Why do many parents prefer to go into debt to meet their daughters in law s requirements?

We all know that getting married today is really delayering their parents, especially in rural areas. The bride price is high and the requirements are too many to become an indisputable fact of the current wedding. So, many people have raised questions, many parents would rather borrow money to meet their daughter-in-law's requirements for marriage, even if it is not within their means, even if they are in debt, why is this?

Visitor: No way!

I interviewed many parents whose sons have been married, and their answers to this seem to be surprisingly consistent, nothing more than the following three reasons, which is really distressing and helpless, pity the hearts of parents all over the world!

First: the influence of traditional concepts.

We all know that China is a country with a strong cultural heritage, and since ancient times, most of the major marriages of children have been handled by parents. In ancient times, the words of the matchmaker who paid attention to the orders of their parents are now free to fall in love, but that is only to allow young people to choose their marriage partners freely, and the real operation still needs to be presided over by parents.

So many times, parents feel that it is their responsibility and obligation to hold a marriage event for their son, no matter how difficult it is, they must also help their son complete the last big thing. Only parents who have handled their son's marriage are considered qualified parents.

Second: love the child and meet all the requirements of the child.

I believe that every child is the heart and soul of parents, parents can't wait to give their best to their children, and for their children's marriage, parents are even more so that as long as their children can be comfortable and happy, it doesn't matter if they are bitter or tired. Therefore, as long as it is the object of his son's fancy, no matter what the woman asks, no matter how unreasonable it is, even if she is desperate, she must help her son and daughter-in-law realize it, and there are not a few such parents.

Third: There are more men and fewer women, and it is lucky to have a partner to marry a son.

Nowadays, due to the imbalance between men and women, many rural singles cannot marry a daughter-in-law, and because of this, girls are rising and asking for sky-high prices. As for the parents, they feel that it is good for their son to be married, and they dare to bargain, if they don't make a mistake, they are someone else's, so they ask for reasonable or unreasonable, and they accept all the orders, only to break their teeth and swallow them in their stomachs.

Because such parents feel that after meeting their daughter-in-law's requirements, she will wholeheartedly be good with her children and take care of the whole family.

Personally, I think that money can be earned, but for feelings, money can't buy it, and if you miss it, it may never be the same again, so you will be in debt to meet the requirements.

This is because many parents feel very sorry for their sons and also want their daughters-in-law to take care of their sons, so they must meet their daughters-in-law's requirements even if they are in debt.

Because they want to have a good relationship with their daughter-in-law. If they don't have a good relationship with their daughter-in-law, it may affect their relationship with their son.

Because they all want their sons to have a happy family to continue their offspring.

Because only when the daughter-in-law is satisfied, the son can be good, so in order to make the son comfortable and for the harmony of their small family, the parents are willing to pay.