship, for the baby, whether it is Erbao or Dabao, it is very hoped that Shanpin will have parents by his side. If one of the parents has a stable and free job, then you can still consider having Erbao, because it proves that you still have the energy and time to accompany Dabao and Erbao.

On the contrary, if you often work overtime and have no time to accompany Dabao, then how can you have the energy and time to tease Erbao. Not only are the babies tired, but the parents are also tired.

Fourth, the heart is strong.

You must know that it is very hard to bring a baby, especially when you bring two dates, not to mention how hard it is. When the pressure of society and all kinds of trivial things in the family are pressed on the mother, the mother can easily bear it. Therefore, if you want to have a second child, you must first make yourself strong inside!

Lack of concentration: Because the eldest should be the focus of attention in the family before the second child is born, so when the second child is born, the attention of the family will be more focused on the younger child, so the boss is likely to be inattentive because of changes in his heart, and he can't carry out a long time in the face of many things, and is always easily distracted by other things. Grumpy:

After the birth of the second child, it is inevitable to distract some adults, so the eldest may become very sensitive because of the lack of attention from the family, and then he will cry all the time when he encounters something that is not as he wants. They are particularly prone to tantrums, and they will think that parents will be able to pay more attention to themselves when they lose their temper, so mothers should pay attention to taking care of the boss's thoughts. Sociable:

The eldest doesn't know how to communicate with them after the birth of their second child, and then the family spends less time with them, and the time to play with other friends of the same age will also decrease, so their communication skills will gradually decline. In severe cases, it may lead to low self-esteem. Therefore, it is recommended that mothers train the eldest to take care of the second child, so that they can have a sense of pride in their hearts.

When there is a second baby in the original family, the boss may feel that he has a greater responsibility, and he may also feel that the baby is here to share the love of his parents for him, in fact, the impact of the second child on the boss of the original family is mainly due to how the parents guide the boss. If the original family itself is a loving family, and then the boss also cultivates a very responsible brother or sister, then the arrival of the second child will also have a positive impact on the boss, which will make the boss's sense of responsibility stronger, but if the original family itself is unhappy and has a second child, then it will only make the boss feel that his parents want a second baby because they don't like him, so he will have a second child. The most important influence on the boss also depends on the way you live in your family, the atmosphere of your family, and how you teach the boss.

For the sake of the mother's long-term health, when is the latest time to have a second child?

At the latest, before the age of 35. From the perspective of female physical development, 24-30 years old is the first reproductive age. Women at this age have mature ovarian function, high egg quality, easier preparation for pregnancy, healthier children, and better postpartum recovery.

The growth period of a normal woman is around 20 years. As we grow older, at the age of 35, various functions of the body begin to decline, egg quality and fertility decline, and the rate of spontaneous abortion also increases, also known as advanced maternal age. In the last decade of a woman's reproductive life, fertility rates decline rapidly.

It is important to know that people's age has restrictions on fertility, especially for women. After menopause, ovarian function declines, menstruation stops, and the ovaries no longer ovulate. Artificial insemination is unlikely at this time.

But at the same time, it is important to understand that menopause is not caused by anovulation, but by anovulation. The age of menopause for most women is between 45-55 years, but the timing of menopause also varies greatly due to individual differences. Therefore, many obstetricians recommend that from the perspective of maternal and child health, women should not get pregnant ten years before menopause, that is, at the latest at the age of 45.

If you don't have good physical fitness, don't have enough financial means to get professional care, then you should stop thinking about having children at the age of 35. Don't compare yourself to a star.

But some mothers will say that the policy of having a second child before the age of 35 has not yet been introduced, and they can give birth now, but they are already elderly mothers, can they still give birth now? We hear a lot of news that women in their forties have given birth to healthy babies, and that's true. Women in their forties who are in good health and functionally up to standard can have a second child.

But if you are over 45 years old, it is really recommended that you carefully consider whether you want to give birth or not. 24-29 years old is the best period for a woman to get pregnant. Bian Xiao thought in her heart that it would be great if she had her first child between the ages of 24-25 and after a break of 1-3 years, she could have a second child at or before the age of 29!

