One sentence forced Xiao S to cry, how terrible is the self deceptive marriage?

It can be said that the life of two people is not pleasant. And this will make your heart backlogged, and a lot of unhappiness will cause inner and physical discomfort.

Such a marriage can ruin two people, one party is wishful thinking, blindly pleasing the other, and finally finds that he has lost the marriage, and being with him is just perfunctory.

Self-deceptive marriages are always paid by one person, and they find various reasons for each other in their hearts, and they are pierced by reality again and again. It's psychological torture.

You can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep, and this sentence describes self-deception best. I know that I am not happy and I have to pretend to be happy in front of many people, I am really tired.

Self-deceptive marriage really requires a particularly high level of patience, and you have to constantly comfort yourself, such a marriage is too terrible, you can't feel the warmth, and you have to keep telling yourself that it will get better in the future!

1. If married life reaches a very bad point, letting go is liberation, and people always have to live for themselves

2. In fact, the best way to love a child is not to give him a complete family, but that both parents can be happy

Mothers in the world should be soft-hearted! They can endure it again and again for the sake of their children, and see how great a mother's love is. But I still hope that female friends can be braver and make their lives happier, for the sake of their children and for themselves.

Xiao S was injured in this marriage and was doomed. Because she has paid too much, it may be that Xu Yajun meets all her fantasies about her marriage partner, she is highly educated, has a temperament, and is sure that she has a lot of money. That's why Xiao S will fight hard, moths to the fire!

But her husband Xu Yajun is not a fuel-efficient lamp, since Xiao S knew him, he has been hanging out in nightclubs, I don't know how many times this matter has been photographed by **, but Xu Yajun just doesn't change, what's even more strange is that Xiao S always acts as a firefighter and rushes to the front line.

There are not a few similar marriages, because they don't want to leave, they don't dare to leave, they are reluctant to leave, maybe they still have illusions about him, or they are reluctant to give up on their children and family, because they feel that even if they leave, the next one will not necessarily be better, they dare not try, they can only cry silently.

What I want to say is that since I have chosen her, even if I can't give her a good life, please be kind to everyone who has shed tears for you.

Women who are unwilling to get out of a bad marriage, in fact, the main idea is that they already have children and don't want their children to be hurt in any way, so they just don't want to get out of a bad marriage.

Maybe these women want to maintain their marriage for the sake of their children, and they don't want to divorce themselves.

In fact, those women who are reluctant to get out of a bad marriage want their children to have a complete family, and they are completely for the sake of their children, and such women are actually greater.

First of all, women will encounter some special questions when looking for a job, such as when you are ready to get married, when you are ready to have children, these questions involve our privacy, which is indeed a very serious problem, but men do not have such troubles, this is a discriminatory treatment of women in the workplace, and this phenomenon is very common, there are such questions in many enterprises, which I believe that the country will introduce policies in the future.

Not long ago, a woman became pregnant and gave birth, which involved a series of disputes, and even the company resigned from female employees, and also asked for compensation, which is very unfair to female employees, which is also an example of discrimination against women.

Now there is also a kind of discrimination, that is, some jobs do not choose women to participate, such as some jobs that often need to go to other places, women are not required to participate, even if it is not stated when recruiting, but when you apply, you will always be rejected, which is also a very common discriminatory incident!

is not humble, marriage is her own choice, some people choose to endure, some people choose to resist.

Xiao S revealed that she responded to the rumors of domestic violence, I think her marriage is humble, since there is domestic violence, why should I endure it, I have the ability to rely on myself, and I have to succumb to such a life.

This is not easy to say, for other people's affairs, we are not very easy to meddle, from the published **, I can see that he is often subjected to domestic violence, but the published circle of friends said no, it is really chaotic, I think he should be very humble.

Due to the different personalities of the two sisters, as well as the different husbands who marry on the bench, their attitudes towards marriage are also different, and their roles in love rejuvenation are also different, so their marriages are very different.

Because sisters have a much worse vision of men, their needs for love are different, and the types of men they like are also different.

Everyone's personality is different, fate is different, the other half they meet is not the same, and the people they attract are different, so there will be a big gap.

Xiao S has been injured many times in her marriage and has been rumored to be domestic violence, but she still frequently shows her affection and looks very humble, and the other is that she has given birth to three children, all of whom are daughters, and anyone with a discerning eye can see that she wants to chase a son, and obviously she is also under great pressure from her in-laws.

Because she has been subjected to domestic violence many times after she got married, everyone knows that domestic violence is extremely harmful to women, not only physically but also psychologically. That's why Xiao S said that getting married is really scary.

When Xiao S was pregnant, her husband was photographed visiting a nightclub. She knows everything, but she still chooses to turn a blind eye for some reason and continue to create this illusion of family happiness.

At Xiao S's 39th birthday party, Mike was missing, and when the excitement dissipated, she sat on the edge of the bed alone and cried on Weibo: "I know marriage is difficult, but I hope you will survive to the end." ”

Xiao S had a marriage before, and in this marriage, she was particularly blind and married her husband at the time, and then it was rumored that she was subjected to domestic violence, so she felt that it was terrible to get married if she didn't think about it clearly.

This is because in the child's married life, her mother-in-law has always hoped that she can have a child, but Xiao S is unwilling, and the relationship between her and her husband is average.

Because children are often photographed arguing with their husbands, even the husband did not send blessings on his wife's birthday.

I think so. Xiao S persuaded others not to marry at will, it should be sincere, but she has a very low status in her own marriage, and she has no confidence in the workplace at all, although I don't know if she is really happy, but we as outsiders are actually not qualified to judge other people's marriages.

I don't think it's hard mouthed, she has been married to her husband for many years, and she has been very happy after marriage, because she is a person who has come over, so she will advise those who have not achieved success not to marry at will, because then there will be no freedom.

I think it's a hard mouth, otherwise she wouldn't have said anything to persuade people not to marry at will, and no one would say a word for no reason, so I feel like she's hard-mouthed.

No. Because these news are not true, and they are just rumors, I hope people don't spread rumors, and now Xiao S is living a very happy life.

It's not that he has a hard mouth, but Xiao S said such a thing, which shows that Xiao S is really happy and doesn't have any feeling of hard mouth.

Probably not. Her family is still quite happy, and so many children are also with her, she is a very straightforward person.

It should be, because the news about her husband's domestic violence against her is not once or twice, and she regrets persuading others not to get married easily, but she doesn't want to say it.

No, Xiao S is very happy after getting married, and her husband is also very good to her, and her life is also very nourishing.

must be hard-mouthed, and it is also to prevent others from seeing the joke, so he will keep insisting on not getting a divorce.

Personally, I feel that I have a hard mouth, and I am also afraid of being influenced by the outside world, and I am afraid that I will be subject to some bad remarks, so I will find an excuse to deny it.

It's not because of a hard mouth, maybe there is some tiredness and unpleasantness in life, but there should be no domestic violence.

In fact, I think Xiao S advises others not to marry at will, because after getting married, he will have less time. You have to take care of your family and can't focus on your career.

I don't think so, because the relationship between Xiao S and Wang Xiaofei is very good, and the relationship is very affectionate in private, let's not speculate.

I think Xiao S is still relatively happy and has a status in the family, so don't speculate too much, and don't point fingers at other people's marriage problems.

At that time, her mouth was hard, after all, when she was abused by her husband, everyone knew about it.