One boy liked me and told me that I had a more tactful refusal

Updated on psychology 2024-07-12
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    What's there??? Since you reject him, to a certain extent, it means that you are not very satisfied with him If you are not satisfied, even if you reluctantly agree to have a relationship with him, you will bully him intentionally or unintentionally and quarrel!!

    That breakup may make the relationship stiff!! You're just playing vanity right now!!

    If he can't catch up with you, he chooses someone else, which shows that his feelings for you are not very sincere!!

    Rather than be so false, we don't!! No Hope !! Ho ho.

    And if you get along with him, and he wants to kiss you or whatever, you give your precious kiss to someone who doesn't like it very much, and you will regret it when you meet someone who really loves you in the future!!

    Give everything you have to your future husband as much as possible!! Then he will be very impressed!! Love you more!! And even thank you for your loyalty!! Ho ho that's what I thought, although a bit conservative!!

    We can't lose the opportunity to own a towering tree for the sake of a small grass that is not tightened!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Give up, the boy won't eat back grass, unless he's trying to get revenge on you! After that, I'll dump you again! Since he has found someone else, it can only mean that he doesn't love you! Love is meant to stand the test of time!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Typical"It's a pity to discard it. "It will be fine in a few days.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I've felt this way too.

    It's pure vanity.

    What I was able to get in the past must be unhappy that it belongs to someone else now.

    Don't worry, you won't like him anymore.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Women are vanity, the more boys are around them, the more they want to grab them, and if the boys only surround her, they don't take it seriously.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't have a chance, give up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Why does a girl always like others who like her and don't like that person and that person who likes her forever, just because of a little vanity can you play with people like this, do you know that the man who was played by you is very sad.

    I hate this kind of person.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Women are like that.

    Even if you don't want to.

    I also want that man to revolve around you all day long.

    Vanity is at work.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Do you believe that he will really like you?

    In fact, he just likes girls, not just you......

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    So how cool are you looking? Just do it!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Maybe the boy has died and silently put this love in his heart.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think it can be seen that this boy is very unserious about his feelings, he will only have a playful mentality, so when we meet this kind of boy, we must break up with each other.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It should be that the boy wants to save face, so when he was rejected, he never spoke again.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Personally, I think that if a boy is rejected and then ignores me, then it means that the boy must be very sad.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Be honest and tactful about your thoughts: You can tell him that you appreciate his affection for you, but you don't want him to have false expectations because you don't feel the same way about him.

    Respect his feelings: Dong Yu Zheng Although you can't respond to his feelings, you can let him know that you respect his courage and feelings for you, so that he will feel that you value his feelings very much, even if you don't want to be with him.

    Avoid hurting his self-esteem: Your tone and wording are very important. You can choose to use some euphemistic language to express your rejection and avoid expressing your opinion in overly direct or offensive language.

    Don't give him the wrong signals: If you don't like him, don't give him the wrong signals or mislead him, it will only make him more sad and disappointed.

    In short, you need to be honest, respectful, gentle and not hurt his self-esteem when rejecting a boy's confession. It takes some courage and social skills, but as long as you think hard, you can definitely find the most appropriate way to express your thoughts.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Say, it's good that you don't love me

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If it is not suitable, politely refuse, and then thank the other person for liking.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    A relationship develops from strange to familiar, never loving to love. Sometimes, when a man is interested in a woman, he uses a lot of words to imply. When a man likes someone, he wants the other person to like him.

    If the other party has no intention of showing a little affection for himself, then the man may not dare to confess rashly, the man is afraid of rejection, and the two of them can't even be friends.

    Therefore, women should not be hindsighted, and must carefully observe their own experiences. When a guy hints that he is interested in you, if you happen to like him, then interact with him and make him feel that you care about him, so that the two can develop into a couple. If you don't like him, say no.

    After all, it's not good to worry about others.

    If a man is interested in a woman, he must consider dating her instead of going to a party, because a group of people together simply does not have the opportunity to cultivate affection. When two people are alone, they can increase their relationship. When a man likes a woman and is afraid to disturb her, he will ask the woman "Are you free on the weekend?"

    He cautiously asked a woman, afraid of rejection. Men are willing to save time for women, and they also want women to save time, so that two people can get along better.

    Yes, if a man likes someone, he must be proactive. When a man doesn't like women and has no interest in women, then he is idle and time will not be given to women. Even if a woman takes the initiative, the man will find various reasons to refuse.

    Between the opposite sex, if a man often asks "Are you free on the weekend?" "He wants to ask you out. You said that you don't have time, and when you have a plan, he won't pester you anymore, but he is a little lost in his heart.

    If you agree to him, even if the man doesn't say anything on the surface, he is still very happy in his heart and feels that he is one step further away from you. Between people of the opposite sex, men often say this to you, and it is obvious that they are interested in you.

    Yes, a man who spends money for a woman does not necessarily love her. If he doesn't want to spend money on a woman, then he certainly doesn't love her. So, if a man often gives a woman a gift, even if it is not too expensive, but after careful selection, the man will also say to the woman:

    If you like the gift, it's fine. "He feels that it is his honor to raise a woman, he will not care about money, and he will not let women give anything back. The things he buys for women are all willing, and as long as the women like them, the men will give them away.

    When a man is always stingy and feels terrible to spend a small amount of money on a woman, he actually doesn't love a woman at all. When you fall in love with someone, your salary card will be given to the person immediately, let alone a gift to her.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is a tactful rejection of you, which means that this boy does not particularly like you, and this boy is not good at refusing, so he will say such things.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This is a promise. If a guy doesn't like you, he will say no directly, and if he says something like that, it means that he is interested in you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This should be a refusal, and if he promises you, he will tell you very clearly and will not choose to use this way.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What he means is that he wants to wait for you to sober up and then say that he is afraid that you will not admit it after you wake up, not to reject you, but to think that the confession should be taken seriously.

    When you confess to a boy, what does it mean that the boy did not agree or refuse at this time? In fact, there are still a few meanings, and I will say my personal opinion below, just for your reference. First of all, you confessed to a boy, and at this time, the boy neither promised you nor rejected you, the best result.

    It's this guy who doesn't like you, but he thinks you're a good friend, so he didn't agree, because he was afraid that he would hurt you in the future because he told you the reason, but why didn't he refuse you. Because he is afraid that rejecting you will cause you direct harm in the future, so the best outcome is this.

    The second is that this boy did not agree or refuse, it is very likely that he is choosing, such a choice is that there are many such girls around him, he is observing everyone, these people are girls who have confessed to him for him, so such a boy because there are too many such girls around him, so he does not agree or refuse, because he does not want to let go of any possibility, so that he will find what he thinks is the best.

    In the end, why did he not agree or refuse after you confessed to the boy, because he probably wanted to maintain an ambiguous state with you, because he likes this state, but it is not limited to you alone, maybe he maintains this ambiguous relationship with many people, so he neither agrees nor refuses, just hang you like this, and you will continue to be ambiguous with him, which is also a possibility, and there are many such phenomena now.

    So after confessing to you and a boy, the other party did not agree or refuse, so you have to pay attention, because it is very likely that you will become a spare tire or a third party, many times many people find out that they have such a problem after a long time, but it is too late at that time, so you should pay attention to this question at the beginning of the relationship, you must answer it exactly, if it is clear, you also have to observe whether it is what you imagined.

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