It is best not to give birth to two disadvantages, and it is better not to overrent and be over 30 years old, because giving birth to a child after 30 is an advanced maternal age, which is not good for the body, so do not exceed 30 years old when giving birth.

It is best not to be more than 35 years old, otherwise you will belong to the advanced maternal age, and it is very dangerous to give birth at this time, and you may lose your life.

It is best not to have a second child over the age of 45, if it is over 45 years old, it is considered an advanced maternal age, and the risk is particularly high.

Do not be more than 35 years old, otherwise it is an advanced maternal age, if the pregnancy is easy and life-threatening, and it is not easy to recover after giving birth.

Do you want to care if the ant is over 37 years old, because after the age of 37, it is an advanced maternal attack, Shenzhen is more dangerous to rent a brother, and the possibility of babies born after that time is higher than that of Down syndrome.

I think it's best to have two children at most, because having too many children will be very messy and troublesome, and life is also very stressful, and every day is very hard, and I really can't stand such a big injury and consumption.

Be cautious around the circle. First of all, when parents feel bad emotions, first be aware of the emotion, and then try to find ways to adjust, such as sharing their feelings with their partners and finding solutions together, if the partner can not provide support, you can practice breathing relaxation, relaxation, or divert attention, such as reading, housework, exercise, etc. When a hedgehog hugs someone, it will definitely prick the other.

Therefore, only after dealing with your bad emotions can you maintain a peaceful mood and get along with your children.

Secondly, parents should understand their children's emotional and psychological changes, changes in children's living habits and learning styles will produce bad emotions, and they should try to accept and empathize with their children's emotions, give the greatest understanding and support, and truly share their emotional and psychological changes with their children. This is a very important point and also lays a solid foundation for a healthy and stable parent-child relationship.

Third, it is important to maintain boundaries and preserve space. Parents do their own work and household chores and do not have to "supervise" their children's every move all the time. Of course, some children's self-discipline may not be so good, when the child cannot manage their own learning, work and rest, the family should "remind", make a plan with the child, and reward and punish if necessary.

Fourth, the goal of raising children is physical and mental health, so in addition to learning, parents can arrange some activities and topics to promote parent-child relationship, so that sharing time becomes loveful, interesting and effective, so if you want to open some, don't be too entangled, each has its own benefits, and you feel happy.

As a mother, I still have some thoughts about having a second child. Dabao is not opposed to us having a second child, on the contrary, he is particularly supportive, which should have a lot to do with the family environment.

Having a second child is a more personal decision, and each family's considerations are different.

If we consider the impact of having a second child on the whole family, we can analyze the following aspects to look at this decision of parents.

First and foremost, we should respect our parents' decisions.

For the choice of parents to have children, the family burden and family happiness should be the main considerations. If the parents are determined to have a second child and the conditions allow, we should understand and support the parents' decision.

Especially in some traditional societies and cultures, the idea of having more children and more blessings is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. In this case, parents want to have more than two children that deserve respect and understanding.

Secondly, we should see the impact of having a second child on the whole family.

Whether it is the decision to have a child or the subsequent education and growth, it requires family planning and joint efforts.

The emergence of a second child not only has an impact on the family economy and organizational management, but also affects the growth environment and family atmosphere of the previous only child.

Therefore, we should plan our families to minimize or avoid these effects as much as possible.

After the most elevated congratulations, we should keep a peaceful mind.

When looking at parents' reproductive decisions, we should adopt a rational and peaceful attitude.

Many people may think that the family conditions are better, and they must have two children to be considered a "perfect family", but this is not necessarily suitable for Yu Gaopai himself, and it is not necessarily the best choice.

On the contrary, if you can't meet the energy and conditions of the second child, don't blindly follow the trend, pursue the so-called "human touch" and family harmony, "scramble and care", but it may have a negative impact on yourself and the whole family.

In short, it is a private choice for parents to have two children. We should respect the parents' decision, but also consider the impact of the second child on the whole family, and maintain a peaceful mind.

Only on the basis of rational and scientific assessment of one's own actual situation and family needs can we make correct family planning decisions and bring more sustainable, healthy and happy development to the family.