Parents can use the contract to regulate their children s mobile phones, what does the contract

Introduction: Many parents think that their children are now at the age of learning and should not do work other than studying, but they should know that children also need to combine work and rest, and allowing children to study for a long time may have some negative effects on their children's psychology. Therefore, in the process of children's learning, you can also let children play with mobile phones to relax their mood, maybe this can also achieve a better learning effect.

Now whether it is an adult or a child, I feel that everyone has a mobile phone, so that you can understand the world can help children learn, after all, many times children need to consult information, now mobile phones are very convenient, after all, it is a network era, but parents always see children playing mobile phones will also be more worried about whether their children will delay their academic performance, then parents can use the contract to regulate children to play mobile phones, today follow up to understand what the contract includes. First of all, parents can work with their children to develop the duration of playing mobile phones, etc., so that children can participate, and can combine life and education, and cultivate the spirit of contract for children, the spirit of contract is equality and trustworthiness, so parents can put this kind of education throughout the child's growth process.

If the child makes these rules by himself, then he must abide by them, and in the process, it will also be very beneficial to cultivate the child's honest and trustworthy nature. And under this type of education, children will consciously abide by the contract. After long-term medication, they will find that the child has accepted and is accustomed to this management method, and they will abide by the contract themselves, which can also cultivate the child's sense of responsibility, and in the future, the child can also be used in the same way to make the child independent, such as what housework can be undertaken.

The child is the main body of development, don't let the child learn too much, let the child also relax appropriately, so that the learning can be more efficient.

First of all, we should standardize children's words and deeds, strictly require children to play with mobile phones, never let children play with mobile phones for a long time, should make it clear to children, and let children have conscious awareness.

Including the things about children playing with mobile phones, the rewards and punishments for children playing with mobile phones, and the content of playing mobile phones, these should be paid attention to.

The time, frequency, content, duration, respect for the agreed reward, and the punishment for violating the agreement.

In the process of children's schooling, parents will be particularly angry once they find that their children like to play with mobile phones, and they also feel that their children will waste their studies by playing with mobile phones. In fact, it can regulate children's mobile phone play, and children should also be able to combine work and rest. I didn't feel like my child was playing with my phone all the time, which was a very scary thing.

To chase parents, we can make an agreement with our children, such as playing with mobile phones for an hour a day, or playing with mobile phones for an hour and a half.

Playing with mobile phonesDuring this time, children can choose what to do, whether it is playing games or watching TV. But after this hour and a half, you must not touch the phone again. If parents hold their mobile phones every day, children will also learn from their parents' behaviors.

Especially when some children are still very young, they especially like to cry. If at this time, parents always habitually give their mobile phones to their children so that their children no longer cry, then when children are exposed to knowledge, they will often think about playing with mobile phones.

Habit formationGood habits are definitely not something that can be formed overnight, and it is also the control that parents usually control their children. It's not that when children are young, parents play with their children's mobile phones and form a habit. Then when the child grows up, parents will require the child not to play with the mobile phone for a minute, which is too much.

Therefore, parents should also consider their own management model, and should also discuss this matter with their children like friends.

We can ask for children's opinions on regulating children's mobile phones, for example, children can control their own time to play mobile phones for an hour and a half every day, but after this time, they are absolutely not allowed to play mobile phones. Then the child is not in the process of playing with the mobile phone, parents can also choose to take the child to the amusement park to play, or take the child to do some fun games, so that the child can gradually forget to play the mobile phone.

The first is to set a particularly strict time plan and time standards, and parents must lead by example, usually do not often hold the mobile phone to play, and then parents can also accompany their children to play games, or accompany their children to read books.

Tell your child that if he behaves very well, he can play with his phone for a while, but there must be a time limit. In this way, the child will become a particularly self-disciplined person.

Make some rules with your child, promise to give him three hours a day to play with his mobile phone, and let him divide the time by himself, so that the child has a contract to standardize.

With the development of society, more and more children can access mobile phones earlier and earlier, and playing with mobile phones will affect children's learning to a certain extent, so parents urgently need a contract to regulate their children's use of mobile phones. If there is a "contract" that regulates the use of a child's mobile phone, then the contract must include how to use the mobile phone, when to use the mobile phone, what to use the mobile phone for, how long to use the mobile phone, and so on. However, in real life, it is difficult to have a contract that regulates the use of mobile phones by children.

In order to prevent children from playing with mobile phones, parents should try not to play in front of their children or play less. And we should do patient and meticulous ideological work for children, and tell children that there are many things to do in a day, and we must distinguish priorities. It is necessary to explain to children the impact of playing mobile phones on children's physical and mental health, as well as some harms to Qingqing and factors that are not conducive to learning.

When the child is young, it is certain that parents should play with mobile phones in moderation, and at least they can't hold a mobile phone all the time in front of their children. When the child is older in junior high school and the child goes home to study, the parents should turn the mobile phone to silent and explain to the child that it is he who is not the parent who is admitted to the university, and the parents cannot replace him when the university is examined, and the child can also accept the advice of his parents, study hard and complete his studies.

For children who don't play with mobile phones, parents should be role models. Personally, I very much agree with this point of view, first of all, the words and deeds of parents directly affect the child's every move, which starts with our family, I have a child in primary school, and the child is excellent in all aspects of learning. Nowadays, the children's learning pressure is indeed very high, and there are more homework in school, and there are various cram schools on weekends, and there are corresponding homework, and there is almost no rest time on weekends.

If you want your child to do homework and have good quality learning, as a parent, you must do it yourself and accompany your child to study and homework together. Personally, the best way for me to educate my children is to accompany them.

