The Relationship between Family and Character 50, The Relationship between Family and Character

What can't you say to your parents, can they still kill you, the closest person in the world touches your parents. As long as you hate them, the reason is not because of family conditions, but because of your psychology, you need to communicate, communication can resolve everything, the longer you don't communicate, the more contradictory it is, is it a bad thing to get up early? Is it good or malicious to lie to you?

There is chaos at home, and you, as a girl, should pick up the housework. What kind of atmosphere is suitable for learning, and how many celebrities have become successful in a comfortable environment? You can communicate with your mother about your parents' private life, it's all women who have something bad to say, you remember, at the critical moment, the first to rush to the front is your parents.

You don't want to ruin yourself like this, which means that you can still be saved, but I think it's better to open your heart and say what is in your heart, which can be your best friend or someone you don't know, of course, you can also tell them about your dissatisfaction with your parents, you must say calmly, that is, communicate with each other.

Sometimes, people need others to understand themselves, and if you close yourself off, you will really get autism, which will be even more difficult.

1.Physical, mental, moral and cultural qualities of family members.

The physical, mental, moral and cultural qualities of a family member will undoubtedly have an impact on the relationship between family members. For example, if a member of the family has a physical defect, this may cause him or her to have a certain psychological burden, and at the same time, other members of the family must spend a certain amount of time taking care of her, some may be happy to take care of her, and some members may not. Family members with high moral and cultural qualities may be better at dealing with conflicts between family members, while lower moral and cultural qualities may affect the resolution of conflicts between family members.

2.Location distance between family members.

If family members are far away from each other, they will inevitably have difficulties in communication and communication, which will reduce the frequency and frequency of contact and alienate the relationship between family members. However, family members are too close to each other, and too frequent contact will also lead to a lot of conflicts and disputes. It has been suggested that family members should have an appropriate frequency of contact with each other and maintain a certain geographical distance in order to keep the family relationship in the best condition.

3.The external social environment, including socio-economic, political conditions and morals.

Different modes of production will have different family relationships, and the ethics and customs of different societies will also have different impacts on family relations. In the case of the two adjacent generations, not only the previous generation has to raise and educate the next generation, but the next generation also has to support the previous generation, and the relationship between the two generations presents the following "feedback" model.

The influencing factor of the family relationship is the husband, and if the husband plays a good bond in it, the family will be very harmonious. If the husband doesn't know how to deal with family problems and blindly avoids them, it will only make family conflicts deeper and deeper! If the husband blindly favoritism, it will also make family conflicts erupt!

The influencing factor of family relationship is the attitude of the husband at home, if the husband is tolerant at home, it is also important, and one is that the relationship between husband and wife is more important to understand and respect each other.

The influencing factors of family relationship are mainly the communication and understanding of husband and wife, who run a family together.

Disharmony between husband and wife, and parental care of calves are all influencing factors.

It has a lot to do with genetics and family relationships.

Yes, the family factor is important. The first is genetics, and then there is the surrounding environment.

Yes, to a large extent.

Depends on the environmental impact of the home.

This is very important.

The relationship between people's character and family is particularly important, after the child is born, he will grow up in this family, and what kind of character she (he) will have depends on what kind of family he (she) will grow up in. A child's personality qualities will greatly affect the development of her future career. As the saying goes, the country is easy to change, and Ben Zheng Hong's character is difficult to change, which is the personality quality formed since childhood.

A good family environment can make children cheerful, generous and decent, and unrestrained. Chamo.

There are a lot of people like this, there is a friend whose husband and wife have too many different personalities, and there are too many differences in many things, and most of the time the two people will quarrel because of some trivial things, and they don't take into account the children, and they quarrel and fight in front of the children, and over time, the children's personalities have become very irritable, impatient with friends, and have a very poor attitude towards their families, and they start to quarrel after a few words. This is the negative impact of an unharmonious family environment on a child's development. In the child's heart, he does not have the concept of happiness, his inner world only quarrels, he does not know what a harmonious family environment looks like.

And his inner world is special shouting and distorted, special selfishness, if I'm not happy, you don't want to be happy, I must get what I want, no matter what method is used, I won't get along with friends amicably, it's really a headache. Isn't this ruining the child's life?

