Is it appropriate for my father in law to live in my son in law s house all the year round and not l

Updated on society 2024-07-15
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    There is nothing inappropriate, as a child to support and honor the elderly, as a son-in-law, as long as you can eliminate the distinction and treat the elderly as your own parents, you can live together harmoniously for a long time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This is inappropriate. This will cause a lot of trouble for your son-in-law's family. It may lead to unnecessary conflicts within the family.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It stands to reason that there is nothing inappropriate for the father-in-law to live in his son-in-law's house for a few days, but it may be inconvenient to live for a long time, after all, the son-in-law has already started a family and lived independently.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If the father-in-law has only one daughter, it is normal to live in his son-in-law's house all the year round, if he is in good health, it is actually better to live alone, so as to save contradictions, if he has other children, he can't always be at his son-in-law's house.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It is appropriate, this one is the son-in-law's home and the father-in-law's daughter's home, it is normal for children to take care of the elderly, and it is also the responsibility of every child, and the father-in-law cannot be diswelcome because of other excuses.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What's inappropriate, he is also the father of his wife, you should take care of him, and besides, the old man can eat more and live more, he has cultivated a daughter for more than 20 years to be your daughter-in-law, give birth to children, cultivate beds, take care of the old and young, and is it easy to get, the parents are the same, you must be filial to him, care about him, and besides, you are usually very good to him, and he doesn't want to go anywhere else when you are used to it, so I advise you to continue to take care of your father-in-law.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is nothing suitable or inappropriate in this situation, both parties have the obligation to support their parents, he has to live comfortably in your home, which means that you have filial piety to serve, and he is comfortable before he can live for a long time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Absolutely. As your old man, you should honor her and respect her. Retirement is something you should do.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's not good, it's better to live by yourself, and there is always a contradiction in living with young people.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A son-in-law is half a son, which shows that the son-in-law also has the obligation to support the father-in-law. What's more, the law stipulates that children have the obligation to support the elderly, so it is normal for the father-in-law to live in his son-in-law's house all the year round and not leave.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There is no distinction between suitable and unsuitable, only filial piety and unfilial piety. My father-in-law is also your father-in-law, and you also have the obligation and responsibility to support him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not that you can't have a next time, think about it, the kindness at the beginning or can't be erased, now ......It's not good! Since the daughter is married, she is someone else's person, and the father-in-law and mother-in-law should not live in the son-in-law's house for a long time, let alone take care of the related affairs of the son-in-law's house.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If he had the ability to live, he shouldn't have done it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If it's not suitable, you can rent a house.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This situation is uncommon, and the son-in-law can discuss this matter with the partner, but it is the responsibility of the children to support the elderly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If there is a person who needs to be taken care of and there is only this one daughter, there is no way to do it, otherwise you should take turns to take care of or take into account the impact on the girl's family.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    How do you say this? In some places, the father-in-law does live in your own home, but in this part of Hebei, few people in your square live in your house, and most of them are mothers-in-law.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    My family also doesn't want to go back to their own home, it's very inconvenient to live here, and I haven't said anything, and I have discussed it with my daughter-in-law to no effect. I just don't go back to my home.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It can only show that the daughter and son-in-law take good care of it, and the son is not satisfied with the care, so.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It was different according to the situation.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The old people are sensible. It's not that you don't go, it's probably more likely to be your wife's attention. Let's talk to your wife, it's not good for you to talk to your parents-in-law about this yourself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    My father-in-law and mother-in-law lived at my son-in-law's house for eight months a year, ten years in a row, and my parents quarreled with me the next day after they came. My parents haven't been here for ten years, and my father-in-law hasn't asked her to divorce me every year, I'm annoyed, and his girl listens to him, my parents have been here for 20 years, and they come twice each time to stay for five days and go home, my parents came, my wife quarreled with me, my parents were afraid that I would divorce, did anyone know and give me an idea.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The disadvantage is that polarized contradictions are prone to erupt. A father-in-law, if he has only one daughter, there is nothing wrong with living in his son-in-law's house, but he must not be troubled and try not to interfere in the affairs of his son-in-law's family, so as not to cause family conflicts in his son-in-law's family, otherwise he is very likely to be kicked out by his son-in-law.

    An unreasonable person who does things all day long is something that no one will like, especially in the son-in-law's house, as a father-in-law, you must have a correct attitude and understand your position, otherwise the ending will be very embarrassing. China's custom pension is mainly based on sons, especially in families with many children, and sons-in-law feel that their parents-in-law are outsiders and are unwilling to live in their own homes for a long time.

    With the progress of the times, the ideology of raising children to prevent old age is also changing, and daughters and sons-in-law also bear the same obligation to provide for the elderly as sons, especially those who cannot take care of themselves, and children take turns to take care of their parents.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It is very inappropriate to do this, which will affect the relationship between young couples, and will also make the husband and wife estranged, and the relationship will become very bad in life. The son-in-law's life can also become particularly uncomfortable.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's not appropriate, because the father-in-law's behavior will affect the relationship between the husband and wife, making it inconvenient for the two to live.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think it's particularly inappropriate, and it can make the relationship between the husband and wife very poor, and it will put a lot of stress on the son-in-law's life.

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    Hello, I'm a daughter, my father lives in my house and doesn't leave, my husband is already very annoying, I don't know how to communicate with him and ask for help.

    If the father-in-law lives in his daughter's house and does not leave, we can also understand, after all, filial piety to the old man is also a matter of course, and supporting the old man also has this obligation to pat at the pure, the daughter is at **home**, you can be understood to be more tolerant of the old man. If it's not convenient, then Sun can communicate more with the old man, so that he will still understand, and maybe he will leave slowly.

    If your husband is particularly annoyed by your father, then it may be because your father and your husband have some personality incompatibility, mainly depending on the contradictions between them, you can communicate with your father and tell him that even if he goes back, you will often go to see him, and he will not be lonely, so that he may go back to the spring.

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