Therefore, when the child is learning, parents should not turn on the TV and play with the mobile phone at this time, because once you turn on the sound to play with the mobile phone, the child's attention will be attracted, the concentration is not enough, and the completion of homework is not high, which greatly reduces the efficiency and effect of learning. At the end of the day, the best contract is for parents to regulate their use of mobile phones.

First of all, it is necessary to strictly stipulate the time for children to play with mobile phones, and must cultivate children's sense of integrity, and when the time is up, children should be allowed to give their mobile phones to their parents, and at the same time, they can not delay, and they can get corresponding rewards after abiding by the permissions, such as snacks or toys.

Including the length of time to play with the mobile phone, the rules of playing the mobile phone, and the necessary conditions for playing the mobile phone, for example, you can only play for 5 minutes a day on the mobile phone, and you must play after completing your homework.

These contracts include the content, the first point is that the child can only play with the mobile phone after completing a homework, the second point is that the child can play the mobile phone only if he helps his parents do something, the third point can not play with the mobile phone for more than half an hour, the fourth point is to take the initiative to learn after playing the mobile phone, the fifth point is to play some healthy content when playing the mobile phone, and the sixth point is not to follow these agreements, then the time for playing the mobile phone will be shortened, from the original half an hour to 10 minutes.

A written agreement established through negotiation between parents and children, which is different from the verbal commitment contract is all on paper, the contract on paper is actually easier for both parents and children to have a sense of responsibility and self-restraint, and at the same time, in the process of communication and debate in the development of parent-child contracts, parents and children can also enhance mutual understanding and work hard to achieve the same goal, which is not experienced in other ways.

Introduction: If children have bad habits when they are young, parents must stop and educate their children in time, parents educate children, do not beat and scold children, communicate with children patiently, and preach with children patiently, so that children will listen to their parents. Parents should not always play with their mobile phones in front of their children, but should set a good example for their children.

Today, I will tell you about what parents can use to regulate their children's mobile phone playing.

If parents want their children to quit mobile phones, the first thing to do is to set a good example for their children, telling them that they can't hold a mobile phone all day long, and that they should focus on learning. If parents always play with mobile phones in front of their children, children will not be able to control themselves and think that their parents are not doing a good job of not playing mobile phones and they will not listen, parents' words, parents should set a good example for their children, so that children will imitate their parents' willingness. If your child often plays with his mobile phone when he is young, he will delay his schooling.

It is impossible for parents to stop their children from playing with their mobile phones, what parents need to do is to help their children make a plan to let their children play with mobile phones at an effective time. The Internet era is very developed, parents should let their children have proper contact with the Internet, can not play for too long, children's homework is more, but also busy with various cram schools, parents want their children to have a good study, must supervise children's behavior and habits. If children's behavior habits are not supervised by parents, they will become more and more lazy and unwilling to learn.

If parents want to use the contract to regulate their children's mobile phone play, the first thing to do is to establish friendly rules with their children, and tell their children that they can no longer play with mobile phones during the learning period, and they must study patiently. Parents should supervise their children next to them and regulate their writing habits. If parents find that their children have bad behaviors, they must let their children correct them, and parents should communicate with their children in a gentle tone, so that children will become better and better.

Be sure to strictly control the time when children play games, if the child puts down the mobile phone within the specified time, parents can give some rewards at this time, you can give your child snacks, you can take your child to play outside.

First of all, you should make it clear to your child in advance, you should establish a sense of rules for your child, strictly require your child to play with your mobile phone, and you must strengthen your child's management and improve your child's consciousness.

How long you can play with your phone, when you can play, how long you can play, what projects you can play, and what you have to complete before you can play.

What is included is the time to play the mobile phone, the number of times you play the mobile phone, under what conditions you can play the mobile phone, the distance you can play the mobile phone, and the standards you want to achieve by playing the mobile phone.

With the development of society, basically everyone is inseparable from mobile phones, life, work, and even payment are paid by mobile phones, mobile phones occupy a huge proportion of our lives, even children. Now many babies who are just over a year old can operate their mobile phones proficiently, watching them "sophisticated" sliding the cartoons they are interested in, simply sighing that this era is developing too fast, and human cubs are also evolving too fast!

However, children playing with mobile phones from an early age are not only bad for their health, but also cause many problems, and the earlier they are exposed, the more negative it will be. Not only does it cause damage to children's eyesight, but it will also develop many bad habits, such as passively receiving knowledge, unwilling to study hard, addicted to mobile phones, irregular life and rest, and not interested in anything other than playing with mobile phones and tablets. How to solve these problems, in fact, we can make a "contract" to bind children and slowly get rid of mobile phones.

1. Implement a system of rewards and punishments, and stipulate specific rules in the contract

In the contract, we need to write down when we can use the phone, what we will use it for, and how long we will use it. Implement a reward and punishment system, if you do what is required in the contract, you can reward the child to go out to the garden once, or buy a long-desired toy. On the contrary, if you violate the rules, you will be punished accordingly, such as not being able to look at your phone next week, or punishing you for cleaning your home.

2. The contract is written into the agreement between the parents and themselves

Children are the best teachers for parents, children are not born to love to play with mobile phones, they must be interested in seeing their parents or family members having fun playing with mobile phones. Some parents feel that their children are noisy and don't want to take care of their children by themselves, so they throw their children a mobile phone or tablet, so that the children can watch cartoons obediently, and they can use their mobile phones or do other things.

These bad habits learned from parents make children think that both parents are playing with mobile phones, and of course they can play with it. If the child is not playing, but the parents are playing hard, the child will feel very unfair. Therefore, parents should also set their own time to play with their mobile phones, do not play with their mobile phones in front of their children, take their children to read more, and start from their own norms to be a good example for their children!