What are some examples of self deception in life?

My parents always don't let me eat fried food, especially instant noodles, but I am too lazy to cook in a rented room by myself, so every time I eat instant noodles, I must add vegetables and eggs, and I feel very healthy. There is also a decision to buy clothes**, and when it comes to eating, I say that it is okay to take a bite. As soon as he quarreled, he made up his mind to break up and forget him, reconciled but lied to himself that he would change.

Falling in love with someone who doesn't love you, making a friend who says bad things about you behind your back, etc. In general, it is good to people who are not good to themselves, you know that he doesn't like you, and even hates you and sticks to it.

When I was a child, my family was very poor, I was addicted to playing games, so I stole money from my family a few times, and the teacher secretly ran out to surf the Internet.

As adults, we always deceive ourselves, we always feel that we have worked very hard, but we still spend a lot of time playing with things and wasting time.

When I drink, I am very good at deceiving myself, every time I slap my swollen face and become fat, I can't drink at all, but I pretend that I can do it, and I am the one who suffers.

I remember that when I was preparing for the graduate school entrance examination, I did go out early and return late every day, and I felt that I worked very hard, but in fact, I was playing with my mobile phone after I went to the classroom, which was self-deception.

I always believed that I would have everything, that he had a good reputation, that something would be okay, and so on. Now that I've seen through it, I really can't believe a lot of things.

When I go out to eat hot pot with my friends, I will buy several cans of Jia Duo Bao herbal tea, and then I will rest assured that there is fried crispy pork at the bottom of the spicy hot pot and tell myself that I will not get hot.

I think I'm a living example, obviously not serious about studying, and always self-comforting myself to do my best, only to find a mess after getting in and out of the grades.

It may be funny to say that I didn't eat chicken cutlets in order to deceive my body, and every time I ate chicken cutlets, my eyes looked up to the ceiling, which was similar to covering my ears and stealing bells.

This reminds me of the years when I was **, every time I finished running, I would always say that I must restrain myself and not eat more, but every time I can't control myself, every time I deceive myself, it's okay to eat more than this bite.

The menstrual period is very important to pay attention to, you can't eat cold and can't exercise greatly, and once again I really wanted to eat ice cream, so I bought a red date-flavored ice cream.

No one likes to lie. When we lie, it hurts us very deeply. In the face of lies, we instinctively feel betrayed and violated.

But the truth is that we deceive ourselves every day, lies that keep us away from the life we expect and prevent us from succeeding.

Here are some of the lies that each of us will use to deceive ourselves.

1. I am my past victim.

We regret it every day, we feel that our past actions, our past choices, led to today's misfortune or tragedy. But you are not a victim of your past, you are a victim of your present behavior, but the reason is your past. Of course, your past actions define what kind of person you are.

Remember: dwelling on the past takes you away from the present.

2. No one understands me.

That's what most of the world's people think. In a way, you're not alone in this idea. Stop being like people don't agree with you because they don't understand your ideas.

Remember: it's normal to have different opinions, and sometimes listening to other people's different opinions will help you understand yourself better.

3. Money has nothing to do with me.

Don't start out with the tragic fate of the kind. Money can't be your main pursuit. However, it is also not possible to abandon it completely. As long as you have dreams, you should go for them.

Remember: start small and let your dreams grow bigger and better.

4. If I have a ......When you reach your goal, happiness doesn't follow. The joy and satisfaction you feel is temporary and can dissipate at any moment.

Remember: when you don't set goals for yourself, the happiness you feel is the real happiness.

5. Let's do this later......

This is probably the most self-defeating lie. The crux of the matter is that we never know how much time we have. You may wake up one morning and find that you don't have time to do what you've always wanted to do.

No one knows what the future holds.

Remember: if you're waiting for the perfect moment when everything settles down, that moment may never come.

The most typical case in China: covering ears and stealing bells.

A well-known international case: On the eve of Germany's sneak attack on the Soviet Union in World War II, Stalin received accurate offensive information, but Stalin did not want to believe that Germany would attack and did not give the correct order in time. The Soviet Union was beaten badly.

I would say that most of the deception begins with propaganda or cultural manipulation by the super-rich in order to maintain power and maximize profits.

Google Edward Bernays. Advocacy, strategic communications, academic compliance, and television "programming" are not imaginary concepts; They are the fundamental reality of our world.

However, the most effective cultural manipulation may begin with the manipulation from above outside the culture); But then self-perpetuating through collective action, a dynamic that can be called "collective self-deception".

Once the ball starts rolling, almost all cultural values and opinions are self-perpetuating.

Richard Dawkins coined the term "meme" in his book The Selfish Gene and described it as a self-perpetuating idea that spreads through society in a culture. While I don't appreciate his radical brand of atheism, Soqing, I think he's right about memes.

The ideas that are spread may or may not be true. It spreads in a sort of self-conscious way because most people tend to embrace popular ideas without checking "just because everyone is doing it".

Thus, the infusion of lies into culture (through propaganda, strategic communication, academic compliance, and television "programs") is a case of hijacking the process of socialization (cultural communication).

So, any cultural values and opinions that turn out to be false meet your criteria, and there are many:

Some people ("criminals", men, *, etc.) are non-humans.

Fiat banking is for our own benefit.

Trustworthy. Volkswagen ** is real.

Truth and rights do not exist.

Everything is subjective.

Polar extremism (chasing the light) is a virtue.

Science and spirituality are irreconcilable.

My political faction has all the answers.

Divorce does not harm children.

Equality means sameness.

And so on....Collective self-deception also occurs when a large number of people are disgusted with the truth for any reason, such as cognitive dissonance, fear of the unknown, or being overwhelmed. Once a particular culture is immersed in deceptive propaganda, it's common for people (I think 60 to 80 percent of the population at the moment) to develop these habits of aversion to the truth because of the acknowledgment that we have built our lives around orchestrated lies.

Hermes listened to the statuer's words, his angry head was going to **, he thought for a while, and suddenly came up with a good idea, so he asked with a smile: "If I give you three silver dollars to buy the statue of Hermes, will you give me those two as an additive?" ”

When the statue owner heard this, he really couldn't believe his ears, and then he thought that he might have met the stupidest fool in the world, so he said, "Okay, okay, as long as you pay three silver dollars to buy two statues, it is not the same thing who will add to the head." ”

Hermes said solemnly, "No." I want you to tell me: the statue of Hermes is worth three silver dollars, and the statues of Zeus and Hera are the additions. ”

The statue holder was stunned for a moment, and said, "According to you, the statue of Hermes is the most expensive, and it is worth three silver dollars." If you pay him three silver dollars, and take the other two if you want, I will not take a penny; If you don't want to laugh at him, I'll throw him away. ”

So Hermes happily bought his statue for three silver dollars, and returned to heaven satisfied. The statue holder was also very happy, he looked at the silver dollar in his hand happily, and said to himself: "I really can't imagine that there is such a stupid fool in the world!"

He looked at the statues of Zeus and Hera and said, "These two can be sold for two silver dollars." ”

This story is for those who think they are clever and who are self-deceived.

22. What are the manifestations of self-deception? (d)

a Conspiracy, lying.

b Scheming, bragging.

c Bragging, making excuses.

d Lying and bragging.

I know that what people say is biased towards myself! Stubborn! Stubborn!

22. What are the manifestations of self-deception? (points).

a Conspiracy, lying.

b Scheming, bragging.

c Bragging, making excuses.

d Lie, brag and choose d

Self-righteous, not admitting a fait accompli, not recognizing correct logic.