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1.What will the mother-in-law do if she guards against her daughter-in-law? How to prevent being calculated by my in-laws?
Do things to prevent your daughter-in-law, you have to be smarter, a woman can't be obedient to the old woman, the more oppressed she is, the more obedient she will be! Because in order to better make your family happy, you endure everywhere and swallow everything in your stomach. I don't know if my wife's people will take your patience as your weakness and treat you as a Japanese melon.
Naturally, she is also a very gentle and considerate housewife.
A woman can't be too sensible in her husband's house, and the more sensible she is, the more she will be wronged! Because in order to make the family harmonious, you bear it everywhere, and swallow any grievances yourself. However, the people of the in-laws will regard your forbearance as your weakness, and treat you as a soft persimmon!
2.Of course, there are also very reasonable in-laws, in fact, we found that no in-laws have better family conditions, the better the better. The more bad the conditions, the more demanding the daughter-in-law is, and the conditions are not good, why the conditions are not good, most of them are caused by the comfort of family members!
If you become a good person, you will turn him into a fool, we all know a saying, people are bullied by others, and horses are better ridden by others, so even if you know that the other person is an elder, you have to be patient, but if you talk too much, you also have to express your attitude and don't give others the illusion that they are good bullies, so that this kind of bullying will happen often in the future.
3.Learn to whisper on the pillow, all say that a spoiled woman has the best life, although many married women have been polished into men, but the nature of women still cannot be lost, give your own man and play a woman at the right time, talk about your grievances, so that you can establish a good side in front of your husband, and the old woman and daughter-in-law relationship husband will help you deal with it a little. Although some people will beat their own hearts, they show an atmosphere that they don't care about the mentality, they are tolerant everywhere, and they are tolerant everywhere, which can stop others from hitting their hearts.
If you are stingy, disagreements are likely to escalate to the detriment of family harmony, and the issue of bargaining is not necessarily self-fulfilling.
4.Sincere persuasion. Some people are still more indecisive, and it is impossible to touch other people's marriages according to their inner mentality, but in fact, this can be prevented.
Because many people are afraid of being teased, they themselves will play tricks on others, and this is the Black Forest Law. But convincing others with sincerity can actually improve the problem.
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If the in-laws guard against their daughters-in-law, they will first unconsciously stay away from their daughter-in-law in ordinary life, and will not let their daughter-in-law know their daughter-in-law about their family property status, and in ordinary life; will also ask his son to prevent his daughter-in-law from being dissatisfied, the daughter-in-law holds the financial power at home, if you want to prevent this situation, you should first keep an eye on it and keep your husband firmly in your own hands.
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The mother-in-law guards against the daughter-in-law to manage your economy tightly and not let you have extra money for your mother. If you don't want to be calculated by your in-laws, then you have to control your own economic power, and you must also control your husband's economic power. To stand firm at home, you have to say it.
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Some in-laws are also very strange, before marriage, they do everything possible to coax their daughter-in-law into the door, and after marriage, they treat their daughter-in-law as an outsider, with a 180-degree turn in attitude, and two proper faces.
And as the saying goes, "details see character, small things see people's hearts", whether Huaidong's mother-in-law's family treats you as an outsider, you can see from these two little things. Hypocrisy or hypocrisy, you can't fool people if you tremble at all.
Always behind your back and discussing things with your son.
Some in-laws usually talk and laugh with their daughters-in-law, and they seem to be harmonious, but they never discuss the big and small things in the family with their daughters-in-law.
What's even more strange is that I don't know what kind of psychology they have, they always guard against their daughter-in-law and hide all kinds of things to the death. It is no exaggeration to say that everyone in the in-laws' family knows more than the daughter-in-law.
In this kind of in-law's house, the most common phenomenon is that the original mother-in-law's family is muttering and whispering, and when she sees her daughter-in-law coming, she quickly shuts up tacitly, or talks about other topics.
Otherwise, find a way to separate your daughter-in-law, and then discuss it with your son alone behind your back. As for the final result, if the daughter-in-law needs to contribute money and efforts, people will be informed. Otherwise, you will think that you are irrelevant and there is no need to know.
Alas, being treated like this all day long, even if there are no contradictions, you can hold back contradictions. It will also make those daughters-in-law who originally worked hard to be good to their mother-in-law's family resentful and cold-hearted.
On the contrary, those in-laws who treat their daughters-in-law as family members will be open and honest in everything. If there are any things and problems, they will be directly put on the table.
Between family members, there is no defense when getting along, and there is no scruple when chatting, this is the most comfortable relationship. And only by speaking directly can the estrangement be eliminated, and the days will get better and better.
When you are sick and in trouble, you don't care.
Let's be realistic, only your family wants you to do well in this world. When you are sick and in trouble, only family members will really care about you.
Those in-laws who treat their daughters-in-law as family members are often kind and reasonable. They may have all kinds of small problems, but they are good to their daughters-in-law in their hearts.
When cooking, I take into account my daughter-in-law's tastes and preferences. If the daughter-in-law mentions what she wants to eat, they will buy it home the next day.
Moreover, their goodness often has boundaries and proportions, which will not be offensive, and at the same time will not give people a sense of alienation.
On the contrary, some in-laws, because they have never regarded their daughter-in-law as a family member, so when their daughter-in-law is in the most helpless moment, they can ruthlessly ignore it. Simply more ruthless than neighbors and strangers.
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