On the contrary, another family, their family is harmonious every day, there is talk and laughter, the family is like friends, children encounter problems, will use the best way to solve them, or ask parents to solve them together, so that the relationship between children and parents is getting better and deeper. Every time you see someone, you will be called in a sweet voice, which makes your psychology feel particularly sweet and beautiful. The child's face shows a sweet smile every day, giving people a special feeling of happiness.

These are two very different personalities that are cultivated in two family environments. It is said that the relationship between character and family is important, they are inseparable, and the family determines the child's life.

There is an old Chinese saying that "three years old is bigger", and a child's character is formed at about the age of five.

The family is the basic group and basic unit of society.

The family is the first place where children receive education. In a sense, a child's earliest teacher is the parents, the first enlightenment education teacher, and the parents' every move, word and deed has a subtle and imperceptible impact on the child. Many habits, many personalities, and many qualities of a child are learned from their parents.

Many parents do not have a deep understanding of this, some parents are one set in educating their children, and another set in their own behavior, inconsistent words and deeds, inconsistent appearances and inconsistencies, and bring the "personality mask" learned in society to their children's education, which will affect the cultivation of children's good character.

Studies have shown that the parenting style of different families can lead to different personalities in children.

1. If parents take too much care of their children, do not let go of their children to move independently, and are afraid that their children will encounter danger or be bullied by children, children will become timid, dependent, lack of assertiveness, indecisiveness, isolation, and difficulty in adapting to collective life.

2. If parents are too doting and pampered to their children, children will be raised to be willful, coquettish, proud, presumptuous, good or bad, impolite, and neurotic.

Self-centered, lacking in sense of responsibility and patience.

3. If parents are indifferent and indifferent to their children, children are more willing to seek love and care from others, and try their best to attract the attention of others.

4. When parents discipline their children too harshly and roughly, this kind of family education will make children develop the character traits of boldness, weakness, inferiority or rudeness, resistance, dishonesty, and lying in order to protect themselves.

5. If the parents' attitude towards their children is hot and cold, capricious, children often show emotional instability, suspiciousness, lack of assertiveness or judgment.

6. If parents have an unfair attitude towards multiple children, it is often the cause of the formation of children's jealous and unbridled psychological personality.

The above list shows that because different education methods may directly lead to the formation of children's personality, it also shows that personality and family are related.

The stakes are great. The relationship is very large, a person's original family is very important, born in a harmonious family Doutong, children are living in an atmosphere of love based hunger, most of the characters are relatively peaceful and cheerful. Most children born in conflicted families are more introverted, unconfident and suspicious.

Parents are very important to the guidance of their children, and a happy person will continue to pass on her happiness!

Psychological research has long proved that early life experiences, especially the family of origin, play a vital role in an individual's personality, which will have a long-term and far-reaching impact on an individual's life, and even determine an individual's lifelong happiness.

There are generally two manifestations of the character of the original family to people: the same and the opposite. For example, if the parents are reticent people, the children either speak very little or are particularly good at verbal expression. Parents have a strong tendency to be violent, and their children are either more violent or cowardly and incompetent.

These influences are deeply rooted in the subconscious, and sometimes they are not directly revealed, and only in exceptional circumstances are exposed.

With this in mind, we can analyze the reasons for our own and others' personalities.

A child's personality is formed by a combination of genetics and environment. The family environment is one of the most important environments in a child's development, and the child's personality is closely related to the family. Specifically, the following aspects can affect a child's personality:

1.The personality and behavior of the parents. A parent's personality and behavior style can directly affect a child's personality.

If parents are extroverted, cheerful, and optimistic, children are also prone to form a positive, optimistic and cheerful personality; If the parents are introverted, nervous, and negative, the child is also prone to form a negative and depressed personality.

2.Family atmosphere. The family atmosphere can also have an impact on the child's personality. If the family atmosphere is harmonious and warm, children are easy to form a confident and cheerful personality; If the family atmosphere is tense and cold, the child is prone to develop a timid and negative personality.

3.Parenting style. The parent's parenting style also affects the child's personality.

If parents adopt a gentle and respectful education style, children are easy to form an independent and independent character; If parents adopt harsh and punitive parenting methods, children are prone to develop a timid and submissive character.

To sum up, the child's personality is inseparable from the relationship between the family. The family environment and parents' education style have a profound impact on a child's personality, so parents should pay attention to creating a harmonious family atmosphere, adopt a gentle and respectful education style, and guide their children to form a positive, confident and independent character.