If your in laws don t give you a bride price, will you marry? Is the bride price that important?

If my in-laws don't give a bride price, I will marry, because I won't ask for a bride price when I get married, marriage is a matter of two people, and it is not a marriage of sale, why should I ask for a bride price, I don't think the bride price is important, and it can't explain anything.

I think if my in-laws don't give me a bride price, I will still choose to marry, because what I like is only my husband, and the bride price is not so important, as long as my husband cares about me.

I shouldn't get married. Because the bride price is an attitude, it is still very important for the woman, after all, the attitude is not good before marriage, so it will not be good after marriage.

The bride price is not important, what matters is the hearts of the people! Before marriage, both men and their parents can be false to you, but the bride price will not play with you and will not play fake with the man! Who is a woman going to marry and what kind of in-laws are she looking for, just talk about the bride price!

The bride price is also a guarantee that he will not marry, and it is also an attitude of the man, if he really cares, you will not be counted as the bride price.

I don't want to get married, I think the bride price is very important, and if my mother-in-law doesn't give the bride price, I will think that my mother-in-law doesn't like me.

The bride price is really not as important as character, my woman took the initiative to marry naked, but was slapped in the face, it turned out that the man was my prey from the beginning, digging a pit and waiting for me to fall in....

Yes. When I became an adult, I didn't reach the level of bride price

This kind of person is a lazy person, don't worry about having no money, never want to marry a daughter-in-law, even if you marry a daughter-in-law, you can't last long.

I didn't give a bride price to the old woman when I got married, so I didn't recognize her! I don't need a mother-in-law, she needs her daughter-in-law to spend money to marry, it's my business!

Marriage is the union of two families and requires respect and understanding from both parties. If the in-laws ask for the same amount of dowry as the bride price, it is recommended to fully communicate and negotiate with your other half to determine the willingness and ability of both parties. This approach is not necessarily unacceptable if the bride price and dowry are equal in quantity and value and both parties can afford it, and there are no legal and moral problems.

However, if the dowry is unequal, too high or unreasonable, or if the other party uses it to extort or attempt to infringe on his or her rights, he should decisively refuse and seek appropriate solutions to avoid adverse effects on the marriage and future life.

Of course, we should agree to ......reasonable requestsAnd for unreasonable demands, we can refuse ......But the mother-in-law Zhaotong is an elder after all, so she needs to be tactful when refusing Tan Mao's request and Xintan's request.

Personally, I don't value the bride price, and I don't agree with the idea that the amount of the bride price will determine how much your in-laws care about you.

Personally, I think that the degree to which your in-laws care about you will not change because of the amount of the bride price, but if you ask your in-laws for a sky-high bride price, they may really decide how much you care, because you want too high, and your in-laws originally attached great importance to you, but now because your bride price is too high, they don't care about you, but I personally tend to have no intrinsic connection with the degree to which your in-laws care about you and the amount of the bride price, just like a person, if he loves you, he loves you, I think your in-laws care about you or not, mainly depending on how you behave after marriage, if you are unreasonable after marriage, you have to be unreasonable, you are unreasonable, you are calculated everywhere, revealing the city, crying, making trouble and hanging yourself, making the family restless, then even if you are married at that time do not want a bride price, then do you think your in-laws will care about you? If you are married, all relationships are handled properly, you are everywhere, you are empathetic, you are diligent and thrifty, and you are responsible for yourself; Forgive others with a heart of forgiveness, family harmony, and a full house of children and grandchildren, so even if you asked for a sky-high bride price when you got married, do you think your in-laws will despise you? The water is wide and the fish is sinking, so why do you need to look for it?

On the one hand, if you ask for a bride price, you can make the happy event more joyful, and you can also let the ancient Chinese custom continue, so you can have, but, on the other hand, in some people's reckless demand for a sky-high bride price, then the bride price has changed again, and even become a stick beating mandarin duck, and the custom of every family to imitate has made this ancient Chinese custom taste different, which is a reason for nothing. Therefore, I think that in contemporary society, we should not take the bride price too seriously, let alone rely on the amount of the bride price as the basis for the in-laws to care about what degree they are.

Some people think that the in-laws pay more attention to you than how much bride price they give, I don't think so, this depends on what status your husband puts you in the family, even if there is no bride price, your husband loves you very much and values you very much, and his parents will be the same as him.

I would value the bride price. Because I think the bride price is very important, it is a kind of recognition of myself by my in-laws, so I will attach great importance to the issue of bride price.

I value the bride price very much, because I think this is also an attitude of my in-laws, if they like me very much, they will give me a high bride price.

I would pay special attention to the bride price as a man's recognition of the woman. If the other party doesn't do it, it means that the other party still doesn't care about themselves very much.

Most of the people who ask for the bride price are marriage cheats.

No. First, I didn't recognize you as a daughter-in-law, after all, the girl is also a little padded jacket raised by her parents for so many years, and she doesn't pay if she is worn away by others, so she doesn't care about you.

Second, the family conditions are not good, and the man's family does not give the bride price because of poor economic ability, unwilling to spend more money, and wants to pick up a daughter-in-law, such a family will not have a good life after marriage.

Third, the man doesn't love you enough, the bride price is more or less a kind of etiquette, in ancient times, from the emperor to the common people, there were three media and six appointments, and eight sedan chairs, which also shows that the man does not take your family seriously, and it also shows that he does not love you enough.

Fourth, don't be blinded by the chicken soup of rhetoric, not giving a bride price and not giving a bride price are two concepts, if you are more nervous now, and then give a reason to give something when you have money, it is empty words, in the case that the other party has more brothers and sisters, maybe there will be no future.

There are more naked marriages in today's society, but how many are happy in the end. The purpose of asking for a bride price is not the goal, but the purpose is to see how much the man's family attaches importance to him and the guarantee of his married life. But it is not a blind pursuit of bride price and neglect of love and family affection.

Generally speaking, the bride price is a gift from the man to the woman on the condition of marriage, and may need to be returned if the marriage is not married in the end or divorced after marriage, and the circumstances that meet the requirements of the law may need to be returned; The dowry is a gift from the woman's parents to the woman and belongs to the woman's personal property before marriage.

If the woman asks the man to give a bride price, she should prepare a dowry, and if she is not prepared to let the woman marry empty-handed, she may be disliked by the man's family.

Many people in modern society have started a naked marriage life, to put it bluntly, there is no deposit, no house, no dowry, no bride price, the two of them are because you love me, I love you, and then go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get married, in this case, it doesn't matter, but if the woman's family asks the man to give the bride price, and also asks for a specific amount, then the woman must prepare the dowry, when you ask the man at the same time, the man will definitely ask the woman, even if he didn't say it at the time, but the heart will definitely make a comparison.

If the woman has no dowry and marries empty-handed and becomes someone's wife, then the man's mother, that is, the woman's future mother-in-law, will definitely use words to beat the woman in the future, in this case, the man will also be affected by his mother and relatives, as long as you quarrel over trivial things, you will jump out if you don't have a dowry, although it is a thing, but it hurts, in order to stop the mouth of the dowry.

In addition, if the woman does not ask for the bride price but the man insists on giving it, then the woman can decide according to her family situation, and it doesn't matter if she is prepared or not.

Some of the woman's family members will not ask for the bride price, because they feel that as long as the man can be good to his daughter for a lifetime, it will be fine, and his family situation is not rich, so it doesn't matter whether the bride price is there, in this case, it depends on the man's wishes, and many men will prepare a rich bride price to show their sincerity in order to make the woman look up in front of relatives.

In fact, in this case, the man or the man's family recognizes the woman, and they should all know the specific situation of the woman's family, so even if the woman does not have a dowry, it is nothing, after all, people know that you are in this situation and are willing to give a bride price, which means that they have taken a fancy to you.

That's for sure, after all, this is a tradition that has not been passed down from our nation for thousands of years.

There is a certain reason for continuing to this day, on the one hand, the mother's family has face, and on the other hand, it is also to express his love for his daughter.

According to general custom, this is indeed the case. Moreover, the amount of the bride price and the amount of the dowry are spliced into the hearts of both parties.

This is a kind of mutual exchange between men and women when they get married, in fact, there is no need to take everything too seriously, as long as two people are together.

If a boy gives a bride price, in fact, a girl must also give a dowry, because this can reflect the fairness of marriage, but it also depends on their actual situation.

Personally, I think that if the man wants to give the bride price, the woman must give it, otherwise it will be unfair.

Recently, before getting married, a woman had an unhappy reputation with her in-law because of the bride price, and the woman's mother's family took the initiative to add 200,000 yuan to the dowry, and finally let the young couple get married. However, such a thing looks domineering, in fact, the girl's side is too much of a loss, and the bride price itself is less than the dowry, and as a result, she has to continue to add dowry, everyone asks this woman, does this man have to marry? In fact, whether it is a bride price or a dowry, it can be accepted, but it depends on the circumstances under which it is received and what the bride price is used for.

First of all, we all say that marriage should pay attention to the right family, which is actually very important, because if the gap between the two families is huge, it is actually very difficult to discuss things, such as the most common phoenix man and the rich daughter together, the daughter must want everything is good, but the man's family can't afford this money, and don't want others to say that he eats soft rice, so the two sides will definitely encounter a lot of contradictions and frictions, and even the man's bride price can't afford it, so if the door is not the right one, Actually, it's better not to get married.

Secondly, the bride price is actually a bad habit culture, whether the bride price is collected or not, it is actually a problem, because most of the girls in our country are "married out", and the bride price gives people the feeling that they have sold their daughters, but if they do not receive the bride price, the daughter will still marry into someone else's house to serve her husband and in-laws, and if the bride price is not collected, it will be a greater loss for this part of the girl's family, so what we advocate is that young people live separately from their parents.

The best way is to have the same amount of dowry and bride price, the money is used to buy a new house for the young couple, so that they can not only follow the customs, but also be able to use the money in practice, and the most important thing is that no one takes advantage of anyone, after all, the money is a thing that belongs to the clearer the better, the two sides are nothing more than money and things and minds, if both are similar, 99% of the trouble can be avoided in the future.

I don't think we should ask for a ruler, especially not to exalt the very expensive bride price, because the bride price is a bad habit and disturbs the social atmosphere of respect, so it should be eliminated.

The 200,000 dowry given by her mother-in-law's family didn't ask for it at all, but gave her 200,000 yuan to marry to run her own small family, just to give the rough brother and daughter enough confidence, and not to let Jingtuan's mother-in-law look at Yan Raid.

I don't think I should ask for it, but the man can't help but give it, which also represents how much the man attaches importance to the woman.

Personally, I think that when getting married, the bride price should be discussed with each other, there is no reference value, and it is necessary to read the root and annihilate the grandson according to the economic situation of his own family, and his mother's family can also earn back a few thin noodles by doing this.